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Like Swag Factor, this concept of "Killer Instinct" is an in-depth look at one of the main, yet seldom discussed factors involved in GETTING LAID.
Killer Instinct can be considered the "second half" of Social Freedom.
Killer Instinct is how comfortable, assertive and determined you are in taking things to the next level.
While Killer Instinct is a 'scumbag' attribute, it's not exclusive to that type of guy.
While "Instinct" suggests that it's a natural characteristic, it's not - it can be developed.
We'll discuss all these things.
In my opinion-
Killer Instinct is rarely discussed by mainstream dating/PUA because those genres are devoted to "Meeting Women" rather than actually sleeping with them.
That is why things like "text game" and "how-to-trick-her-to-make-her-like-you" exist. Don't confuse "meeting women" or "dating" for Get Laid.
It's a totally different goal.
If there's ever any question on who fucks hot girls and who doesn't- ask yourself-
Does this guy really have masculine killer instinct?
Or just a bunch of "intelligent" theories?
Any [normal] guy that sleeps with a lot of girls will tell you that Killer Instinct is HUGE factor, an expression of confidence and masculinity that separates them undersexed norm.
If ever want to find peace in knowing, "I can go out 2 or 3 times a week and Get Laid at least once," you have got to develop some Killer Instinct.
If you always want to land chicks in your bed in under an hour, provided the logistics- you have got to develop some Killer Instinct.
If you ever want to have a relationship where you automatically retain vast majority of the power, regardless of your emotional, financial or social situation- you have got to develop some Killer Instinct and your partner should be quite aware of it.
So yeah- it's kind of a big deal.
Even good looking guys will have an average sex life if they don't have much Killer Instinct.
Trust me, I know.
There is A LOT of useful stuff in the video that may not appear in the text below.
Table of Contents
00:00 Introduction & What u got in that bottle playboy??? (BCAAs & Happy Hippo I Kratom)
01:20 What is Killer Instinct? (Advanced Social Freedom)
03:05 Killer, Killer Instinct Success Analogy = Mike Tyson, Randy Moss, Roger Clemens
07:55 Killer Instinct Separates Guys that Get Laid Alot, Quick vs. Not A lot
08:40 Examples/Scenarios of Killer Instinct, Impact vs. Not Killer Instinct
13:30 Killer Instinct, Tagging Girls = Game
17:15 Mr. Smooth is busy being smooth instead of getting laid
18:15 PUA has very little Killer Instinct
18:45 Get Laid, Killer Instinct vs. Meet Women, Make her like you (PUA, mainstream dating)
20:00 Aggressive Killer Instinct isn't actually instinct, you can develop it
21:35 If you are trying to Get Laid - when a girl likes you, the next step is to sleep with her
22:25 Things like "Kiss Close" and "Text Game" are ridiculous to normal guys that Get Laid a lot
24:00 Developing Killer Instinct
25:25 RANT - Girls don't have to be completely comfortable to go along with what you are doing. Excitement beats Comfortable
28:45 Scotty's Insight from 2008
31:50 "The Window" of sexually availability and "Maybe Girls"
35:30 Lack of Killer Instinct = The reason why I still wasn't getting laid a ton in 2010
40:00 Kill that twat son
Killer Instinct Analogies: Mike Tyson, Randy Moss, Roger Clemens (03:05)
Regardless if you think that Mike Tyson was actually a "good" boxer, he was successful. Highly successful.
He was twice (or three times?) crowned undisputed heavyweight champion of the world. What set Iron Mike apart from other boxers was his killer instinct. Not only was he insane but he had the rare speed and power that could break someone's jaw in 2/10ths of a second. In his prime, he held the psychological edge over every opponent that he faced, including boxers like Evander Hollyfield that bigger and more fundamentally sound. Tyson would bury his opponents when the opportunity presented itself, often within the first three minutes. Rather than fighting a finesse game, Tyson was looking for the kill shot in every round.
When he was part of the pick up community, Scotty earned the tag "White Tyson," unlike majority of the folklore in the PUA world, this reputation was much deserved.
I'm not looking for an argument of how work ethic/being a good teammate is part of killer instinct, I'm simply talking about Randy Moss' skill.
Randy's game (skill) was still Killer. He was truly looking to score on every play and had the talent to do so.
Like Tyson, Moss could cook his competition in a matter of seconds and is considered [one of] the most explosive wideouts of a all-time. There's not many football players that were actually a treat to score on every play. Despite the admitted mental lapses, Moss was still arguably the most feared player in the history of the game.
In my opinion, Clemens is as competitive and killer as a baseball player could be. If you crowded the plate, he'd throw a 98mph fastball at your head.
He wasn't scared of anyone and looking to throw the same fastball by everybody he faced even if it meant throwing the exact same pitch over and over.
Clemens turned up the intensity and his game WHEN IT MATTERS- in the playoffs.
The ability to "pull the trigger" at any phase of the interaction is Killer Instinct, it's not a just a bedroom thing.
Guys that Get Laid a lot understand 'sexual availability' and never assume it's going to last. They have developed Killer Instinct to POUNCE on the opportunity ASAP. Their interactions may begin to resemble foreplay quite quickly. They goal remains the same- have sex with the girl. Once they know a girl likes them, they are making preparations to fulfill that goal and not trying to make the girl "like them more".
Due to their aggressiveness, they naturally attract girls that are DTF and screen out the ones that are not. They are rarely talking to the wrong chicks and there is rarely much resistance in the end.
Guys who have not developed much Killer Instinct don't sleep with as many girls and don't really have much of a chance of landing same day or night pussy. The lack of aggressiveness and harmless persona tends to attract girls that want boyfriends and girls that want attention. The lack of aggressiveness also limits the actual quantity of girls they can speak to and how far they can take those girls in a 1-6 hour (sexually-charge nighttime environment).
They won't meet or sleep with as many girls as aggressive guys because LITERALLY- they might be texting or "working on" a girl while a guy with killer instinct is getting a blowjob. You can still get solid results with low levels of Killer Instinct, but just be prepared to end up on a lot of dates. That was the territory I was in in my first 18-20 months of hitting on lots of girls.
Watch the video if you want to hear about this one.
So many people, including myself years ago, have no idea what "game" is.
If you consider game to be "How Many How Girls You've Fucked," arguably, KILLER INSTINCT is the most important factor and is forever more important than being/looking smooth.
Guys with Killer Instinct Get Laid.
Guys that are smooth (or trying to be) don't as much because they are constantly playing it safe because they are afraid to look bad.
Normal guys that get a lot pussy usually drink a fair amount and look sloppy. They Get Laid because they are aggressive and have the goal of GETTING LAID and not the goal of "being smooth". They are willing to look like a creep and know it's not their fault if they run into some uptight girl that has unhealthy views of sex.
There's several ways to develop Killer Instinct. They are discussed more in-depth in the video.
Remember [supposedly] why you are hitting on women in the first place.
Watch the video.
If you "believe" in the concept of numbers game and sexually availability, where NOT-EVERY-SINGLE-GIRL-IS-DOWN-TO-FUCK-AT-ALL-TIMES, you'll know understand that a "window" exists.
I call this the "window of availability".
In the finite window of time, you can fuck the girl.
The window can open and close, for a number of reasons. Alcohol is certainly one and I list about 60+ more in the link above.
Assuming you look good, have cool style and can hit on girls, the majority of [available] chicks will "maybe" fuck you. The maybe isn't based on your looks, style, social freedom however.
It is based on- CAN YOU MAKE IT HAPPEN?
See video.
In 2010, I fulfilled my goal of having 4 hot fuckbuddies in Los Angeles.
While I was happy, it took longer than I wanted to get all the girls in bed and I still didn't feel I could go out and Get Laid though on any given night, even though I seemingly had everything together.
The next (last) step was to get aggressive and live near the bars/clubs I hit up.
Great insight Chris....Killer Instinct or the ability to pull the trigger is something that impedes the progress of many guys in their progress. Hesitation and second-guessing results in many missed oppourtunities...many of which may never...
Great insight Chris....Killer Instinct or the ability to pull the trigger is something that impedes the progress of many guys in their progress. Hesitation and second-guessing results in many missed oppourtunities...many of which may never present themselves again.That's why its always important to seize the moment and strike while the iron is hot...so to speak
Much of your advice is clear, concise and on point . I particularly liked your bit concerning self-reflection and displaying
leadership. I guess it all boils down to being aggressive and proactive enough to put in place measures that are
necessary to what you want to achieve; which can relate to anything in life not just success with women.
With that being said I think that the success which you are currently enjoying is only achievable for a very select few. Guys like yourself are part of an EXTREMELY elite group. Your lives and experiences are extraordinary. You have many tools are your disposable (height,looks,status, extensive social circle,logistics along with a vibe that screams Alpha Male) that unfortunately aren't available to many of us.
available to many guys.
Your shit is getting so advanced and like really important. I'm watching the video on this page, and swag factor.
"If he's cool he'll call me his weekend" - love that, her window of sexual availability is small.
Having a game plan.
All some...
Your shit is getting so advanced and like really important. I'm watching the video on this page, and swag factor.
"If he's cool he'll call me his weekend" - love that, her window of sexual availability is small.
Having a game plan.
All some great stuff. Thanks Chris!
Yo thanks Steve - yeah its not a matter of Yes/No if a girl thinks you look good-- its more like Yes/When if you are persistent... and catching them on a certain night. Late on a Tuesday night (For some reason)-- random... so many girls that had...
Yo thanks Steve - yeah its not a matter of Yes/No if a girl thinks you look good-- its more like Yes/When if you are persistent... and catching them on a certain night. Late on a Tuesday night (For some reason)-- random... so many girls that had ignored my 1 line texts for month wanted to get together.
this one absolutely beautiful model girl Angelique once told me "sorry that we didnt meet up for a while, its like not that I didnt like you" (aka=== she was looking for a relationship, not a player). I was doing the PUA stuff at the time and thought "she stopped liking me" because of my "txt game"... and that never happened, once they like you - they like you.
<strong>"attraction is not choice" haha, DeAngelo was right- but it has nothing to do with "game".
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in all seriousness I might have tagged 300+ girls by now if I didnt delete numbers if they didnt text me back right away. I would seriously text girls 1 time and if I didn't get the response I wanted I'd immediately stop texting them because of fear of looking "needy"
now, i can even text/facebook girls that liked me in highschool, college and get them to meet up with me.. havent seen them for years
What bullshit.
Cut the fucking pusslike adherence and depressiveness
There is no fucking EXTREMELY elite group. The whole point off GLL is to help ordinnary guys to get better. Excel in puss.
Stop whining like a little bitch and making excuses.
D...
What bullshit.
Cut the fucking pusslike adherence and depressiveness
There is no fucking EXTREMELY elite group. The whole point off GLL is to help ordinnary guys to get better. Excel in puss.
Stop whining like a little bitch and making excuses.
Do what you got to do and let it be.
Every guy is born with a dick what means that you can get good at using it.
No fucking elite groups and extraordinary lives.
sure ill check it out man
hmm.. "i dont give out my number so fast"...
i dont get that too much online. due to the nature of my profile I'd either the girls talk to me (and like me) or they don't. there's not a lot of in-between, i want girl...
sure ill check it out man
hmm.. "i dont give out my number so fast"...
i dont get that too much online. due to the nature of my profile I'd either the girls talk to me (and like me) or they don't. there's not a lot of in-between, i want girl that searching for boyfriends/move slow to get the fuck away from me ASAP.
i think phrasing it as "whats a # I can text you at" might off set that but I dont know
in person, I guess I've said a variety of stuff if I didnt just keep talking. "Honey im not planning to take to you a PG movie and then introducing you to my family" or I try again literally 10 seconds later. "how about now.. how about now. how about now. how about now. what about now." in a funny/sarcastic way. its usually a sign that the girls looking to move kinda slow though, they are "maybe" girls but they lean more toward dating
if that makes sense
I may have not gotten a lot of looks the past month because of looking like a backpacker, but when the opportunity I appeared, I stretched my comfort zone as far as humanly possible. I always try to kiss every girl that is receptive, grab their...
I may have not gotten a lot of looks the past month because of looking like a backpacker, but when the opportunity I appeared, I stretched my comfort zone as far as humanly possible. I always try to kiss every girl that is receptive, grab their ass, kiss their chest, pull them in front of everyone.
For example, I took a girl into a cab for the first time few days ago. She even said no, but as long as she isn't running away or pulling her hand away (no force used), she just laughed "You are crazy" all the time, I was her first same-day-lay. The sex was great!
Validation-seeking is a huge problem but after a few months, you will want less and less because it just sends you into the sexless date-swamp.
Btw I love chess, and another excellent example of a killer instinct man is the Azerbaijani former chess world champion Gary Kasparov. He was the strongest chessplayer in the whole world from 1985 to 2000 as well as the far most feared by his...
Btw I love chess, and another excellent example of a killer instinct man is the Azerbaijani former chess world champion Gary Kasparov. He was the strongest chessplayer in the whole world from 1985 to 2000 as well as the far most feared by his rivals, and is even still considered to be the best chessplayer in History, together with the American player Bobby Fischer. Kasparov always had and was loyal to his attacking style non-stop and never missed out nor forgave any favorable opportunity on the board, he would definitely end up killing his rival, he would clearly defeat all of them severely hard.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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