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"Let a thousand flowers bloom, a hundred schools of thought contend"
if you've come to Good Looking Loser looking for the new post, it's here -
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The 100 Flowers Campaign
(no one will die however)
In the past 6 weeks, the Good Looking Loser Community has enjoyed what is equivalent to our own little Golden Era.
Traffic is at consistent record highs, for both Good Looking Loser and Lifestyle by Good Looking Loser (GLL-GetALife.com) and reader engagement is an all-time high.
Now, before I start using any recent momentum to start coasting (yeah, right), I want to hear what we can be doing better, as well as what you like about our community.
The former is always more appealing to most people however. :-)
I'm highly encouraging readers to drop their own constructive criticism of the Good Looking Loser community, as well as expressing what they would like to see more of.
Before you drop any constructive feedback, I'd like to remind you of a few things -
Outside of some posts by our wise contributors, I literally write every single discussion, paragraph, sentence, word and letter of every post on Good Looking Loser.
It's simply not practical to generate massive amounts of quality content without adequate time.
I'm hardly short on ideas and topics to cover, but it needs to be done in due time.
There's plenty on our agenda that you can expect and don't have to request, including but not limited to -
Unfortunately, I don't can't have any sort of strict order for this content.
I basically discuss whatever I'm thinking about and that day/week.
I've pretty much done that from start and anytime I stray from that approach - I write uninspiring garbage that makes me want to unsubscribe from the blog.
Also, I've had to stop issuing deadlines for projects/posts because I've successfully frustrated everyone by not delivering.
Good writers can meet deadlines with inadequate amounts amounts of time.
I'm not a good writer.
Please leave your constructive criticism below.
(and what you like)
I encourage it.
note: our webmaster first reads and approves all the comments and will delete hateful messages. I don't even get the chance to see them, so it's not worth your time, go be productive instead.
Happy Hippo Credit Card Update
As I've mentioned and had to retract way too often, Happy Hippo is acquiring a credit card processor and the job should have been done a month ago.
Puddles actually acquired the processor about 2 weeks ago.
I've already signed the contract.
Puddles turns dark red when he is upset.Unfortunately, due to some software issues (on our end) and integration issues (on their end) - we haven't gotten it to work smoothly and the last thing I want to do is put up a processor that doesn't work 100% of the time.
Our webteam (and the bank and USA-based payment gateway) literally worked on it day and night last week. The matter has been so pressing that the Chief Technical Officer took over the project last Friday.
It's completely ridiculous, I know.
Why can't we just install this in 30 minutes like every other site?
You have no idea how frustrated I am.
Coordinating efforts with different time zones has been beyond difficult - to say the least.
I appreciate everyone that has put up with our awful current payment options - Dwolla and Popmoney.
(email HappyHippoHelper -at- Live dot com for a faster/instant payment method if you need to, make sure you call it "Internet Start Up Kit" when you submit payment)
We will have this up as soon as it's working 100% and we trust it to take care of you guys.
Hopefully this week.
Possibly today.
But no promises - I've been wrong every single time I've said "we got it!"
Anyway, drop your feedback (positive and negative) below and thank you for reading.
I love you.
Hey there Chris,
I'm right in the middle of the current Approach Anxiety on the site. It's really helped so far and I'm ready to kick on and have it finished before too long.
What changes are you planning to make in the second version of the...
Hey there Chris,
I'm right in the middle of the current Approach Anxiety on the site. It's really helped so far and I'm ready to kick on and have it finished before too long.
What changes are you planning to make in the second version of the program that you have on your list of forthcoming GLL content?
Thanks.
Hey Mathew - I'm mixing up the drills slightly and getting rid of a few that were too easy/hard for the specific day. Don't let it stop you, it will be quite similar
I think anyone who complains about a lack of content on GLL is someone who just makes excuses. There is a wealth of quality information here that is rivaled by only a few other websites.
That said, in 2015 I'm looking forward to the 'Get Paid'...
I think anyone who complains about a lack of content on GLL is someone who just makes excuses. There is a wealth of quality information here that is rivaled by only a few other websites.
That said, in 2015 I'm looking forward to the 'Get Paid' section most.
Thank you Seth
Hey Chris. I want to first state that your site has had such a wonderful impact on my life and I'm truly grateful for everything you've offered. You've seriously helped me get through a depression I was in last year and ground me back in reality...
Hey Chris. I want to first state that your site has had such a wonderful impact on my life and I'm truly grateful for everything you've offered. You've seriously helped me get through a depression I was in last year and ground me back in reality after after my negative experience with the pua scene.
With that being said, I'll just jot down a few ideas that I think would be awesome:
A happiness
principles section (like success principles). I'd love to hear your take on happiness in contrast to the mainstream self-help bs.
Social circle:
I dont mean this in terms of banging chicks in your social circle (though that's be cool too). I'm talking about a guide on how to build a cool group of friends.
That's just two ideas I have at the moment. I'm super pumped for more on the Get Paid Section as well. Thank you for everything Chris.
-Ben
First off this is the best website I've come across on the internet as a 20 year old college kid and has helped me become more aggressive with girls and more importantly get my shit together (and I'm still in the redshirt year). I almost beat my...
First off this is the best website I've come across on the internet as a 20 year old college kid and has helped me become more aggressive with girls and more importantly get my shit together (and I'm still in the redshirt year). I almost beat my depression (thanks to you) and still have social anxiety. You said there would be a social anxiety program but there still isn't one. I'm taking medicine and seeing a doctor (again thanks to you) but I know in order to REALLY beat it for good, I have to do exposure therapy. I'm not asking you to write a huge in depth program (like AA) but I would GREATLY appreciate a post with some social anxiety exposure therapy drills or things I can do daily to improve and track my progress. Again thank you for everything you're a real life changer and a genuine person. Peace
That is a great idea and something I have in my phone to do
you probaby have seen this
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/entry/anxiety/a-25-item-checklist-to-measure-your-social-anxiety-do-i-need-professional-help
Hey Chris,
First off, I want you to know your community is a home away from home. I live in the sticks of New England and you are a great reminder that the rest of the world is NOT like my hometown.
I'm moving to LA or Vegas in the next year...
Hey Chris,
First off, I want you to know your community is a home away from home. I live in the sticks of New England and you are a great reminder that the rest of the world is NOT like my hometown.
I'm moving to LA or Vegas in the next year or so and right now I figuring out employment. I'm a personal trainer and would love to get involved in the scene like you did to secure quality clients. A post about how you did it or what you did to attract your clients would be great. Also, I vaguely remember you talking about HGH injections in terms of PE. Can you elaborate on how you did that as well?
You'd want to use IGF-1 for PE. I have 2 vials of IGF, but never did because I haven't had the time to make PE my #1/#2 goal for any 6-8week period
I wasn't quite using HGH for PE.. I was just using it, but doing PE. IGF will be more effective,...
You'd want to use IGF-1 for PE. I have 2 vials of IGF, but never did because I haven't had the time to make PE my #1/#2 goal for any 6-8week period
I wasn't quite using HGH for PE.. I was just using it, but doing PE. IGF will be more effective, since its the IGF that theorically makes HGH grow your dick
I think what you have listed are great ideas. I also agree with Benjamin's ideas.
In addition to that, I'd like to see an article on changing cities (I'm moving to Phoenix from north Louisiana in a few months and I think it will make this stuff...
I think what you have listed are great ideas. I also agree with Benjamin's ideas.
In addition to that, I'd like to see an article on changing cities (I'm moving to Phoenix from north Louisiana in a few months and I think it will make this stuff a lot easier).
Also, I'm not sure if this is already a forum rule, but given the action-focused nature of the site, I think everyone should be required to have some sort of log (AA, PE, weight loss, etc.) before being allowed to post on other stuff. I think that would help keep the focus on action instead of blabbing in the forum.
I totally agree with the 'action' log, I'm going to do a whole post on it sometime. I can't quite require it per say though. THanks John
Chris - tremendous blog. It has completely changed my approach to women/getting laid. I thank you for this.
Do you have any tips/hacks for underarm sweating? I know not everyone faces it, but you seem to have helpful advice for a lot of areas...
Chris - tremendous blog. It has completely changed my approach to women/getting laid. I thank you for this.
Do you have any tips/hacks for underarm sweating? I know not everyone faces it, but you seem to have helpful advice for a lot of areas of life (cologne, soap, etc.).
Thanks!
You can have surgery for that.
i'm a hairy brown guy, and my solution has been to shave/trim my pits. It helps a ton, but a little bit of sweat has never been bad for me
Hi chris, am an avid reader of the site and love the content. Would love for you to write something on banging girls you already know are in your social circle but have never really spoken too. + party/club game would be great
Keep up the good work !
This is actually really good, along with throwing parties and getting a social circle. I'm all hands on deck with having an in-depth discussion/propaganda about managing and creating a social circle. There is a well written post on the forum, but...
This is actually really good, along with throwing parties and getting a social circle. I'm all hands on deck with having an in-depth discussion/propaganda about managing and creating a social circle. There is a well written post on the forum, but I would love to hear from Chris about becoming a social man. Kind of what is mentioned in the sense of entitlement discussion- some of the guys mentioned there are the main men of their social circle- how to achieve and sustain that would be pure gold!
Well, I'd like to see more analysis of mind set stuff. Specifically, HOW to go from beta to alpha. HOW to be ok with being dominant, HOW to be ok with sexuality, HOW to be ok with being a male, basically.
I don't know about a lot of guys on...
Well, I'd like to see more analysis of mind set stuff. Specifically, HOW to go from beta to alpha. HOW to be ok with being dominant, HOW to be ok with sexuality, HOW to be ok with being a male, basically.
I don't know about a lot of guys on here, but for me, this is the biggest issue. Overcoming the guilt/shame/fear that has emerged from years of being shamed into submission by society (and my parents, lol).
I LOVE the AA program, and believe it will work for me, but something like that specifically designed to overcome the "inner game" stuff would be awesome as well.
Other than that, just keep up the awesome work! I'm very grateful to you and your commitment to this site and us users!
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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