Are You Really IN?(The REAL Law of "Attraction")
Despite the simplicity of the question, this is a deep subject.
Although I'm usually able to target and comprehensively simplify subjects such as 'Swag Factor' (coolness/status), 'Sense of Entitlement' (advanced confidence) and 'Killer Instinct' (game), this one is tricky.
It's also complex because despite the answer, (Yes/No) - everyone is in a different place and everyone will have a slightly different solution to the issue.
This subject is not a one-size-fits-all unfortunately.