By Good Looking Loser on Monday, 03 June 2013
Category: Approach Anxiety Program

Approach Anxiety Program - Week 7

Libertad (Get Liberated) - Week 7

Welcome to Week 7.

Onward to Pussy.

Before we jump into any new stuff, we need to solidify what you experienced last week.

Some of the drills from last week are almost identical to how I approach women.

There's more physical dialogue and the interaction is longer [on some], but the initial 30 seconds are basically EXACTLY the same to Day 46.

Lets Talk Week 7-

First off, congrats for making it here.

If it's been shaky, I'm not opposed to you doing Week 6 ALL OVER AGAIN.

It's the guys that REALLY complete that week that succeed.

I don't have to remind you how closely this translates to real approaching.

Hopefully you haven't been turning the drills into indirect approaches, so you can really feel what it's like to approach a women fairly aggressively without outcome dependence (because you leave).

We'll build on that this week.

The dominant attitude I want you to have this week is-

"I've done this a million times."

While you haven't done this a million times, you've probably consistently talked to more women in the past 7+ weeks than you have in your entire life.

The various reactions to get should seem very predictable by now.

Approaching/Online Dating

At this point in the program, you are allowed to approach women.

You should have the "skill" to do so in a fairly direct manner.

You probably won't be able to "aggressively" hit on girls, so that is what we are going to work on the in the next few weeks.

If you are approaching women, you don't have to do the online dating.

If you aren't- I suggest either sticking with the online dating or doing the drills at least 2 or 3 times.

Remember beating Approach Anxiety isn't like "passing a test" where you can just forget everything you learned, because you never actually learned it and it didn't matter. This is something that you proactively need to BEAT and success isn't defined by simply getting past the drills.

Hit on 30+ girls this week.
(either Online or In Person)

Audio Week 7: (16:43)

Audios for Day 48-55. mp3/iPod compatible: Download Approach Anxiety Audios Week 7.zip

Approach Anxiety Week 7 Video:
"The Fuck It Moment"

Approach Anxiety Day 48

Bodyguard addition.

Today were are just going to expand on what you've already done before.

In week 2, we expanded on asking a girl "time" and "directions," you are quite past that point obviously.

We'd like to get it to the point where walking up to a girl and telling her she's attractive and touching her is as easy and natural as asking for "time" and "directions".

So that's what we're gonna do.

Remember- You've done this before. Everything except the 3rd part.

Day 48 Drill (Level 6)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

Audio Day 48 (22:01)

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 49

Get used to touching from the start.

If you are going to effectively and efficiently screen women, we need to get you used to touching women.

Early and often, especially if you are hitting on girls at night.

The amount of touching you do today will probably be more than you ever have in the first 30 seconds of an interaction.

Lucky for you- you are going to leave right after.

This type of drill will really show you that you will still get the same predictable responses, even when you are more aggressive.

Day 49 Drill (Level 6)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

Audio Day 49 (20:15)

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

 

Approach Anxiety Day 50

Don't Think I'm Cute Too?

Lets continue, shall we?

Today we going to introduce some vulnerability back into the drill.

Tell the chick she's cute/attractive and request to be told so yourself

What usually happens is... wait never mind- you're a big boy now. I don't need to tell you.

Day 50 Drill (Level 6)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

Audio Day 50 (26:24)

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 51

Attractive, Annoying Stranger.

If the third part of yesterday's drill was tough, I suggest you go back and repeat Day 50 because you will be going from 0 to 100 today.

Remember- You've done this a million times.
In reality- you have done this quite a bit.

Day 51 (Drill 7)

The challenging part of today's drill is finishing it, some girls will make the attempt to leave.

You need to stick with them and get your handshake.

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

Audio Day 51 (31:06)

Here's me doing the drill-

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 52

Broken record.

If you've legitimately given the effort and made it to Day 52, no matter how long it's taken you, today might be easy and a lot of fun.

Today's drill combines an aggressive approach with the "I'm just fucking with you" mentality.

It's the first we've done that and you'll more than likely be ready for it.

I don't even have to remind you that you've done this a million times.
It will feel like 2 million after today.

Day 52 Drill (Level 7)

Have fun.

Yes, you are going to be introducing yourself over-and-over-and-over.

Try not to laugh. :)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

Audio Day 52 (32:01)

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 53 (Groups)

Same shit. 2+ Girls.
Do this at night, if you want.

We haven't really had a ton of drills involving groups of girls.

I'll discuss why it's not super necessary in the audio.

For the purpose of developing social freedom and taking taking phone numbers it's definitely necessary.

In terms of the future, GETTING LAID, on approach in 10-30 minutes, the logistics are a lot worse if you are approaching girls during the day.

There's less than a handful of daytime scenarios where you can reasonably pluck girls away from their friends. I've done it numerous times at the beach and at concerts.

But girls at the mall with their friends, for example, odds are pretty unlikely that a girl is going to leave her friends to go have sex with random guy.

I'm not saying it's impossible- I'm saying you are better off hitting on girls that are ALONE if you are seriously looking GET LAID during the day.

When you approach groups during the day, especially if you don't have a place right nearby, your game plan should probably be to take the girl(s) number.

As for the drills, I encourage you to just go up to the girls and do the drill.

BARGE RIGHT IN.

Sometimes it's smooth, sometimes it's not. How you look and if the girl is available dictates the outcome most of the time.

That's how it is done in "real" life.

Don't let the fact that one other girl is standing there silently mess you up.

You can totally ignore her or slightly acknowledge her. Whatever you want to do.

On some of the drills you going to engage her immediately after you talk to the 1st girl.

When you start approaching girls for real you'll usually have to show you're cool by engaging her friends by being friendly, polite and flattering.

But for now- just do whatever you want.

Remember- IT MATTERS when YOU give a girl a compliment.
Or at least slowly try to feel that way, you might have to talk to some below-average girls to reinforce it.

Day 53 Drill (Level 7)

Just remember- this is like any other day.

The only difference is that there is another girl standing there that's going to be jealous that you are talking to her prettier friend. No big deal.

Do the drill.

You can do the drill one girls and then turn and do it on the other.

Or you can do each step on each girl, bouncing between (girl 1, girl 2, girl 1, girl 2). This is harder.

Audio Day 53 (xx:xx)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 54

What normal aggressive guys do.

Of my friends in Florida, Los Angeles, New York and Washington DC that get a lot of action - half have DO EXACTLY THIS.

My sexy little roommate always tell me guys hit on them (cause they know I'm into this stuff) and the vast majority of the time it's either "hi, what's you name?" or "hi I'm [name]".

They just introduce themselves, usually without even saying "Hi," 'Hi, I know this is random," or anything else.

All it is, is-

"HI, I'M CHRIS." (hand extended)

That might appear strange (no introduction?) but hot girls sort of accept it and know right away that my friends are hitting on them. To girls it looks way confident most of the time.

It particularly makes sense at night after you have made eye contact with a girl but I've seen them do it doing the day at grocery stores and just on the street.

If it was a choice of running "pick up artist" game versus having a guy just walk up to 50 girls and saying "Hi, I'm [name]" and seeing how they responded.

Day 54 Drill (Level 7)

Don't let the context affect you. You've actually done this probably 150 times now.

DO NOT COUNT THE DRILL IF YOU DON'T SHAKE HER HAND.

This can be a long drill if you aren't in a crowded city, break it up into 2 days.

Audio Day 54 (22:37)

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

Approach Anxiety Day 55

What normal more aggressive guys do.

Yesterday, you basically did what "normal" guys do.

They basically repeat that over and over until they get laid.

Simple right?

That's not much different than what I do.

There's some more touching up front and a game plan of where I'm going to take the interaction (girl).

I'll repeat it until I find a girl that's available and has the time.

Remember- "getting laid" is simply 2 people that think each other look good/cool enough and have the time and place to have sex.

You can mostly control - how good you look and the place to have sex.

You can't control - her availability on that given day.

Of my friends that are "normal" guys who get a lot of ass (I'd estimate 20+ in the sack/yr.) very few of them are "aggressive,' per our definition (touching girls early and often). Very few of them "screen" girls per definition. Most of them make normal conversation and when they think the girl likes them - their KILLER INSTINCT kicks in.

Aggressive to "normal" guys entails-

  1. Talking to a lot of girls
  2. Being verbally aggressive (sexual speak)

I personally think that #2 isn't super necessary if you just touch girls, touching them early says more than 1000 words.

Still, I want you to become comfortable with complimenting/propositioning girls in a sexual type way- beyond saying they are "attractive" or "cute".

Whether or not this ultimately fits your style- it doesn't matter now.

Lets stretch your comfort zone for a few more weeks.

Day 55 Drill (pre-Level 7)

DO NOT COUNT THE DRILL IF YOU DON'T SHAKE HER HAND.

Make sure to STOP the girl.

LOOK HER IN THE EYE AND SAY "YOU'RE SEXY."

♥ Do What You Want Principle Active

This one, like yesterday, can take awhile, feel free to split it up- but no longer than 3 days.

Audio Day 55 (27:18)

My friends that do this are more of the "scumbag" types and that's why they land 30+ girls a year.

You said you want to get laid, right?

Even if you don't want to be a total scumbag, you WILL need to be comfortable with most of the mentalities.

If you were unable to do the drill or weren't happy with your performance (NOT the reactions you got) - feel free to repeat this day.

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