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Most guys in the Good Looking Loser community have a pretty good idea of how to read girls and find out which girls are DTF and which are not. Finding out [and knowing how to find out] which girls are sexually available is key to Getting Laid on a regular basis. Most guys here don't waste their time spitting game or trying to entertain unavailable girls. Even still, this discussion is something that can be a reminder or may be insightful and cut a lot of junk out of your brain that keeps your from being aggressive.
There is a term in the pick up artist/seduction community called "IOIs," known as indicators of interest.
Here's a post from a guy that wants to learn all of the IOIs so he'll know when he can "get further" with girls-
Guys that regularly bang hot girls they just met know how to tell which girls are interested in sleeping with them. They focus their attention on those girls and encourage the nonsexual girls to "Get Lost".
You aren't going to get laid that night (or the near future) if she's not sexually interested or if she's nonsexual.
If you've read "How and What to Screen Girls For," you probably know that screening girls to see if they are sexually interested and sexually available is by far the most important criteria if you are trying to get laid. Because I was such a passive "nice guy," I didn't use to do this. I'd find myself disappointed that girls wouldn't "put out," frustrated from waiting 5+ dates to get physical with girls and clueless why some guys could bang hot girls on the first night and I could just a phone number. It was my own fault - I was projecting that I was a super nice and safe guy. I also wasn't screening them if they were sexually interested and sexual available. Girls saw me as boyfriend material, not an particularly exciting guy that could fuck them good.
How to Tell if She's Interested or "Down to Fuck" (Super Important) Audio
When you hit on a chick the object is to see if she's compatible and sexually available for you.
The object is not to "make her like you" by showing her that you are a "safe, nice guy".
Hot girls don't get excited or wet from meeting another "safe, nice guy".
One Step At A Time
If you are just starting to approach girls or if you have just started approaching girls with a "Filter Them Out" mindset, don't start thinking about screening/filtering just yet. Lower your approach anxiety first. Get comfortable walking up to chicks and talking to them. In order to truly screen and filter out undesirable personality types - you first need to be comfortable with just talking to new girls. Then you can build in some screening material and techniques.
Seriously, don't get too far ahead of yourself, don't take 1 step forward to take 2 steps back.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.