While I feel that nearly everyone can be successful (to some degree) in building a vibrant social and sex life, there's some guys that need to handle certain stuff first.

After all this is what happens to everyone over the course of their journey - "This Process Will Strip You Down..."

Being a good "guru" (I hate that fucking word) is measurable by YOUR success, not mine.

Part of success is putting you in a position TO SUCCEED.

And Part of putting you in a position to succeed, is not putting you in a position to fail.

Through the majority of 2008-2010, my first priority was to sleep with the most, hottest women I possibly could.

It wasn't "work," "school," "get a perfect body," or "live a balanced lifestyle," it was all about meeting and banging women. You can only have one first priority.

I didn't even have a "job" for the majority of the time. Once I came to grips with that, I didn't feel guilty about it. There's a lot of worse things you can be doing than meeting/trying to meet women and sleeping with them. I learned more successful attitudes from meeting and sleeping women than I ever did in school or from any "internship."

I moved to a more balanced lifestyle toward the end of 2010 and didn't see much of a drop off in my sex life thanks to efficient screening and DTF hotties in social circles.

I don't necessarily recommend that everyone goes on a full-time "vision quest" or "mission" for pussy though. I usually suggest you meet women as a [significant] part of an overall efficient lifestyle, but I can't deny that you'll make quick psychological changes and get good results if you devote a good year to it.

I shouldn't have waited 7-8 months to hit you with this post.

btw- I don't know any of the girls in this photos.

If you are familiar with GLL, you'll know that we are about "screening" girls with physical advances simply to determine if they are sexually available. Girls that reject you/get lost, are generally rejecting your invite for sex because they aren't sexually available, girls will also get lost a lot if they know their logistics won't work. It's not necessarily you, they are just rejecting sex. If you looks and style are tight, it's pretty much always a rejection of the approach and not you.

We have no idea what this girl is like.

That's not a fucking "reframe," it's the truth.

Original: August 13, 2012 Updated: January 30, 2016

I recently got an email from a guy that I've been working with since January. There's not many guys under age 24 that can that can pick up and bang the very hottest girls. This guy is one of them. I feel he has the potential to be where I was 28, before he turns 24. Despite logistical issues with his conservative small town, he's been able to meet and date lot top-shelf pussy. This is usually a sign that, with some more experience, his results would skyrocket in a big city. The expectation is that he will be one of the few guys that bangs 100+, hot girls. Among the top 10% of the top 1% of all non-celebrity guys. Elite.

Compared to guys his age he is very "sophisticated."

In his own words-

"[I] appreciate the 'finer things in life' as gay as that might sound and [I'm] doing pretty good in general. You know, knowing stuff about music, art, food or whatever the fuck it is that others don't. I think I'm more that type of guy."

I'm not big on techniques, blah blah blah-- but there's some techniques that screen naturally and avoid any traces of Mr. Funny Man.

This is one.

This is best for nightclubs.

If you see hot girl, lock eyes with her, smile/smirk, then give her the middle finger.

If she's cool, she'll play along and probably give you the finger back (or she'll shake her head and smile).