Your Redshirt Year

Coming in 2014, I've vowed to do shorter posts - simply because I can tell you MORE by telling you LESS, MORE OFTEN.

There's some stuff that needs a comprehensive head-to-toe discussion and examination and will receive just that.

This is one of the shorter ones.

If you are familiar with the NCAA and college athletics, you might have heard of the term "redshirt".

Believing Screening

If you've spent time around the Good Looking Loser community, you'll know that I "teach" something called "screening".

In short, it is our approach to Getting laid.

Instead of relying on jokes, dialogue and techniques to convince girls to "like you," you simply go around making normal, sometimes flirtatious conversation, with women and touch them in the process.

The women that are "sexually available" will respond positively (or neutrally) and the ones that aren't will leave the interaction.

Swag Factor (Social Status/Skills Examined)updated: December 2016 (Restored)

Why Some Guys with Good Looks, Style, Social Freedom are still Underachieving with Women...

This is one of the main reasons that a lot of guys are unsuccessful at getting a lot of top-shelf women. Even guys with pretty good Looks, Style and Social Freedom that REALLY play the numbers game. This is the lesser and more complex 4th (and final) factor.

This is an interesting topic. A complex one, even though I try to simplify it while covering it from head-to-toe.

This one has taken me over 6 days to write and mull over. (I even tripped out on ACID to gain further insight. I'm just kidding. Don't believe every word I say.)

You Work For Me

A popular concept in surrounding this "pick up women" stuff is having and maintaining an alpha "frame". This so-called "frame" communicates your confidence (or lack thereof) and supposedly is the core behind your words and actions. In general, the idea is to have solid "frame" so you don't get sidetracked from your goal- GETTING LAID. There is a notion that an alpha frame can be taught - I don't quite agree but I feel it can be developed if you know what you are shooting for and have an example to follow. Frame, just like any sort of "game" shit, is simply a manifestation of social freedom.

A wise man once saw one of the "faster/aggressive" videos and commented that I have an "executive frame."

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I had never heard the term "executive frame" before but it's definitely captures what I'm shooting for. Good thinking, Sgt. Gumbles. Basically, I'm the boss - the girl is the worker. Better yet, she's the secretary. I order her around (but not in a total asshole way). I interact with her within that dynamic AT LEAST until I screen her and she passes (e.g. grab hold of her hand and she doesn't stop me). It's an effective first impression on emotionally-healthy women that like to get fucked by an alpha male with more power than they. What's also good is that the "boss-worker" dynamic remains throughout the entire relationship whether that be 1 night or several months. She'll always look at you like you are the boss. Provided you met an above-average first impression, they never forget "how" you picked them up even if they don't remember what was said. It's actually kinda funny when I catch a girl in her office attire during the week.

One of the biggest issues I've seen with the "average" [non-community] guy is that he hasn't given himself permission to get pussy.

Maybe his looks are above-average, maybe his style is above-average and maybe he's actually pretty confident past the first 30 seconds, but the second he puts himself in a situation where there's chicks around- all that goes out the window.

He's waiting for something.

Maybe an IOI, maybe some sort of green light, maybe even a sign from God, "Claim that pussy!!"

Here's the deal- give yourself permission to hit on girls.