This is one of my favorite topics.

As much as I like helping guys Get Laid, I also like helping guys get their shit together. Maybe more.

God knows that I really had to work on myself to get the results that I have.

I wasn't the [usually] super positive guy I am today when I started this stuff.

A lot of guys get into this whole "I want to bang lots of HOT chicks" thing because they think it will solve a lot of their problems.

I used to be very against drugs. After all, drugs are bad right? They'll kill you. Probably instantly too.

No, seriously I thought that

Needless to say my views have changed, I'm not in favor of hardcore drug addiction by any means.

I AM in favor of basing your opinions on the experiences that you've actually had and not what others say who have absolutely no experience in the matter (that's the general theme to this website, you've probably noticed).

Even though he was a woman beating, hardcore drug using, somewhat overrated, impossible to get along with musician (I admit I have never met him, so maybe I shouldn't fucking speak), I largely concur with Axl Rose on his [apparent] view of drug use-

*this one gets a little gross; but it's to prove a point. haha.

As explained in "The Secret to Life," taking proactive action is the most important thing if you are going to bang a lot of girls, make a lot of money, look your very best and live a high-quality, low-stress, time efficient, productive, fulfilling  life.

This discussion "Live Proactively," certainly generalizes, but largely explains 2 lifestyle paradigms. Some people proactively take action, create and build a lifestyle for themselves. Other people are simply reactive to the world around them and never seem to get ahead or reach their goals.

I strongly encourage you to live proactively as much as possible. It's pretty much inevitable that you'll have to be reactive to things in your daily life- but the goal is to realize the unnecessary reactive scenarios and behavior and try to eliminate them so you can investing more time in yourself.

Let's define these terms so were all on the same page-

Most guys think they do - but sometimes they ultimately don't.

It was sort of both for me actually- I was somewhere in between.

Let me tell you about it-

Everyone has the at least a some level of the same needs and desires.

Everyone wants at least a little bit of love, respect, money and sexual gratification. These are innate human needs, not just selfish 'wants'. As you get better with women, you will ultimately decide how much you WANT (not need) them to be a part of your life. You will also decide to what capacity they will be part of your life.