Relax, Partna

Picking up girls can be nerve-wracking

Especially if you've never walked up to a girl that you want to bang, and especially if she is with other girls and guys.

It was really scary for me when I got started.

Keep in mind, most guys, don't approach girls on a daily basis.

Is She DTF?

Guys that regularly bang hot girls they just met know how to tell which girls are interested in sleeping with them. They focus their attention on those girls and encourage the nonsexual girls to "Get Lost".

You aren't going to get laid that night (or the near future) if she's not sexually interested or if she's nonsexual.

If you've read "How and What to Screen Girls For," you probably know that screening girls to see if they are sexually interested and sexually available is by far the most important criteria if you are trying to get laid. Because I was such a passive "nice guy," I didn't use to do this. I'd find myself disappointed that girls wouldn't "put out," frustrated from waiting 5+ dates to get physical with girls and clueless why some guys could bang hot girls on the first night and I could just a phone number. It was my own fault - I was projecting that I was a super nice and safe guy. I also wasn't screening them if they were sexually interested and sexual available. Girls saw me as boyfriend material, not an particularly exciting guy that could fuck them good.

Sexually Active/Available (Super Important)

When you hit on a chick the object is to see if she's compatible and sexually available for you.

The object is not to "make her like you" by showing her that you are a "safe, nice guy".

Hot girls don't get excited or wet from meeting another "safe, nice guy".

If you are just starting to approach girls or if you have just started approaching girls with a "Filter Them Out" mindset, don't start thinking about screening/filtering  just yet. Lower your approach anxiety first. Get comfortable walking up to chicks and talking to them. In order to truly screen and filter out undesirable personality types - you first need to be comfortable with just talking to new girls. Then you can build in some screening material and techniques.

Seriously, don't get too far ahead of yourself, don't take 1 step forward to take 2 steps back.

Audio:"Screening Game: How to Screen and Filter Girls Out Instead of Being Rejected"

This is a super important post if you are still having trouble hitting on hot girls or have issues with 'rejection'.

If you've met me, read "Get Laid or Get Lost," read "Help! It’s Weird Going Up To A Random Chick and Hitting on Her!" or all 3 - you probably have an idea of how we immediately approach, "screen" and "filter" the chicks that we meet.

I teach SCREENING GAME. I teach you to how to attract cool girls that are down-to-fuck and girls that are sexually available. I teach you how to Get Laid.

I don't teach "I Hope She Likes Me" game.

This is a major issue and probably the one we focus on the most with our students.

You need to have social courage or "balls" to meet and bang hot chicks.

It's the most important thing.

More important than looks, money, funny/smooth lines, or interesting hobbies.

Approach anxiety, social anxiety, sexual anxiety and general anxiety will totally fuck up your chances with women.