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You guys know that I encourage developing your "screening game," I got an email recently that suggested that I haven't really defined this whole "screening" thing.
Screening is a mindset not a technique
One very important thing to understand is that "screening" is a mindset or a mentality, not a technique. It is not like "qualification," where you use a certain technique or line to convince the girl that you have standards or you are an alpha male. Although I suggest certain lines/techniques (such as: Hey, I know this is a little random, but I thought you were attractive and I wanted to come what you were like...) It doesn't really matter what words you use.
What is Screening?
Screening is a mindset where you are simply profiling the girl to see what her deal is (is she sexually available that specific moment in time?).
Seeking Validation Will Keep You Average/Make You QUIT
This is one of the most important discussions you'll read on GoodLookingLoser.com
Here's a pretty long audio (~50minutes) on this IMPORTANT subject if you are having issues with developing a LEGIT screening mindset and getting LOTS of HOT Chicks. It discusses in-depth about my history/struggle to beat the validation mindset and how this mindset can potentially completely ruin your chances at getting good at this causing you to eventually quit.
The audio expands on the discussion (text) below-
Here are some other SUPER important discussions that you should understand, apply and embrace-
"Screening Game: How to Screen and Filter Girls Out Instead of Being Rejected" (Approach Anxiety) "I Hope She Likes Me Game - So Much Is On The Line!!!" (Screening) "Mr. Funny Man (I Hope She Likes Me) vs. Mr. Pussy Inspector" (Screening)"Get Laid or Get Lost" (Screening)
Hey, GoodLookingLoser.com has been public for about 3 months now, I'm thrilled to have EVERYONE here. Seriously, I am. This is basically my first time building an ongoing website and I appreciate all the love and feedback that we have gotten. I can't do with without you guys.
If you've checked out "Screening Game: How to Screen and Filter Out Chicks Without Being Rejected," "Mr. Funny Man vs. Mr. Pussy Inspector," or the basic model "Kino: When You Meet a Chick, Touch Her ASAP to Screen and Establish a Physical Dialogue," you understand the importance of 'screening' a girl rather than letting her screen you as you stand there running "I Hope She Likes Me Game."
Being aggressive and screening involves two things: Sexually-Charged Conversation + Physical Advances.
Arguably, the later, physical advances, are the most important part in the screening process. If a chick is amused by your sexually-charged dialogue she may hang around. But only if she is down-to-fuck (or in the near future) will she allow you to physically escalate on her. The good news is, the physical advances (dialogue) is super easy to learn and super easy to apply, if you allow yourself (just fucking touch the girl).
If you have social, approach or sexual anxiety that is preventing you from doing this- we can work on that.
I hope she likes me...Audio: "I hope she likes me..." This is one of my BEST audios. I hope you 'like' it :) hehe
I've been doing this and coaching this stuff for a while.
This is what, consciously or unconsciously, goes through most guy's minds before they make the decision to talk to a chick, especially a smoking hot girl-
I hope she likes me, I hope she thinks this is funny, I hope she doesn't take this the wrong way, I hope she gets my joke, I hope she's interested in this subject, I hope she has something in common with me, I hope she doesn't think I'm a player, I hope I can talk to her and then slowly show her I'm interested in her in a smooth, non-creepy, appropriate, nice way, I hope I don't get rejected!!!!
To some degree or another, that's what went through my head when I was just getting started with this "pick up stuff" and even when I was banging hot chicks on a semi-regular/not-that-often basis.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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