7 Habits Of Guys That Get Laid A Lot

This mini-series (Loser lifestyle edition coming soon) is the Good Looking Loser spin off the book "7 Habits of Highly Effective People",¤ which I have most certainly not read cover-to-cover.¤ not an affiliate link

I have read the most important parts of it though.

The impossible part of writing this post is to narrow down the 7 MOST SIGNIFICANT, ACTIONABLE habits.

There's about 7000+ habits.

You're a Player...

When you start to reek Swag Factor and/or become above-average looking with social skills, you will eventually face potentially damning charges -

YOU'RE A PLAYER.

That's right.

And It might happen a lot.

Help! She's Hitting On Me!(I'm not prepared for this "situation")

Other than telling you some stories from my life, I specifically do not speak in-depth about special/hypothetical situations about picking up chicks under special, specific circumstances.

As enlightening as 'situational pick up' sounds (e.g. if you are at the gym, do this... if you are at the bar, do this... if you are at the airport, do this... if you are hiding in the girl's locker room, do this...), all it does is clutter your brain with further theory that you won't consistently use and suggests that your "game" or certain techniques can create a significant amount of physical attraction.

Regardless of your "game", over 90% of your verbal interaction is "normal people talk" (also known as small talk, chit-chat).

If you have recently come back from a PUA-rehab facility or far away planet, I will state again - "game" does not create a significant amount of sexual attraction. It creates some but will not help you break the 'looks threshold' if you are below a girl's standards for sex appeal, swag factor (status) or cannot hold a normal conversation.

"Follow Me" (With Video)

If you read the most recent discussion, "Killer Instinct - The Definition of Game," you'll know how important "pulling the trigger" or being aggressive is when the moment arises. 

Brian (Scotty) and I talk about this in the latest Podcast too. (scroll to 35:30)

In the later stages, it's the difference between getting laid or going home alone.

In the earlier stages, it's the difference between getting things moving or ABSOLUTELY NOTHING HAPPENING.

You Work For Me

A popular concept in surrounding this "pick up women" stuff is having and maintaining an alpha "frame". This so-called "frame" communicates your confidence (or lack thereof) and supposedly is the core behind your words and actions. In general, the idea is to have solid "frame" so you don't get sidetracked from your goal- GETTING LAID. There is a notion that an alpha frame can be taught - I don't quite agree but I feel it can be developed if you know what you are shooting for and have an example to follow. Frame, just like any sort of "game" shit, is simply a manifestation of social freedom.

A wise man once saw one of the "faster/aggressive" videos and commented that I have an "executive frame."

PUA-Zone, Click to View

I had never heard the term "executive frame" before but it's definitely captures what I'm shooting for. Good thinking, Sgt. Gumbles. Basically, I'm the boss - the girl is the worker. Better yet, she's the secretary. I order her around (but not in a total asshole way). I interact with her within that dynamic AT LEAST until I screen her and she passes (e.g. grab hold of her hand and she doesn't stop me). It's an effective first impression on emotionally-healthy women that like to get fucked by an alpha male with more power than they. What's also good is that the "boss-worker" dynamic remains throughout the entire relationship whether that be 1 night or several months. She'll always look at you like you are the boss. Provided you met an above-average first impression, they never forget "how" you picked them up even if they don't remember what was said. It's actually kinda funny when I catch a girl in her office attire during the week.