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How to Go Out By Yourself at Night - The First Month
Welcome to the first month of our "How to Go Out Alone to Bars" program.
The first month of this program is fairly easy and is largely meant to give guys a reason to GET OUT OF THE HOUSE and work on the very beginnings of controlled exposure therapy and the very very beginnings of Killer Instinct (aggressiveness).
Killer Instinct, as you know, is the primary factor that separates guys that Get Laid a lot at night and the guys who end up with a bunch of phone numbers.
While you've always had the option of going out alone - it's not an easy task to "just go pick up girls" if you have approach anxiety.
In fact, going out by yourself at night and having a productive (let alone not miserable night) is virtually impossible.
Ideally, I want you guys to develop into MEN that don't have much approach, social or sexual anxiety and aren't dependent on others for emotional support.
If you haven't hit on girls ever, the thought of going out alone and hitting on (screening) the HOTTEST girls might be scary. It was for me when I was just starting out. At the same time, I didn't exactly want to be around other guys that could take my focus off of what I was trying to do- GET LAID.
Standing around at a bar or club without talking to anyone might make you feel weird or like a loser. Stupid (untrue) thoughts go through your head, "All these girls know that I'm here alone!" "Everything is looking at me!" If you are just standing around, people actually think that you work at the place, not that you are some creeper that has no friends, no life, no balls and is trying to Get Laid (haha). In time, with experience, these thoughts will go away completely.
Mainstream pick up advice offers the solution, "Be confident!" "Don't care what other people think!"
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.