Every 7-10 days, I'll see a comment on either a YouTube video or on the blog that says something to this effect-

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Believing Screening

If you've spent time around the Good Looking Loser community, you'll know that I "teach" something called "screening".

In short, it is our approach to Getting laid.

Instead of relying on jokes, dialogue and techniques to convince girls to "like you," you simply go around making normal, sometimes flirtatious conversation, with women and touch them in the process.

The women that are "sexually available" will respond positively (or neutrally) and the ones that aren't will leave the interaction.

... don't even know why they are/aren't sometimes.

We just discussed "sexual availability" in a recent post, "She's Probably Already Fucked a Guy Uglier than You," to explain why a seemingly less attractive guy can sleep with a girl that a more attractive guy didn't score with.

In both cases, it's important to remember- both guys met or exceeded the 'looks threshold'.

One night/period of time the girl was available, the other time she wasn't. The guy that Gets Laid is the guy who is in the right place at the right time.

Hot blonde California girls with skin slightly more tan than their pussy hair know him as, "Mr. Right Now."

This is an issue that I've needed to give some perspective on for a awhile. I think it will help certain guys make sense of some things. I'll try to cover it as concisely as possible, all you need is a basic explanation to understand it and tweak your approach, if need-be.

Everyone has a pretty good idea of "Screening Game: What is Screening?" where you 'screen' girls with physical advances to see if they are sexually available.

Some guys get it quickly, but some guys- in an effort to embrace and develop social courage, may misunderstand the dynamic of the situation. Obviously, Scotty and I push aggressive (sometimes extreme) behavior at all levels. About 10 of the main discussions on GLL remind you 'it's better to be too aggressive than too passive'. We talk about quick, unapologetic physical screening from the start. The coming perspective doesn't change that, it should give it context however.

Okay.

What I'm seeing from some guys is- full on, somewhat unnecessary escalation relative to their logistics.

Some guys have asked me recently- What goes through my head when I hit on (screen) a hot chick?

First off, the stuff that went on in my mind changed quite a bit from when I started this stuff back in 2006.

At first, it was "I hope she likes me," and all those "damn, I hope this goes okay..." thoughts.

Come late 2009 and 2010 (and today), the voice in my head says significantly different things.

Toward the middle of 2009, I would make a 'weekly list' of the stuff I want to do, basically a plan for the week.