It just occurred to me that the final draft of this discussion looks like some of other pussy ass dating sites.

Don't worry, the material isn't pussy. I wanted to add some color since it's a long post.

The guys in the GoodLookingLoser community have a pretty good perspective of how to get good with women so you can have an "autopilot" life full of HOT pussy. Ideally that means only needing to hit on girls to fill out your rotation of fuckbuddies if one drops off or having an ideal relationship with a girl(s) who is EXACTLY what you want and more.

Around here, I don't often hear mainstream questions such as "How long until I can have sex with 20 HOT girls in a year?" "How long until I'm good?" "How long until I get my first fuckbuddy?" "How many girls should I talk to today?" "I'm planning on talking to 4 girls on Thursday, is that enough?" or see guys contemplating if its even worth talking to women ever again and "quitting".

Guys that tend to ask questions like that or "quit [talking to members of the opposite sex forever]," have several different mindsets than most of the guys here. For one, picking up chicks/being a player is something completely separate from who they are. They dress up in a pick up artist costume 2 times and week and wonder why it never feels comfortable. Second, they don't quite treat this "learn to fuck hot pussy" thing like they would if they were learning anything else. To be honest with you, I was guilty of both at some point.

Most guys in the Good Looking Loser community have a pretty good idea of how to read girls and find out which girls are DTF and which are not. Finding out [and knowing how to find out] which girls are sexually available is key to Getting Laid on a regular basis. Most guys here don't waste their time spitting game or trying to entertain unavailable girls. Even still, this discussion is something that can be a reminder or may be insightful and cut a lot of junk out of your brain that keeps your from being aggressive.

There is a term in the pick up artist/seduction community called "IOIs," known as indicators of interest.

Here's a post from a guy that wants to learn all of the IOIs so he'll know when he can "get further" with girls-

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Screening "Game"

You guys know that I encourage developing your "screening game," I got an email recently that suggested that I haven't really defined this whole "screening" thing.

One very important thing to understand is that "screening" is a mindset or a mentality, not a technique. It is not like "qualification," where you use a certain technique or line to convince the girl that you have standards or you are an alpha male. Although I suggest certain lines/techniques (such as: Hey, I know this is a little random, but I thought you were attractive and I wanted to come what you were like...) It doesn't really matter what words you use.

Screening is a mindset where you are simply profiling the girl to see what her deal is (is she sexually available that specific moment in time?).

That is all.

Non-Verbal Physical Advances

If you've checked out "Screening Game: How to Screen and Filter Out Chicks Without Being Rejected," "Mr. Funny Man vs. Mr. Pussy Inspector," or the basic model "Kino: When You Meet a Chick, Touch Her ASAP to Screen and Establish a Physical Dialogue," you understand the importance of 'screening' a girl rather than letting her screen you as you stand there running "I Hope She Likes Me Game."

Being aggressive and screening involves two things: Sexually-Charged Conversation + Physical Advances.

Arguably, the later, physical advances, are the most important part in the screening process. If a chick is amused by your sexually-charged dialogue she may hang around. But only if she is down-to-fuck (or in the near future) will she allow you to physically escalate on her. The good news is, the physical advances (dialogue) is super easy to learn and super easy to apply, if you allow yourself (just fucking touch the girl).

If you have social, approach or sexual anxiety that is preventing you from doing this- we can work on that.

"Screening" Mindset vs. "I Hope She Likes Me" Mindset

A post on the forum motivated me to discuss something that everyone ultimately must internalize if they are going to really be successful at picking up chicks. It's especially necessary to bang the the hottest chicks.

This might really be a breakthrough for most guys.

It was for me, even though I didn't realize it at the time.

Here's the audio of Mr. Pussy Inspector. An extended version of this post.