GLL is back (just on Youtube for now) -

https://www.youtube.com/@GLL-TALKS/videos

Business, Relationships, Life and Where I've Been For 7 Years

- Chris

Good Looking Loser In 3500 Words

Unfortunately, I haven't posted in quite some time.

My other businesses have gone absolutely wild and I've been highly dedicated to trying to Keep Kratom Legal as well.

I love this website and all of you, it's a work of self-expressive introspective art.

Therapeutic too.

It's been a while since I've published anything on Good Looking Loser (there's been a few posts on Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser however).

I've been flying around the country in the past few months.

Some business, some pleasure, some neither. 

Per your suggestion, I downloaded several seasons of the hit series, "Californication" (free via Prime), to watch on the plane.

The show was really popular between 2007-2012, many of the same years that I was living my own version of Californication.(aka sleeping with a lot of random women in Los Angeles)

These are my final thoughts on beating approach anxiety.

It's the single biggest reason that most guys don't have options beyond girls they already know. 

So long as you LOOK GOOD (above-average), you can Get Laid as much as you want once you can TALK TO GIRLS.

How to Beat Approach Anxiety by Being a Man(this video largely covers the content and this post with some extra discussion and personal stories)

Also available (like most of the other videos/audios) here on Soundcloud.

Update (March 2016) I apologize for the slow content over the past year. I have been so busy but I am going to change this. I'm appointing a new CEO to Happy Hippo so I can focus on Good Looking Loser and my new company, "Red Supplements - Supplements That Actually Work" (try our coffee via Amazon, it will be the best or 2nd best coffee you've ever had). I have been trying to do all 3 for the last 6 months.

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Oh great...

Another stupid "How to Last Longer In Bed" Internet article written by some inexperienced sex doctor, undersexed Internet marketer or geeked out goofy working for a content recycling farm. 

Not quite. 

The scope of this discussion is limited to How to Get Laid and doesn't focus on relationships, intelligence or building an 'Elite Lifestyle' via financial success. It has nothing to do with being 'well-rounded' or achieving your 'overall potential'. It is simply a discussion on what it actually takes to be 'Elite' or at least better than everyone you know at Getting Laid. I will cover 'lifestyle' aspects some other time. They are not entirely similar. You can be a loser with no direction in life and Get Laid plenty.

I don't do many "game" posts anymore and this will probably be the last one specifically devoted to "understanding game theory".

It's pretty easy to understand if you are a semi-normal human.

Over 2 years ago, I first discussed my "B+ Above-Average Theory".

This concept has been repeated around our community many times but I haven't discussed it in-depth since.

This discussion below focuses on coming to grips with your financial status (or lack thereof). It is not about moral dilemmas. It is aimed at guys ages ~18-35 (largely 18-30) who want to prioritize their sex life but can't fully commit. If you are older than 35, I do not suggest prioritizing 'Getting Laid'. You should be pursuing a relationship with women that are past their party stage.

The 'Red Pill' teaches us to go our own way, do what we want and not care what other people think.

It's harder than advertised though.

It sure as hell was for me.

In fact, I feel I wasted an entire year when I was part of an expensive 'pick up program' because I wasn't fully committed and often felt I should be focusing on establishing a career.(the year wasn't actually a waste, I slept with 12 women and learned so much that eventually became 'Good Looking Loser')

Is This the Year You Lose Your Virginity?

That's up to you.

You know it's doable.

We have the most simple, realistic, low-risk, ego-friendly plan to lose your virginity. 

It completely skips over "beating approach anxiety", "building a social circle" or going out to socially competitive bars and clubs.

The Very Best of Good Looking Loser 2015

2015 was a truly awesome year for me, nearly everything exceeded expectations.(Scotty is still sober and doing well)

Life is beyond excellent and I owe each and everyone of you guys a monster THANK YOU.

Still, I didn't get up as much Good Looking Loser and Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser content in 2015 as I wanted. Some people think that the lack of weekly material is evidence that I'm on 'cruise control', that I've run out of 'ideas' or that I've just stopped caring as much.

All 3 are very much the complete opposite.

If you have never had visible abdominal muscles (<8% body fat), you have no idea what you are missing.

It has nothing to do with abs though.

Let me explain and show you over 40 pictures.

Girls Want to Fuck the Above-Average Guy

You probably have heard of my "Above-Average" Sex Appeal Theory.

7.5 Ways to Hook Up With Chicks You Aren't Super Attracted to and Gain Much Needed Experience

I used to have absurdly high standards.

It was one of the main reasons I didn't Get Laid as much as I should have in my 20's.

Starting in 2008-ish, I finally reconciled my ego with my undersexed reality and "lowered my standards". I started getting more action and was slowly able to increase my standards almost back to where they were to begin with.(on average, when you start, the girls you get from 'cold approach' will be less attractive than those in your peer groups you have fucked in the past)

Let's discuss.

The majority of this post is based on what I learned in 2005-2006, the 'Bodybuilding Junk Food Era'.disclaimer: Many bodybuilders exaggerate just how much fast food they eat by posting pictures on Instagram of their huge cheat meals. Not very many serious bodybuilders eat fast food more than 1 or 2 times a day however.

I often rip on the Bodybuilding Lifestyle (for non-competitive bodybuilders who are solely trying to look good for chicks). Most guys who spend over 10 hours/week in the gym (and an additional 25+ hours in the kitchen) just don't Get Laid much. Some don't even have any human contact other than the handful of people that they nod to at the gym.

I've been there.

But the fact of the matter is - 

Most bodybuilders/gym rats actually have VERY GOOD potential with women - they are already in better shape than the average guy, they already look masculine, they have a strong work ethic and an automatic "in" with cute fitness girls.

How to Pick Up Girls Efficiently(For Guys That Think Hitting On A Lot of Girls Is Stupid)

Not everyone has the time or desire to prioritize Getting Laid for 2-3 years in their 20's.

Some guys simply don't care that much about getting a ton of pussy but still want to Get Laid without turning their lifestyle upside-down.

Here is what you can do if you just want a decent sex life with minimal effort.

"How to Pick Up Girls Efficiently (If You Don't Want to Hit On A Lot of Chicks)"

Welcome to Part 2 of our 2-part series "How to Get Rid of Anxiety Without Doing Drugs (15 Natural Non-Mainstream Ways)".

We are discussing several ways we can give ourselves an endorphin rush without reaching for a shot glass or bong.

Let's continue, shall we?

#9 Play Around With Aromatherapy

When I say "Aromatherapy", I actually mean Aromatherapy.

Welcome to Part 1 of 2-part series "How to Get Rid of Anxiety Without Doing Drugs (75 Natural Non-Mainstream Ways)".

Over a year ago, I started to write up a post "How To Get That Endorphin Kick" on Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser as part of a non-mainstream list for guys with general anxiety or guys following the "Kratom Lifestyle" (also known as taking Kratom everyday by rotating multiple strains to avoid tolerance and significant dependence). 

For whatever reason, I never finished that list. 

I also had another list going called, "Orthodox and Unorthodox Ways to Combat Mild to Moderate Anxiety" (similar to "34 Orthodox and Unorthodox Ways to Get Motivation to Hit the Gym") too.

When I looked at both lists, I realized there were a lot of crossover suggestions that were equally useful for both. 

Gorilla Mindset by Mike Cernovich 

Here are my thoughts on "Gorilla Mindset", Mike Cernovich's long-awaited book which covers how to implement the core principles of his website, "Danger & Play".

I'm not going to bore you with a long traditional review or try to downplay the fact that Mike and I are friends and I want this project to be super successful for him.

We'll talk about some other things but -

Yes, I want you to check out his book.

How Getting Laid Should Fit Into Your 20's(Prioritize Women So You Never Have to Again)

While working on our recently published series "How to Go Out to Bars Alone (If You Are Scared)", I stumbled upon a topic that required its own discussion altogether.

In fact, it's probably long overdue.  

I take immense pride and responsibility in the privilege being able to help shape your 20's.

I'm more lucky to have you guys than you are to have me.

This doable program is meant to help anyone who can't or has trouble going out alone at night. It is structured so that guys with virtually no experience can succeed too.  

Although there are many shades of gray, when it comes to really Getting Laid, there are two types of guys -

Either you can do it or you can't.

Either you know you can or you don't.

The vast majority of guys can't.

Welcome to Part 8, the final part of our series "How to Go Out Alone to Bars".

We sure have covered a lot of stuff huh?

Fuck.

I'm going to answer some miscellaneous questions that I've been asked and also leave you with some thoughts.

I appreciate you reading my series. By the way.

Welcome to Part 7 of our series "How to Go Out Alone to Bars".

We are going to discuss 'moodiness' and talk about how to handle it and how much it really matters.

Like I mentioned earlier, after you get reasonably comfortable with going out by yourself, your mood or "state" will be the main factor in how your night goes.

You will "lose" more chicks to being in a sour mood than to anxiety.

So yes, your mood is very important.

We're going to discuss some miscellaneous issues, largely relevant after you finish our "How to Go Out Alone" program when you are going out solely to Get Laid.

These are the 6 Most Important Things to keep in mind.

#1 The Majority of Girls Are Not Down to Fuck You or Anyone Else

Remember this.

Girls first go out to dress up for attention.

You've made it to the beginning of the end of our program "How to Go Out Alone to Bars".

I really want you to finish the job.

Remember, there's 2 types of guys -

You are on your way to group 1. 

If you weren't happy with your performance in Week 8, please go back and get the job done right.

Hopefully you haven't skipped the The First Month because you felt it was too easy.

If you are truly following our program, by now, you've been out by yourself at least 12 times.

Hopefully more.

You should be proud.

Really.

Welcome to the first month of our "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" program.

The first month of this program is fairly easy and is largely meant to give guys a reason to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE and work on the very beginnings of controlled exposure therapy and the very very beginnings of Killer Instinct (aggressiveness). 

Killer Instinct, as you know, is the primary factor that separates guys that Get Laid a lot at night and the guys who end up with a bunch of phone numbers.

While you've always had the option of going out alone - it's not an easy task to "just go pick up girls" if you have approach anxiety.

In fact, going out by yourself at night and having a productive (let alone not miserable night) is virtually impossible.

Welcome to Part 2 of our "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" program.

We are going to discuss what you need to know and do if you are going to take this seriously.

This is very important.

This is what we are going to discuss -

There is Nothing "Normal" About This Program

Opportunity Means Nothing (Part 2)

In Part I of "Opportunity Means Nothing", I discussed 3 different perfect 'opportunities' I had in 2007 with the same, beautiful girl where I was too much of a pussy to pull the trigger (or do anything).

Worst of all, these 'opportunities' were literally handed to me and I just didn't have the balls to capitalize. 

And I knew it.

I literally watched each one slip through my hands, as I had so many times in my early 20's.

The Reason Might Surprise You...

Despite popular school, underachievement is not caused by the usual suspects - lack of work ethic, lack of opportunity or lack of talent.

The reason most people don't succeed with women (or much in their lives) is far more obvious and far more pathetic.

I know what your biggest obstacle is.

It's the reason why you'll never get your sex life together or reach your "dating goals". (whatever that means)

Saturday Nights (2002-2006) Were Worst Nights of My Life

This post is meant for those in their 20's who stayed home alone tonight, seemingly so far removed from the social scene and a sex life, comfortably marinating in self-doubt.

This is for you.

I've been there.

"Lonely Saturday Nights"(Me, Myself and Reality - Living Together in a One-Bedroom Apartment)

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Hey Losers -

We have a new YouTube channel to handle any/all video content from Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser, also known "Get-A-Life" -

Right now, there's only a handful of videos on there.

One shows the anti-aging 'Egg White Facial' that I think (only been doing in for ~3 months) to be useful. 

"Verbal Screening"(socially acceptable, non-crass ways to ask chicks to sleep with you)

updated: March 17 2019 - haha - "Netflix and Chill" was originally our 'idea', but now it's mainstream!

If you are home on this Saturday night, it better be with your fuckbuddy half-naked next to you while you both read Good Looking Loser. I spent way too many Saturday nights at home in my 20's. I regret it too.

If you can't talk to girls at night, just go out and see if you can make eye contact (+ smile) with girls or go watch other guys interact with random girls check out our program. Even if you don't say a word the entire time - it's better for your "game" than reading my disgraceful creepy blog.

I did a video (see below) and wasn't going to do a post on this 'common sense' topic but I decided it was a good idea that everyone see this.

Only $19.99!(just kidding... it's free)

Good news, in an otherwise shitty week (more on that another time), we finally got the Good Looking Loser - Mobile app approved for all major mobile platforms.

It's much better than our old app and more reader-friendly to read posts, watch videos and listen to podcasts.

It's lightening fast (unless you connection is absolutely terrible), displays high-resolution images and actually quite good.

If you have an iPhone, Droid, Tablet or anything else, you can download the app for free.(we will have a specialized Blackberry version coming out soon too)

Official Good Looking Loser Clothing(Made in the United States of America)

If you're a member of the forum, you probably already know about this - but I'm happy to officially announce that Good Looking Loser clothing is now available via our friends at BADWear.com -

Guys have been telling me to release some basic apparel for years and finally I got the opportunity to offer some high-quality gear that didn't require us to handle the shipping and customer service.

Unlike blog posts and how I look in YouTube videos, I'm actually a bit of a perfectionist when it comes to releasing my own products that you have to pay for, especially clothing.

The shirts are actually quite nice.

We Grant You Permission To NOT BE SMOOTH(The Most Important Concept on 'Get Laid' by Good Looking Loser)

Despite the enormous amount of [helpful if applied] content on Good Looking Loser, there are limitations on how much we can truly help you over the Internet.

I admit this without hesitation.

We simply cannot type words in a certain profound order that will significantly impact how your mind and body reacts when social tension is applied.

That is something you will have to leave the house to fix earn.

"Let a thousand flowers bloom, a hundred schools of thought contend"

if you've come to Good Looking Loser looking for the new post, it's here -

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The 100 Flowers Campaign (no one will die however)

In the past 6 weeks, the Good Looking Loser Community has enjoyed what is equivalent to our own little Golden Era.

"Rich Guy Game"How Wealthy Guys (or Not-Yet-Rich-Guys) Can Score Points Without Looking Like Total Jerks

This discussion, albeit somewhat overdue, was inspired by a message from a certain GLL VIP.

He writes -(paraphrase for length, removed personal information)

Hey GLL-

Im 33 yrs. Old and have a lot of money, some inherited, some earned with online business. I’m worth well over 3 millions dollars, live in a nice apartment right here in LA and drive a Bentley.

You're Fucked Up, But At Least You Admit It

Unlike in my early/mid-20's, in my wise old age (32), I'm not a huge fan/believer in "teaching" or "learning" motivation.

Why I Don't Really Focus On Trying to Motivate Guys

I used to be all about motivation. 

I used to be the kid searching for motivation in bodybuilding magazines, based-on-a-true story-but-exaggerated movies and later downloading and re-watching primitive 240p YouTube videos.

What Exactly Am I Doing This For?

Like yesterday, today was supposed to be an "off day".

I was going to sit around playing Civilization on Xbox360 and take over the world via brute force.(not an affiliate link)

Bring the entire world to it's knees. 

Enslave lesser races.

What You Have I Don't

I have an endless list of topics I need to write about -

But more often, I just end up discussing whatever is going on in my head that day, that's how I'm able to publish my best stuff. I'm not a great writer.

Sometimes - ideas just come to me.

But sometimes there's a certain incident that is the catalyst. 

Made in New York, Not Hollywood

Maybe it's my time of the month, but I've been on a roll with the emotional content, earlier this morning I wrote and published "What A Grammy Award Winning A-List Celebrity Told Me Me About Myself That Made Me Want To Cry" in one sitting.

I'm trying to ride the momentum, so here goes again -

- Scotty, the original "other" Good Looking Loser has officially announced his retirement [from teaching/the lifestyle].

I write this piece with a heavy heart, but a smile and not tears on my face.

Are You Really IN?(The REAL Law of "Attraction")

Despite the simplicity of the question, this is a deep subject.

Although I'm usually able to target and comprehensively simplify subjects such as 'Swag Factor' (coolness/status), 'Sense of Entitlement' (advanced confidence) and 'Killer Instinct' (game), this one is tricky.

It's also complex because despite the answer, (Yes/No) - everyone is in a different place and everyone will have a slightly different solution to the issue.

This subject is not a one-size-fits-all unfortunately. 

7 Habits Of Guys That Get Laid A Lot

This mini-series (Loser lifestyle edition coming soon) is the Good Looking Loser spin off the book "7 Habits of Highly Effective People",¤ which I have most certainly not read cover-to-cover.¤ not an affiliate link

I have read the most important parts of it though.

The impossible part of writing this post is to narrow down the 7 MOST SIGNIFICANT, ACTIONABLE habits.

There's about 7000+ habits.

Podcast with Chris Lend-a-hand (KingKratom)

Sorry for the late start to 2015.

Our washing machine decided to take a significant piss and flooded the apartment. A real mess. Water from the top floor of our place was coming through the vents and lights on the first floor.

Worse than that - trying to coordinate the repairs and communication between the cleaning company and my insurance adjuster has been harder than ordering delivery from a Chinese restaurant that doesn't employ anyone that fluently speaks English. It's next to impossible and it doesn't matter how many times you call.(that's not racist because I'm half-Asian)

Anyway... 

The Best of 2014

Welcome to 2015.

The best year of your life.

In this post I'll discuss the most popular/helpful posts of 2014, what's to come and a small glimpse of 'Get Paid' and how much Good Looking Loser makes.

and Away we go...

2015 - Special or More of the Same?

2008 was my breakout year.

It was a special year.

I went from Getting Laid 2 times in the prior ~2.5 years to sleeping with 12 girls (total).

More importantly to me, in November 2008, I also met my goal - weekly/10 day sex with 3 very attractive fuckbuddies in the same city. 

So What Prevents Bodybuilders From Fixing Their Shit?(Pride, Pride, Pride x 10,000)

In Part II of our series "Plight of the Lonesome Bodybuilder", I discussed the most common problems that "The Bodybuilder" faces and offered first-step solutions.

In this section, we'll discuss why most Bodybuilders will not make any effort to fix their sex life, but also offer hope to the small percentage that are willing to admit that the antisocial lifestyle is keeping them undersexed and that their body is not scoring them tons of hot girls.

Let's begin -

With solid potential and beatable 'problems', we would think that this Bodybuilder character would be willing to make the necessary changes/social improvements to have a good sex life that he actually yearns for.

The Main Problem(s) With Bodybuilders

In Part I of our series, "Plight of the Lonesome Bodybuilder", I discussed who "The Lonesome Bodybuilder" is and why he actually has pretty good potential with women if his emotional problems don't run too deep.

In this section, we're going to discuss the common mindsets, tendencies and self-imposed roadblocks that The Lonesome Bodybuilder faces.

More importantly, we'll offer a first-step solution to all of these.

Many lonely undersexed Bodybuilders aren't ready to hear this.(I'm plenty qualified to give advice on bodybuilding and how to escape it - I've done more juice than 99% of guys that are reading this. It was my entire life for 5.5 years.)

Why "Bodybuilders" Struggle With Women(and what to do about it)

Welcome to our 3-part series specifically aimed at "Bodybuilders".

If you consider yourself a "Bodybuilder" but can Get Laid a lot or you don't want to for some reason (and you aren't lying), you can largely ignore this.

If you consider yourself a "Bodybuilder" and have a slew of hot fitness girls trying to go out with you, you can largely ignore this.

You are not among the majority.

Recently, a Good Looking Loser forum member asked a good question -

How do some guys have rock hard immovable confidence?

What he meant was -

How can I develop super strong confidence?

The short answer is -

The Very Basics of Prenuptial Agreements(non-legal advice from the based lawyer)

note: This is not legal advice. Our guest, Mike, is a Los Angeles based attorney but you are not his client. Anything he says should be confirmed with your own attorney. The purpose of our discussion is to provide a decent overview of what you need to know BEFORE you get married and the questions to seek counsel on. For many, including myself, that is years away. But now is the perfect time to learn. This post is subject to our General Disclaimer and the content below is simply our opinions that you should discuss with your attorney.

Perhaps this isn't the typical intelligently immature Good Looking Loser post, but something that I feel ALL guys should know.

It's kind of a big deal and you should know what you are doing.

Foreword (Good Looking Loser)

Solving Mr. Friendly Man - The Extrovert With Social Anxiety

Social anxiety has more than one face.

Mr. Introverted Man

When most of us think of ‘anxiety’, we think of Mr. Introverted Man.

Mr. Introverted Man is shy.

Fall 2014 Charitable Efforts

I'm thrilled to announce that the Good Looking Loser community has raised and will be donating $2000 to the Palmetto Health Breast Center for this weekend's event: Walk/Race for Life in Columbia, South Carolina.

There are very few people that haven't seen or heard that a loved one was fighting cancer.

Myself included.

When I was in 4th grade, I lost my brother to cancer.

A Half Decade on the K-Train

As I mentioned in our popular Kratom Guide, insight on and a source of super high-quality Kratom is potentially the #1 thing I can offer you.

It may do more for your life than any legitimate male enhancement device. More for your life than every single page of dating/sex advice on this website. And More for your life than any sort of diet or lifestyle change.

Kratom will be absolutely life-changing for many.(there are so many positive experiences in the forum that I can't make a clickable list)

For others, it will simply be a wonderful, more healthful alternative to alcohol that makes them highly productive and relaxed, as Uncle Victor Pride describes.

Why You Aren't Getting Laid On First Dates

Before we jump into this subject, I want to make something clear -

If you are inexperienced - completely disregard the first part of this post.

Go out on as many dates as you can and try to go a little further with the girl each time.

That's how "serial daters" (guys that have a top ~5% sex life but don't necessarily "pick up" girls) get nasty good.

How to Lose Your Virginity

Welcome to Part V of our "How to Lose Your Virginity" series.

In Part IV, we discussed the "dating" process and what to do on each and every date.

Most guys will lose their virginity after Date #5 or #6; they are comfortable by then and the girls are ready.

Let's discuss the period after you lose your V-Card and some other potential issues that you should be mindful of.

How to Lose Your Virginity

Welcome to Part IV of our "How to Lose Your Virginity" series.

In Part III, we discussed how to efficiently message girls online, get their number and call them.

Now it's time to meet up with them.

Remember how I told you that "you are going to Get Laid for the first time, like most people Get Laid for the first time/in general"?

How to Lose Your Virginity

Welcome to Part III of our "How to Lose Your Virginity" series.

In the previous section, we talked about how you are going to meet girls and present yourself with Universal Appeal.

In this section, we are going to discuss how to efficiently message girls online, get their number and call them.

We'll discuss the "dates" in the next section.

How to Lose Your Virginity

Welcome to Part II of our "How to Lose Your Virginity" series.

In Part I, we discussed the biggest problem that Virgins face (lack of a Sense of Entitlement) and 4 specific things to keep in mind that will help you feel good enough about your chances to Get Laid for your first time. 

In this section, I'll explain how you are going to lose your virginity, slowly increase your 'Sense of Entitlement' and safeguard your fragile self-esteem.

You just need to follow this process until it happens.

How to Lose Your Virginity

For some of you, this will be the most important post you ever read.

Losing your virginity is literally your first step to having a sex life, ending a lifelong sexual 'slump', moving past years of frustration, underachievement and self-loathing that extends to several other areas of your life.

For some of you guys - this will be the start of a REALLY GOOD sex life.

For others - it will simply be validation that you can Get Laid and you can move on with your life.

Thank You!

I'll have a post (rather, series) coming out pretty soon -

How to Lose Your Virginity

It's an important one so I want to take my time on it. 

It will be the MOST IMPORTANT one to a lot of guys and I don't want to let you down.

Your Hair vs. Anabolic Steroids

This portion and the entire "Hair Loss Prevention Guide" is subject to our Medical Disclaimer. It is not medical advice nor the replacement for advice from a qualified physician.You should have a legitimate prescription to use anabolic steroids and must do so under a physician's supervision.This is for educational purposes ONLY and should be followed if approved by a physician.

Welcome to Part V of "Good Looking Loser's Hair Loss Prevention Guide".

The vast majority of this guide is featured on the safe-for-work website, Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser (GLL-GetALife.com), but this particular section is filed under 'Get Juiced' on GoodLookingLoser.com because it references anabolic steroids which is considered to be a 'mature' topic.

I highly suggest you check out the full guide if you are prone to Male Pattern Baldness and want to keep your hair -

How to Get Laid in 5 Minutes

disclaimer: Consider this all entertainment. Try this at your own liability and risk.

This is the type of stuff that you will only see on Good Looking Loser.

I've thrown a lot of bare-minimum/newbie "Nervous Guy Game" at you recently but this is the aggressive/dirty stuff that a lot of you guys signed up for.(by the way - our aggressive nighttime screening video is DONE and will be up within a week)

Whether you are into this or not, I suggest you listen to this.

How To Avoid Getting Whipped

This is something we all can relate to.

At least at some level.

Emotional attachment.

Particularly - rapid, extreme emotional attachment that drives you insane and drives away the new girl you like.

A Long Story on Female Indecision

This is long.

Even by our standards.

Female psychology is no small topic.

Just ask any girl - she's complicated.

THE GOLDEN ERA(of Perpetual Peace and Complete Indifference)

When does this shit actually become fun?

When will I actually stop caring about the reactions I get from girls?

When will I actually being screening women?

When will I get wildly successful with women and never look back?

Why You Aren't Getting Laid

This is a shorter post, even though you've told me that you prefer the comprehensive ones -

There's no reason why this one needs to be too in-depth.

I'm going to tell you something that I wish I heard when I was your age.

Although, when I was your age, I probably wouldn't have listened.

Brian on RxMuscleTV #77

Brian was on Dave Palumbo's show tonight.

Dave was extremely influential on Brian's bodybuilding career, Brian was actually Dave's protege in his early 20's. 

Brian's pre-contest diet was written by Dave.

You're a Player...

When you start to reek Swag Factor and/or become above-average looking with social skills, you will eventually face potentially damning charges -

YOU'RE A PLAYER.

That's right.

And It might happen a lot.

The Bathmate Hercules was my very first recommendation to the Good Looking Loser community when I started this website in 2012.

It's excellent.

But you probably know that already.

Lets talk about the long-awaited, latest Bathmate model - the Bathmate Xtreme.

It came out in 2013, so my review is a bit late, but I have been using it since then.

How to Meet Successful PeopleBy Ludvig Sunström, StartGainingMomentum)(and a quick perspective on "Networking" from GLL)

Meet Ludvig Sunström.

So far, he is the first and only guy outside of the Good Looking Loser community to do a full guest post here.

He's been published on Bold & Determined.

He has his own community that you should check out - StartGainingMomentum.com.

We'll have our second professional pick up video out very soon, lets say - 10 days?

The video will feature aggressive screening at night.

As of now, this video is the only "night game" video we have from inside a bar.

Anywho...

Below we have a checklist to see where you stand with your social anxiety and if you might benefit from professional help or what your next course of action should probably be.

How To Deal With A Lousy High School Experience

In the past month or so, we've had a lot of high school kids show up at Good Looking Loser.(I'll assume you are 18 years old, okay?)

That is both scary and exciting to me.

It's scary because there is A LOT on Good Looking Loser that is NOT for you.

It's too early.

My High School Experience

I've talked a little bit about my teenage years in "About Good Looking Loser", but lets expand on this a little bit more.

I gave you advice if you are in high school and the experience hasn't been great -

I'll have to do some more posts but the above and subsequent discussion covers most of the surface.

The pictures below are mainly from 2001-2002. I'm 18 or 19 years young.

The proceeding audio can be found here -

If you have been around Good Looking Loser and similar communities, you've probably heard of Mike from Danger & Play. If not, absolutely bookmark his site.

Either way, I want to tell you about Mike.

In the past month, I've gotten to know him on a personal level. (no homo)

I consider Mike a role model. 

This discussion pertains to ANY GUY of ANY EXPERIENCE LEVEL having sex with ANY GIRL of ANY EXPERIENCE LEVEL for the very first time.

Not only guys who are virgins.

In "You Got 99 Problems But Her Orgasm Ain't One," I discuss how female orgasm is mainly, if not ENTIRELY, the woman's responsibility. (provided you provide 10 or 15 minutes of foreplay and can stay hard for 2 minutes or so)

This is the reverse of what society and the undersexed 'White Knight' pencil-necks in the media teach men to think about their innate responsibility of "pleasing a woman". 

Like a quarterback in NFL, a CEO of a company, the president of the United States - the girl usually deserves the bulk of the blame when she can't get off (provided you didn't bust in 42 seconds) but she also deserves due credit when she wets your bed with happy fluid. 

Misconceptions About "Players"(updated: August 24th 2014)

One of my biggest beefs with the whole 'Pickup Artist', 'Seduction Community' and mainstream (Men's Journal, Maxim, etc.) is that, either intentionally or subconsciously, they totally exaggerate how "skilled", smooth or confident a guy who is naturally successful with women actually is.

Vulnerable or inexperienced guys are led to believe that they need to become a superhero to be successful with women.

"I'll never get to that level!"

"I have so far to go..."

What I Know That You Don't(and why you thank me when I've done nothing)

We talk about a lot of topics - Getting Laid, getting a killer body, getting a bigger dick, beating anxiety/depression, performance enhancing drugs, etc.

At times, I go really deep into subjects, for example: Swag Factor, Sense of Entitlement and even Fetish-Based Sex (more to come).

I'm able to do that because I've been living and breathing many of these subjects for over a decade.

The reality is, however, I know that what brings the most results for people is far less in-depth and far less insightful.

Help! She's Hitting On Me!(I'm not prepared for this "situation")

Other than telling you some stories from my life, I specifically do not speak in-depth about special/hypothetical situations about picking up chicks under special, specific circumstances.

As enlightening as 'situational pick up' sounds (e.g. if you are at the gym, do this... if you are at the bar, do this... if you are at the airport, do this... if you are hiding in the girl's locker room, do this...), all it does is clutter your brain with further theory that you won't consistently use and suggests that your "game" or certain techniques can create a significant amount of physical attraction.

Regardless of your "game", over 90% of your verbal interaction is "normal people talk" (also known as small talk, chit-chat).

If you have recently come back from a PUA-rehab facility or far away planet, I will state again - "game" does not create a significant amount of sexual attraction. It creates some but will not help you break the 'looks threshold' if you are below a girl's standards for sex appeal, swag factor (status) or cannot hold a normal conversation.

"Follow Me" (With Video)

If you read the most recent discussion, "Killer Instinct - The Definition of Game," you'll know how important "pulling the trigger" or being aggressive is when the moment arises. 

Brian (Scotty) and I talk about this in the latest Podcast too. (scroll to 35:30)

In the later stages, it's the difference between getting laid or going home alone.

In the earlier stages, it's the difference between getting things moving or ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HAPPENING.

Killer Instinct - The Only Thing That Matters In The End

As we roll into the Summer months of 2014 - our dicks get longer, their skirts get shorter and the Good Looking Loser Community is going to the next level. 

I'll be shooting my first "professional" video later this month - no longer will you have to watch raw but wobbly footage in 360i, pixelated footage in 240i or even worse in 144i (disguised to YouTube as 720iHD).

I'd like to thank everyone who has supported us - especially the guys that were here from Day 1.

Everything You Want and Need to Know About the Phallosan Forte

By: PhilTheBeard (w/ Good Looking Loser)

The Phallosan Forte was the one and only PE Device we recommended in 2013.

I felt confident recommending it because I knew 99% of people would dig it.

And More Importantly - it would work.(it is mainly a length device)

Social Misconceptions About College - The Big Picture (Part VI) 

Welcome to Part VI, the final edition to our "Academic and Social Misconceptions About College" series.

We'll do some official step-by-step 'guides' in the future.

The catch-22 with writing about this "college thing" is -

Even for me, unlike the rest of Good Looking Loser, this series about 'College' is written in hindsight. I had some success in college. But far from what I "should have" had.

Podcast 5 - 2014

Brian (aka Scotty) talks a ton in this episode.

I'm careful not to cut him off. :)

We cover the questions that Good Looking Loser Forum Member 'ScumbagTrainee' brought to us and a bunch more.

This episode is somewhat different. 

Social Misconceptions About College - Greek Life - Getting Pussy, Hazing, Minorities, etc. (Part V) 

Moving right along in our "Academic and Social Misconceptions About College" series, lets talk about what goes down in the fraternity scene.

In Part IV, we discussed "The Greek Hierarchy", similar to the college social hierarchy presented in Part II - it's the basis for everything that happens (or doesn't happen) in Greek social life.

While pledging a fraternity is undeniably the quickest way to "Top 20%" popularity and meeting countless college girls, simply "joining a frat" doesn't ensure entrance to the that group - sometimes called "The In-Crowd". 

It has to be a respected fraternity. 

Social Misconceptions About College - Greek Hierarchy (Part IV)

Welcome to Part IV of our "Academic and Social Misconceptions About College" series.  

So far it's been a hit.

I hope guys that are considering college (regardless of their ultimate decision) or just started college get their hands on this.

For a lot of us, college came and went.

This is Part III in our series: "Academic and Social Misconceptions About College".

In Part II, we defined the "College Establishment - The Social Hierarchy", which ultimately defines how successful your college experience is with members of the opposite sex.

Everything revolves around The Pyramid.

There's no avoiding it.

You need to find your way to the Top 20% or otherwise you will be playing resident "pick up artist" with very low odds.(if you are looking to nail attractive girls on a semi-regular basis)

Social Misconceptions About College -The Social Hierarchy (Part II)

This is Part II in our series "Academic and Social Misconceptions About College".

In Part I, we covered the Academic Misconceptions and I told you all about my college career that spanned over 7 years and 8 different colleges.(lots of pictures!) 

Make sure you read that discussion.

It's important to know where I'm coming from and where the name "Good Looking Loser" comes from to put things in perspective.

Introduction and Academic Misconceptions About College (Part I)

This discussion might be a bit controversial. Use at your own risk. There is nothing below that represents LEGAL or MEDICAL advice, or the substitute thereof. Consider it strictly entertainment. 

Welcome to our "Misconceptions About College" series.

Losers & Assorted Douchebags - 

At some point I will release an official guide to college.

Live with Victor Pride 2(Bold & Determined)

CRYSTAL CLEAR A+ AUDIO

Losers - here is the second podcast in our 2 part series.

All four audios will be posted on GoodLookingLoser.com.

Next week - look out for an article on Bold & Determined that covers Victor's in-depth perspective of the subjects that we covered, as well as select podcasts and some other surprises.  

Bi-Weekly Podcast with Scotty, I bet the title caught your eye.

There's a download button each of the audio screens - if you want to put it on your iPod.

In this 2 part episode we discuss -

Table of Contents (Part 1)

Frequently Asked Questions About the Fleshlight (by: 'Z69' - Good Looking Loser Contributor)

This FAQ was written by a long time member of the Good Looking Loser community - I appreciate his work very much.

The Fleshlight FAQ is meant for the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit or 'Fleshlight STU'. This device is designed to help your build stamina in the bedroom, combat erectile dysfunction and increase the volume and distance of your cum shot. The actual process involves 2 natural techniques that are EXCELLENT (and highly underrated) for men's sexual health - Edging and Kegels.

Although meant for the Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit, you can safely assume that the FAQ is applicable to the other Fleshlight units - for which you can train for sexual health as well.

If you have never heard of the "Fleshlight", here's what it is and an interesting story about how I came across the "pussy in a bottle".

I'm excited to open this new chapter to Good Looking Loser.

It'll move slowly until I get to work on it full-time but it will be enough to really help guys who want to hear about "The Scene".

For some guys - this particular discussion will be TOTALLY NEW insight to how organized nightlife works.

I highly encourage to you RESERVE JUDGMENT about whatever you know or have heard about how nightlife works.

It's probably different than you think. It is different than what I thought.

As the "PUA" era of Good Looking Loser slowly comes to an end (don't worry, we still have a ton of GET LAID advice) - Scotty and I have wanted to transition away from "seduction" criticism/lingo for quite some time in order to attract more cool/normal guys than less "geek squad".

I suppose we've done a decent job - the guys in our community really have their shit together, getting pussy or are seriously in the process of getting there (rather than just analyzing it).

I wanted to point out the single biggest problem with PUA or mainstream "Seduction Community" theory.

This is not going to be a super long discussion, just one that can serve as a bookmark to refer those who are still unsure on the matter.

The main reason that the vast majority of guys (of all social statuses) don't hit on women with anything beyond weak indirect small talk (during the day) and sloppy indirect small talk (during the night) is -

Approach Anxiety

Accounting for the vast majority of Approach Anxiety is -

Fear of Rejection(outcome dependency)

You knew that already.

Podcast 3 - 2014

Bi-Weekly Podcast with Scotty, we talked about a lot of stuff.

Including -

We are now on SoundCloud - you can download this podcast and all the others from 2014 on there.

... if you liked this podcast - please 'like' it - it helps us out!

Just finished Podcast #2 with Scotty.

He tackled all the questions you guys asked in this forum thread.

Download Podcast

To download this Podcast for your iPod (or whatever) looky here-

Table of Contents

Manosphere Radio Interview

A few days ago, I sat down with Pete from Manosphere Radio and did my first audio interview where I'm not interviewing or talking to myself (that's when you know you've made it!).

We chatted a long time about an array of subjects. I wouldn't let him hang up on me.

If you are fairly new to the Good Looking Loser community - this provides for a new overview of what were all about and why/how I expertise on the subjects that we talk about here.

We also took a more in-depth look at things such as:

"That Guy"

We're going to talk about what "type" of guy (lifestyle) is most appealing to the hottest, coolest and usually - most popular girls.

Hot women meet a lot of guys.

Most are nice guy pushovers that might provide for a nice husband or loyal boyfriend but lack excitement, edge and sexual experience.

Other guys are "bad boy" types.

Podcast 1 - 2014

Finally got decent audio hooked up.

Later this year, if Apple approves, we'll be on iTunes.

(it's long - download it and listen to it away from your computer)

You can download our 2 hour long chat for your iPod here-

Primary Goals For 2014

This is the first installment of our "Dominate 2014" two-part series.

Part II is here -

Below are several SPECIFIC PRIMARY GOALS that you should be considering, diligently working on or have already proudly completed.

Rooster Talks Happy Hippo

updated: May 2014

Rooster, co-author of the 'Ultimate Guide to Guide', discusses how the various Happy Hippo strains fit into his life and what you can expect.

We encourage you to learn about Kratom and ask whatever questions you want in our Kratom forum. Rooster will be there to answer.

As I always remind people - the difference between Kratom vendors can be night and day. Average/low-quality Kratom is most often bunk or worse- an anxiety attack waiting to happen. High-quality Kratom can be incredible and make you very social and productive.