Update March 2015
The discussion below is some of the VERY BEST I have to offer you.
I hope you are able to put it to good use.
We’ve discussed this on the forum and I have a Youtube video on it. But I’ve never formally wrote anything up on "retention" or maintaining fuck buddies.
Well, except for this- “Trevor and His 17 Girlfriends: Retention By Any Means Necessary,” a slightly different subject.