Misconceptions About "Players"(updated: August 24th 2014)

One of my biggest beefs with the whole 'Pickup Artist', 'Seduction Community' and mainstream (Men's Journal, Maxim, etc.) is that, either intentionally or subconsciously, they totally exaggerate how "skilled", smooth or confident a guy who is naturally successful with women actually is.

Vulnerable or inexperienced guys are led to believe that they need to become a superhero to be successful with women.

"I'll never get to that level!"

"I have so far to go..."

What I Know That You Don't(and why you thank me when I've done nothing)

We talk about a lot of topics - Getting Laid, getting a killer body, getting a bigger dick, beating anxiety/depression, performance enhancing drugs, etc.

At times, I go really deep into subjects, for example: Swag Factor, Sense of Entitlement and even Fetish-Based Sex (more to come).

I'm able to do that because I've been living and breathing many of these subjects for over a decade.

The reality is, however, I know that what brings the most results for people is far less in-depth and far less insightful.

The most frequently asked question I get on the Approach Anxiety Program (and Bathmate, ironically) from guys that considering investing their time it is-

Will My Approach Anxiety Go Away Forever? Will My "Gains" Be Permanent? 

Despite varying definitions of "approach anxiety", "go away" and "forever", the short answer is-

Yes.

I define 'beating approach anxiety' as being able to approach 90% of the girls you want to with Basic Guy Game.

What Are My Odds?  (updated June 9th 2015)

This will be one of the most comprehensive pieces on "numbers game" on the Internet.

Hopefully it will be a "once and for all" post where we don't have to visit this again, or you can just refer new guys here for the answers to all their questions.

There's a bunch of stuff I need you to realize before we tackle this subject and start spitting out numbers.

First off-

This is a slightly more official writeup of an old post and video in our fourm and a video I made for one of the original members (who lost his V-card last summer with some help from us).

This is an extensive topic and I won't even attempt to cover it all on this page.

In the future- we will certainly discuss how to make friends. Unfortunately, the blog can only move so fast if we are going to give you quality information, so some subjects are less of a priority. I want to give you what I got, it will help some guys in the meantime. Believe me, my discussions on college and making cool friends will be bomb. The best stuff on the Internet like most of other stuff.

As mentioned in "About Good Looking Loser," I've lived in 9 different cities for periods of at least 6 months. I'd also spent some summers (usually periods of ~3 months) in a few different cities too. I have lived in all 4 corners of the United States.