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Bi-Weekly Podcast with Scotty, I bet the title caught your eye.
There's a download button each of the audio screens - if you want to put it on your iPod.
In this 2 part episode we discuss -
Table of Contents (Part 1)
0:00 Happy Hippo Stem & Vein es muy bueno.
0:50 Is Scotty a criminal and/or total asshole? (Putting "Scumbag" in perspective)
8:15 What Scotty has been telling everyone he works with. "Be Humble" (when talking to women?!)
13:10 Perspective on "being humble" "being polite" and Nervous Guy Game. Humble (polite) + AGGRESSIVE.
17:00 Everyone knows how to be humble already. (Humble + Physical)
28:00 Why you don't need much "help" because you already know how to pick up women. (the anxiety is the only issue)
35:00 Why you don't need "help" with your social skill - you just need to use them.
39:30 "Small Talk" is 90%+ of talking to chicks
44:30 You don't need an entire "personally makeover" you just have to become more extroverted aka TALK MORE.
49:30 What to do you "stall out" or don't know what to say. IMMEDIATELY TRY TO DO SOMETHING, MOVE GIRL ANYWHERE.
Table of Contents (Part 2)
(sorry - Scotty's voice isn't loud enough on Part 2 -- will fix in next audio)
0:00 Funny story - The first time Chris pulled a girl into a bathroom during the day (2008)
3:00 Getting physical early/when you don't know what to say = Killer Instinct builder
4:30 Get used to moving chicks around... even if you don't have a specific destination in mind
5:30 RUN OUT OF SHIT TO SAY / WHAT DO I DO NOW = MOVE HER SOMEWHERE (trigger)
13:42 End
** I decided to cut this audio short - the volume on Scotty's end becomes too low.
love these podcasts chris. I've gotten used to grabbing and dragging chicks at night. I just gotta get used to that in the day time. Helps to get these right on time when you're working on this shit.
Thanks to both you and scotty.
Can't wait to hear this ..... I look forward to these podcasts heavy
Few questions for Scotty next time around :
Is getting older somethig that bothers you in terms of maybe looks fading or not being able to pick up the young tail as well as...
Can't wait to hear this ..... I look forward to these podcasts heavy
Few questions for Scotty next time around :
Is getting older somethig that bothers you in terms of maybe looks fading or not being able to pick up the young tail as well as when you were younger
Will you have the same killer instinct as an older guy or will your gameplay need to change Is it too creepy for a much older guy to hit on young broads?
Does the player / pick up lifestyle ever end for Scotty or Chris ?
Great podcast. Can't wait for the next one. I have a couple questions for scotty for the next podcast:
-How does he go out everyday and hit on girls without burning out?
-What is some literature (if any) that helped shape who he is today?
-What's...
Great podcast. Can't wait for the next one. I have a couple questions for scotty for the next podcast:
-How does he go out everyday and hit on girls without burning out?
-What is some literature (if any) that helped shape who he is today?
-What's his style like these days and what's his take on men's style?
-How'd he get the name 'Scotty Flamingo'?
Thanks Chris
Damn, these podcasts are filled with wisdom that you will rarely find in books or magazines, that's for sure.
Chris & Scotty are my bros 4 life and my respect for them is immeasurable. Every time i'm listening to these podcasts, i gain so...
Damn, these podcasts are filled with wisdom that you will rarely find in books or magazines, that's for sure.
Chris & Scotty are my bros 4 life and my respect for them is immeasurable. Every time i'm listening to these podcasts, i gain so called 'aha effects' and i always find myself to be strucked in awe.
I made a ton of notes but i guess everything that i've written down won't fit here.
Scotty's qoutes:
-Be humble with the girl, be honest and i think people can connect more with that notion. 'Scotty' (Real Talk Scotty - Yeah i share Scotty's thoughts...i think
it's our vulnerability, our humbleness that creates deep connection with each other. Our Jokes makes us likeable, our strenghts attracts respect but ultimately
it's all about our weaknesses that makes us human and that's why people can relate.
-Everybody is humble at some level. 'Scotty'
-Keep it as real as possible. 'Scotty' (Yeah man..keep it real,be humble,be honest,don't try to be funny, don't fake your personality, don't try hard)
-Cocky personality...i think that's not in everybody. 'Scotty' (True, that's why i hated the PUA Community..they preached
this Cocky/funny shit as the Holy Grail or something. I hated it for being cocky/funny til death, because
it just wasn't me. I think everbody has his own unique 'game/approach' to this whole thing.)
-You need to put youself on the line and then be humble about it. (Yeah man - No need to force yourself to come off as cool, as alpha, as funny or
whatever...just be humble about it and do your thang)
-Just be who you are, that doesn't mean you can't hold on to a girls hand. (thank you for those words)
(About Humbleness)
-It's already in you, you just gotta use it more. (I agree big time)
-Having that mean attitude or like that screw you attitude that you tend to see a lot, is only getting you so far. (True)
-You try all those different things and there is a phase for everything. (True) (yeah mang, that's the beauty of life)
-Being humble has a natural/organic type of feel to it, as supposed to any gimmick... 'you know wow he's acting like a complete fool'. (Yes)
-You probably didn't have to see these videos to have an idea of what an alpha, assertive man looks like. It's universal, everybody
kinda has that same feel. (Awesome qoute)
-Having a conversation with me is like having a conversation with a girl. (Agree - We all are stucked in this 'Game' thing and forget that there is no 'game' -only gimmicks-, it is all about talking like
you are talking to your best friend type of thing.
-You don't wanna keep spittin' all those stuff and feelin' like you have to say the next exciting line to keep her around because i think a lot of people feel that way
but it's not true. (good to know)
-You do get more insights when you continually do this stuff.
-You gotta make that next bold move. (About Killer Instinct)
-Move the girl, pull so to speak right when you run out of things to say. (Great Insight)
-Don't worry about the perfect plan, that's just another built in excuse. (Awesome)
-When you do a move like that for instance where it's not the perfect plan and yes
it is very spontaneous, you know you get rewarded for those. (great insight)
Chris qoutes:
Chris about Scotty:
-His style is pretty much like laid back but aggressive and those things seem like a paradox, they seem like basically they couldn't exist for each other, but they definitely do.
-Being polite is better than being some sort of like movie star, player out there...that's generally not how it works, at least not getting chicks fast.
-You are polite, but the action steps you're taking are aggressive. (Best player qoute ever!)
-A Pick-Up Artist is a character, a player is something you are not something you do. (Fucking Awesome Qoute)
-Look good, talk to girls, talk to a lot of them though...just that one thing.
-You have a humble side in you, don't think you can't use that with women.
-Be physically agressive with that whole thing, it takes the pressure off man. (I did it one time in a club - no verbals involved, only eye contact - i just grabbed her hand and bounced her to the dancefloor)
-Forget your lines, forget your character...literally, that's like a movie take scene. (Haha true)
-Trust your instincts, a lot of the stuff is just that. (simple, but that's how it is)
-When two people get together what happens is, they have a conversation, they sexually attracted to each other and the guy makes it happen, three steps...everything in between
is details. (That's it, why do those 'PUA' dorks overcomplicate things)
-You don't need a perfect plan and you although don't need a chick to be completely comfortable. (great insight)
These qoutes in particular inspired me to finally take this whole 'Player' thing more serious,
and these qoutes are 'the qoutes' for the rest of my life, player life that is.
*EPHIPHANY EFFECT*
-We wanna bring you back to that free spirit child that really get all corrupted by the world. 'Scotty' (One hell of a qoute)
-Move the girl, pull so to speak right when you run out of things to say. 'Scotty' (Fuckin' Awesome Qoute)
-Your being humble, your being polite verbally...physically however you're still being very assertive, aggressive if you will. 'Chris' (BOOM!! Eye Opener!!)
-You are being a genuine, honest person...but you're being very assertive in the same breath. Scotty (BOOM !! Eye Opener!)
-When you do a move like that for instance where it's not the perfect plan and yes
it is very spontaneous, you know you get rewarded for those. Scotty (great insight)
-You better off being humble, being yourself and that comes off as confident than being cocky and it's not coming off as quiet as that. Chris (This is so true)
-Confidence can look all sorts of different ways. Chris (good qoute)
-Once you are honest with yourself and being genuine and humble, all the rest of the stuff the details kind of will take form and start to shape in you
...and then all of the sudden 'ya i have some pretty good witt'. Scotty (very good insight)
-Don't worry about the perfect plan, that's just another built in excuse. Scotty (Awesome)
-Sometimes when you don't have a perfect plan it could be more stimulating for you. Scotty (Wow, what a qoute)
That was the best fucking podcast ever, damn. Thank you guys, god bless you!
Hey man, I enjoy your podcast! Awesome stuff!! A little off topic but related here, but are you going to post anything about picking up girls on spring break? Advice? Tips? Anything would be awesome. Either blog posts or podcast or youtube video...
Hey man, I enjoy your podcast! Awesome stuff!! A little off topic but related here, but are you going to post anything about picking up girls on spring break? Advice? Tips? Anything would be awesome. Either blog posts or podcast or youtube video would be nice.
Thanks!
thanks dude -- ill ask him on the next one
Awesome notes man... We appreciate it x100000
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Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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