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Doing more videos today, hopefully the camera cooperates.
I'm planning to do a whole bunch more.
Maybe 20-25 by December, we'll see.
Maybe I'll get to New York and get Scotty on camera too.
As of September 15th 2012, I got 3 videos up.
They are all basically the same thing.
Some people are impressed, some are not, most agree that I make it look fairly simple.
The first two are basic, the 3rd one is more ballsy at first but ends up being basic.
Outside of GoodLookingLoser.com the feedback is good, even from the guys that hate the pick up artist thing.
While I appreciate the nice feedback, there is a bigger picture that I'd like you to consider.
A small minority of people have pointed that there are certain points in the videos that I don't look "entirely smooth," and I totally agree with that.
It doesn't.
While I could say- "oh that's because I'm 225lbs and look 240lbs on the camera," or "this was the first time doing these videos," or "if you saw it in REAL LIFE, you'd think it was smooth! You watch too many movies!"... that's not the reason.
It's not entirely smooth, but I'm not entirely smooth.
I'm never have been, I never will be.
And It's never prevented me from fucking tons of beautiful highly sought after women that have limitless options for sex.
There's NO REAL NON-STAGED video that will look entirely smooth.
There's no entirely smooth way to get a girl to get off her cell phone and change her schedule to sit down chill with you.
There's no entirely smooth way to touch a girl that's in the process of folding clothes while on the other side of a counter.
The point is- it doesn't matter.
These girls are sexually available. They are interested. They aren't entirely smooth either. I'm gonna touch them a couple of times as best I can depending on the dynamic and they'll respond as best they can.
Sometimes it'll be smooth, sometimes it won't.
We are REAL PEOPLE not entirely smooth Pick Up Artists who apparently get every girl (but never fuck any of them).
Some of moments in the videos will look smooth. Some will not. That isn't going to change. Ever.
That's how it is in real life.
So long as I'm not completely sloppy, it will go fine.
Scotty has fucked girls that physically pushed him in the chest when he tried to bite their neck in the first 2-3 minutes. Not that smooth.
I've picked up girls at the gym with sweat running down my face and my heart beating out of my chest. Trust me, wasn't smooth.
I picked up one of the hottest girls I've ever been with while my nose was partially bleeding from getting hit by my friend's fucking boogie board at Santa Monica beach. Think that looked smooth?
Guys in Los Angeles pick up girls at the high-end Hollywood clubs when they are literally shaking from sticking cocaine up their nose 5 minutes before. Not smooth.
There's guys WAY smoother than I, that haven't gotten half the amount of pussy or quality.
Forget Hollywood, it was never entirely smooth there either.
Brad Pitt only looks entirely smooth in his movies, because of redoing 25+ takes of the SAME scene.
Michael Jordan only looks entirely smooth on only a certain percentages of his jump shots.
Kate Upton only looks entirely smooth in 1 or 2 pictures after a rapid-fire camera takes 600 shots of her in 30 seconds and hours of air-bushing.
Cosmo Kramer on "Seinfeld" only looks entirely smooth after sliding into Jerry's apartment after 25+ takes of the SAME scene.
It's funny when the seduction companies recommend that a guy "copies" Brad Pitt's body language in Fight Club.
Good luck with that.
Brad spent over a year making that 75 minute movie.
This post is as much about you as it is me.
You don't have to be some sort of Perfect Don Juan to fuck even the hottest girls. That character never existed anyway. He's an actor and a figment of our imagination.
Enough with the Don Juan shit. Go Get Laid.
Keep it real.
Take the pressure off yourself.
Forget being smooth and definitely STOP trying to be.
You'll be smooth at times, it will be sloppy at times.
When you get good- you'll look smooth more often than not, but you'll have sloppy interactions too.
I guarantee you though- 90% of the girls that you pick up, will think you are smooth. Even if you weren't.
Update from what I told a guy at Fast Seduction-
"These videos are a decent reflection of 'how it actually is'... people on GLL wanted videos so my friend and I went out and shot them... no rehearsal, no nothing. We went out and did them. You might see videos where it's smoother, my future videos might be smoother (or not)... but it's usually not how it goes... I could go approach 50 girls and post up 2-3 SUPER smooth interactions... and I'd be misrepresenting myself or what it "takes" to get girls."
more about not being smooth- "Be Aggressive, Don't Be Smooth"
Hey GLL,
I really like your stuff, great work. I can't do day game, because I'm living in a 300 people town and the nearest "game" city is 2 hours away. I have done it a few times, but it's hard to get momentum and practice. I've got a year left...
Hey GLL,
I really like your stuff, great work. I can't do day game, because I'm living in a 300 people town and the nearest "game" city is 2 hours away. I have done it a few times, but it's hard to get momentum and practice. I've got a year left of school, so moving out is not an option.
Do you do night game at all? If yes, could you do some videos on night game? I'm turning 18 on 30th October, and I want to go out for Halloween on the 31st. Thanks.
I liked the fact that the vids weren't necessarily entirely smooth, I'll take something that looks natural and real life over some staged how-to video anytime! It's also a lot more helpful this way, at least to a guy like me (and many others I'm...
I liked the fact that the vids weren't necessarily entirely smooth, I'll take something that looks natural and real life over some staged how-to video anytime! It's also a lot more helpful this way, at least to a guy like me (and many others I'm sure) who just aren't naturally smooth and probably never will be, it's just not part of my personality and if I tried to act smooth it would come off phoney as fuck. These are something I can definitely learn from, always looking forward to more.
Speaking of real life and something I can relate to, I'm waiting for the day that you film yourself trying to talk to a girl with the personality of a half-dead toad, like most of the one's I seem to come across! lol
Hey bro- Thank you much.
Yup we'll do some night stuff. no problem. It seems the majority of guys here are doing day game, so I started there. plus the day time videos are easier to do (and we clearly haven't perfected them in terms of quality...
Hey bro- Thank you much.
Yup we'll do some night stuff. no problem. It seems the majority of guys here are doing day game, so I started there. plus the day time videos are easier to do (and we clearly haven't perfected them in terms of quality audio/video)
damn 300 is pretty small. Do your best and maybe take a more social approach, "Hey I've seen you before, we haven't met, I'm [Trzer]."
I just encourage you to stick with it, maybe look at Zuberi's thread in the forum, he's in a small Euro town. At 17 (18) you can really have an amazing sex life if you send your early 20s maxing out your looks, style, social freedom.
Thanx Dawg-- yeah I'll even admit these 3 girls were more talkative than the average girl. Some of that is a product of eye contact and smile (or wink) before, but it was clearly their personality as well.
Some of my favorite "pickups" and best...
Thanx Dawg-- yeah I'll even admit these 3 girls were more talkative than the average girl. Some of that is a product of eye contact and smile (or wink) before, but it was clearly their personality as well.
Some of my favorite "pickups" and best women were part of a sloppy, drunken, completely awful looking interaction (to which they thought was smooth). Although in-person it seems smooth because the social tension b/w both parties. But it doesn't matter so long as you look good (i dont mean 'good looking') and you aren't completely awful.
Nearly everyone that likes to claim "he's soooo smooth," is usually playing that most pussy-ass safe game imaginable.
Hell- even in my staged "smile technique" video I'm not even fucking smooth
http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/07/06/smile-technique/
we shot that video 2 or 3 times.
if every guy had to be "super smooth" to get laid- there would be no fucking that ever happened.
I love the simplicity as well.
The thing is, if you're starting out, you have all these unrealistic notions of how a good interaction should be. For a lot of guys this makes them nervous when they have to approach a girl. More nervous then they...
I love the simplicity as well.
The thing is, if you're starting out, you have all these unrealistic notions of how a good interaction should be. For a lot of guys this makes them nervous when they have to approach a girl. More nervous then they already are.
I definetly loved it!
Thanks man.. I appreciate it
when it comes down to it-
you either fuck the girl, or you don't
no bonus points for-
being smooth
making her laugh
being interesting
cool story bro
being smart
body language
touching her at the right time
those...
Thanks man.. I appreciate it
when it comes down to it-
you either fuck the girl, or you don't
no bonus points for-
being smooth
making her laugh
being interesting
cool story bro
being smart
body language
touching her at the right time
those are just details, insignificant details if the girl is DTF
The objective during these (Day approaches without Logistics) is basically to ask/get her number. Possibly saying something like "she's attractive/cute/etc," and especially a few touches, and definitely asking for her number, let's her know the...
The objective during these (Day approaches without Logistics) is basically to ask/get her number. Possibly saying something like "she's attractive/cute/etc," and especially a few touches, and definitely asking for her number, let's her know the nature/intent of the interaction is s*xual or nothing. If she says her correct number then she's at least saying that she is single (although the majority of single girls are probably seeking a bf/hs), and hence possibly DTF eventually (there's probably very few guys even who ever attempt a SDL as most guys seem to just want a steady gf, therefore the majority of guys never make physical advances until D2 or even up to D30). If talking with a girl goes continously "smooth without any non-smooth moments" then he is probably just running a PUA-routine and the girl is probably bored. A "routine" does not have the "s*xual tension/s*xual intent" that a woman can feel as "s*xual chemistry/connection." The "masculine man with a s*xual intent vibe" (plus she likely has at least some attraction to his looks) gives her a green light to signal during this interactiion that she is "s*xually available to him if he leads the interaction in that direction." A guy can non-smoothly say about anything, "Blah, blah," and if she is available she will think no matter what he said "I met this really cute guy and I could feel we just had this amazing connection and it just happened." Then, aske her what they talked about, "Oh, we talked about some stuff."
To guys just starting out (I'm only talking to myself while thinking about a post because I do not give advice or suggestions), while not trying to be "smooth," it possibly can help (I do not and I am not trying to "help" anyone, just again thinking about a post) to breathe and stay relaxed and be calm when Approaching/Touching/Talking to girls, just enough to do the Approaches/etc. Similarly in how "not trying to be smooth or perfect" can allow me to remain relaxed/calm, and to maintain my masculine s*xual intent vibe, while I do the main oblective (during the Day) of Approach/ask for her number.
In the popular clip of Paul Janka he even takes her phone and chats on it (in NYC it appears), so wonder if that was authentic or staged.
Just a note to myself, I would not take anyones phone and talk on it, unless I knew there was someone on it I wanted to talk to.
I've actually never met Paul since he's in NYC (I've seen most/all of the LA/So Cal based guys over the past 3.5 years)--
I'm pretty sure you can trust all the videos he's done , because that's how it's done.. it's the exact blueprint for the...
I've actually never met Paul since he's in NYC (I've seen most/all of the LA/So Cal based guys over the past 3.5 years)--
I'm pretty sure you can trust all the videos he's done , because that's how it's done.. it's the exact blueprint for the 'average guy game'. We just touch girls more so the process moves faster. Paul has a high level of looks, style, social freedom... so therefore he probably gets laid a lot. the techniques are just details.
A friend of mine used to grab girl's phones, he got laid a lot (social freedom) and he got ridiculous amounts of ass... one of the best guys I've ever seen
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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