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Aight... Wednesday, Erik and I went out to do some videos today.
This was my only day available this week since we're in the process of moving the forum to a hot platform and other administrative stuff on my agenda.
Annoying, funny day- in that order.
The camera was giving us some issues from the start, it seemed to kinda do that in that later parts of "GoodLookingLoser In-Field Video 2," but we didn't realize it. We weren't getting audio on most of the videos and it was cutting out on some of the others. 40 minutes ago, we did a hard format and factory restore to the camera and it seemed to have fixed that issue, so next round should go smoothly. I'll be doing more on Saturday afternoon.
This video seemed to film pretty well. There's full video and full audio (minus 8 seconds).
The only issue was that the cashier (and supervisor, not pictured) asked us to stop filming in their store.
I agreed, stood around the front of the store, and just told Erik to hide the camera as best he could. If they saw it- Erik would just leave and walk away before they called security or something. Haha- The video is going just fine until the guy notices the camera again and tells Erik to stop filming. Normally, we'd keep going, but even though the guy said it nicely-- they were getting pissed at us. (legal advice has instructed me to just WALK AWAY).
So anyway, the during remaining part of the interaction, I'm just sitting there talking to her. I take her number and leave. That's the gameplan on most of these more basic day videos.
The front part of this video is the only thing that really matters.
I engage her from a distance before we even speak, tell her to get off the phone, and grab her hand and walk into the place in about a minute. Cool girl actually.
I'm hoping the camera is fixed, we'll do more on Saturday. Apologize for the delay... they're cummin...
While it'll be nice to get up some "wow" videos once we catch a few that are good quality, I have no problem showing you some incomplete footage if it's beneficial (and audible). REAL is what we do, the wow factor may come from time-to-time, but it's def. not the focus in these first few.
It's not actually super easy to film and get solid audio on this stuff if you aren't staging or faking it, so we'll just do our best. It'll get better once we get the timing, camera angles (for audio), etc. I think Erik (guy filming it) has done a decent job so far, the girls never see/look at the camera. We've only shot like 6 videos, 3 of which are now posted.
remember: "opener" is the eye-contact and wink, not me telling her to get off her phone. whether she was in the middle of a conversation or finishing it up, I have no idea.
I suggest you listen to the beginning commentary on the dynamic of the approach.
Interaction Begins at 4:40 (turn up the volume, after the commentary)
Play-By-Play
04:42 - I make eye contact and smile at girl
04:47 - I make eye contact and wink at girl
04:52 - I just say "hey hey get off your phone real quick..... don't worry about it.... call her back... that's alright... can't talk.. you gotta go..." (something close to that)
05:08 - The usual intro "UMMMMMM... I know this is random but I thought you were attractive, so I wanted to come say hi"
05:11 - Girl says "hi, how are you" still probably thinking about how random/direct this is
05:18 - Usual follow up "well aren't you going to say I'm attractive too?"
05:22 - She doesn't want to say it because I'm a douchebag, but she's interested in me
05:24 - Another usual folow "so what are you up to, shopping for shoes or something"
05:34 - She says she's a flip-flop girl (note: I know right by this statement that she isn't a Hollywood girl, she's more real and down-to-earth)
05:37 - I say "Yo you want to grab coffee real quick?" she agrees and I grab her hand and walk in the place (this was the plan from the start, even though I usually don't do these insta-dates)
05:41 Audio goes quiet, I say "tell me what you do" (i think) she says she's a new 6th grade teacher
05:50 She asks where I'm from
*good audio*
06:20 She's guesses I'm from Sacramento CA, which is basically the opposite of Los Angeles, relative to California cities. This is a bad guess from a smaller town girl.
06:25 Audio goes quiet for a few seconds, you don't miss anything
06:31 I tell her "you aren't so tough" and stare at her and nudge her, I sense that she's pretending she's tough cause she's pretty confident
06:33 She says "I am too!!!" (explaining that she is tough).. its all just flirting btw.
06:36 I tell her that "she's not tough in real life and I'm not even kidding"
06:41 I tell her that "some guys might think you're tough," she says "the majority"
06:58 When I step away the guy behind the camera see's Erik with the camera and tells us "no filming" for the 3rd time haha... Erik leaves
There's nothing that significant in the next 7-8 minutes. I grab her hand and sit down in the corner. Talk to her about Los Angeles, sugar-free coffee syrups, she asks me about this weekend, I excuse myself and take her number, and give her a hug.
The more aggressive parts, relative to daytime, are getting her off the phone and taking her in the coffee shop in about 60 seconds. The rest is the same basic stuff that works fine during the day that most guys can do once they take care of the majority of their AA.
hope you enjoyed, this girl was naturally pretty cute
After you watch I highly encourage you take a look at the following discussions-
Comments, Questions, Whatever... Hit me up below--
05:22 â I like how you're rewarding her with the laugh and touch. This helps me to learn how to get physical from the start of the interaction.
05:37 - Grabbing her hand and leading: fantastic and dominant physical escalation move! I will...
05:22 â I like how you're rewarding her with the laugh and touch. This helps me to learn how to get physical from the start of the interaction.
05:37 - Grabbing her hand and leading: fantastic and dominant physical escalation move! I will definitely keep that in mind when the right time comes in the interaction.
BTW, Can you tell me how you managed to find skinny/tapered jeans that fit you so well even though you're muscular? I can't fit my thick squatting thighs into most designer jeans nowadays.
Yo man-
My legs are skinnier than you might think. Not "skinny" by normal definition, but compared to when I played hockey and trained for football. I couldn't fit into most designer jeans then.
I own 3 pairs of jeans, that's it, so maybe they...
Yo man-
My legs are skinnier than you might think. Not "skinny" by normal definition, but compared to when I played hockey and trained for football. I couldn't fit into most designer jeans then.
I own 3 pairs of jeans, that's it, so maybe they are worth a look
- Rock and Republic
- Mek Denim (somewhat outdated)
- 7 for Mankind (in the video)
I also owned 2 pairs of Affliction jeans which I sold when I ditched my Affliction look, those fit pretty well. lots of tears and distressed fabric
Guess by Marciano is good too, I think its the higher-end Guess line
none of them are the 'straight' or 'slim' fit though. those are impossible for pretty much anyone who does squats to put on.. as u know
So when are you going to upload videos where you (or Scotty) get rejected? When they are into you, it's simple. When they are not, its complicated. I want some videos on rejection, especially direct approaches "You are attractive, where you from?".
Do girls introduce themselves to you from their own initiation often during cold approaches? To me it has happened only once.
Yeah what SSK said... It would be awesome to see some vids where you get blown out of the water. I think it would help alot of us guys to see that it's really just part of the "game" and it happens to everyone including the experts.
I personally could give a fuck about seeing a video of someone getting "blown out". Shit, we all know what that looks like or we wouldn't be here! I already know how to get blown out, I don't need to see a video of it. I want to see videos of...
I personally could give a fuck about seeing a video of someone getting "blown out". Shit, we all know what that looks like or we wouldn't be here! I already know how to get blown out, I don't need to see a video of it. I want to see videos of the type of behavior that I want to emulate.
It's not easy getting these videos in public during the day. Maybe gotta makes some more connections (in some stores or clubs) so the owners of the place know before that you are going to film there and they are cool with it and do not say...
It's not easy getting these videos in public during the day. Maybe gotta makes some more connections (in some stores or clubs) so the owners of the place know before that you are going to film there and they are cool with it and do not say anything during the filming.
"I think you are attractive, so I wanted to introduce myself, I'm NAME." Is a really good line. I would say it sometimes, but not every time (unless it was one of the few lines that someone just likes to say most of the time, then that's fine because it is good). It just seems that if inviting her somewhere or asking for her number, then it's pretty clear that the guy is attractred to her and is "asking her out" (without having to verbally say she's attractive). It is more DIRECT than what most guys use. Eventhough I don't say it often, it still is a very good line though.
I usually now just say things like, "Hey, I'm NAME (Eye Contact and Shake Hands), (Small Talk with a slight s*xual innuendo such as, "Those are really cool shoes" and if we're sitting side-by-side brush her leg with my arm when going to touch the shoes). She can say she has a hsb/bf. If it's on, then just Invite her as a preface for getting her number that shows I'm interested in/attracted to her ("Say, I'm going out for drinks tonight, what's your number?").
Standing in front of a place and then "inviting her in." That's a classic. I'm def going to have to try that.
Looks like a lot of friendly girls in LA.
we'll do that, just want to get up the more basic day videos first.
all the interactions with girls that get lost are pretty much the same,
that look like this (even though I was trying to creep her out)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0iwbI4iU...
we'll do that, just want to get up the more basic day videos first.
all the interactions with girls that get lost are pretty much the same,
that look like this (even though I was trying to creep her out)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j0iwbI4iUxg
(there's not a lot of verbal, although they may laugh, answer the first few questions, once you touch them they start looking to leave politely)
literally they "get lost" (leave) moreso than "reject" you (verbally or physically or something)
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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