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"One Shot, One Kill," is the name of game here.
I was supposed to head out on Saturday to get at least a few hours of hunting (on video) in before the Florida Gators - South Carolina Gamecocks football game. The weather was crappy and all of us were behind schedule. As of this video, I think I had been awake for about 26(?) hours. So we weren't going to do it all at, but I decided to see what I could do in about 20-25 minutes since the area behind the house (not my house) has decent traffic. It's a shopping plaza, Barnes and Noble, Sports Authority, places to eat, Sally's Beauty Supply, Home Depot across the street, etc.. The logistics were pretty ideal (3-4minute walk back to the house), so the obvious gameplan is to try and bring a girl back.
So that's what I did, on the very first 'approach'.
It wasn't an approach at all, I'm just camping outside the book store and seeing who comes through. We have found this is way easier for filming purposes.
Now this rarely happens on the first approach, not because I particularly need to get 'warmed up', but if you consider that less than half of the girls wandering aren't sexually available (let alone DTF), the odds are against it.
This interaction is more typical than the one from the grocery store a week earlier.
The girl is quiet in this one, aside from laughing and letting me touch her, she never seemingly gets "warmed up" to the whole thing. At least not verbally. There's a lot of reasons for that, and none of them have to do with me. She's shy, she's pretty but not a socially competitive Los Angeles bombshell. She was studying 10 minutes earlier. She's probably more of a 'relationship' type girl, conscious of what her friends think of her behavior, but not prude enough to reject sex when she know it'll be good and no one will find out.
As you'll see- I just keep talking. In fact, I don't shut up. I end up answering my own questions. All the while, I'm touching her. I don't exactly try to read girls or look for clues, I just try to execute my gameplan. After I kiss her, she gets even more quiet, but the fact that she really never makes an effort to leave tells me all I need to know. From there, it's simply a matter of handling the logistics (aka get in my car and drive 90seconds to Carlos' house around the corner). Turns out, she lived a few buildings over from where we were- so that helped.
There's several times in this interaction where I would have walked away 4-5years ago. In fact, it makes perfect sense to do so, she isn't really giving me much at certain times. That's where the physical stuff comes in, the simple fact that she's letting me hold her hand and didn't 'get lost' after I kissed her tells me all I gotta know.
What I'd like people to see is-
1) How to handle girls that are being shy/not-that-receptive/quiet/boring/in shock whatever.
2) Aside from what I did with the actual shopping cart in the previous video, i dont think I did that much differently... it was all the same shit with more verbal since i has to carry the conversation.
q: So why'd this girl come back to my friend's (friend) place and the other girl invited me over for dinner?
a: i had a spot for her that was 3minutes away
q: So why was this girl quieter, less receptive than the super hot girl? what did i do wrong?
a: nothing, that is her personality
q: So howd you know that she liked you?
a: she stood there talking to me
q: So why did she agree to leave with me when i said "come meet the new dog" vs. "lets grab a drink" (granted it was like 2:15pm haha)?
a: who knows, maybe the anti-slut thing where 'lets meet the new dog' is different than getting a drink
with this girl, if I was waiting for "IOI"s, id be standing there for 4hours... maybe longer. she wanted no role other than participating in sex, thats fine, thats easier for me actually-- these are the situations where you can move FAST
this type of thing is more common than the 'explosive' stuff in the previous video, even though I get more "points" from the average viewer for the other video, this is way more representative of a routine situation and how to (how I) do it.
The interaction begins at 7:25
Amazing motivational music thanks to Carlos. haha
Chris, I have question related to this approach. She gave you an eye before you spoke to her, yes? How often girl who didnt show intrest in you (when she had a chance, so exclude all fast approaching on street or "from behind" so to speak)is...
Chris, I have question related to this approach. She gave you an eye before you spoke to her, yes? How often girl who didnt show intrest in you (when she had a chance, so exclude all fast approaching on street or "from behind" so to speak)is higly receptive after approach? In my expirience girls who don't look at me can be open, I can even seduce them, but they are never strongly sexualy attracted and this is rather hard work to get them to bed with me. I mean isnt watching for her giving you the eye or responding to your smile is the propper way to prescreen them for sexual intrest without even approaching?
Well the truth of the matter on this 'approach' is- she didn't give me much, certainly not 'the eye'-- we just made eye contact 1.5times and I smiled at her.. and she politely smiled back... it was enough for me to accuse her of checking me out,...
Well the truth of the matter on this 'approach' is- she didn't give me much, certainly not 'the eye'-- we just made eye contact 1.5times and I smiled at her.. and she politely smiled back... it was enough for me to accuse her of checking me out, liking me, etc. etc.
the 'approach' outside the coffee shop video #6 (the girl that I took behind the coffee place), that girl I totally just yelled at and had her come over to me... totally from behind, no IOIs, no anything. I can't really give exact #s or %s, but only a minority of girls are super receptive on these 'behind' approaches... or any approaches. Half the time they dont know what the fuk is going on until I start touching them or get through the 'i thought u were attractive blah blah'..
remember too, I dont wear my contacts much, so the vast majority of girls--- I have no idea if they are looking at me. It's an okay prescreen to flash girls a wink, smile, nod, wave... but a lot of them think that I'm winking, smiles, waves at someone else... this stuff just doesn't happen much.. I try to warm some of the approaches if I can but it def. doesn't stop me from stopping the girl and screening her physically..
as u know, it always comes down to looks,style,social freedom, if you aren't getting good (friendly) responses from at least 2-3 approaches.. its usually time to look at the first 2
does that make sense?
FUCKING NICE BRO! That's called practice, practice, practice, you start thinking on your feet and your rap gets tight! Yes I love these kinds of videos. I am that good too but just didn't put it on tape. Love the thing about WHEN YOUR DESIRE...
FUCKING NICE BRO! That's called practice, practice, practice, you start thinking on your feet and your rap gets tight! Yes I love these kinds of videos. I am that good too but just didn't put it on tape. Love the thing about WHEN YOUR DESIRE TO GET LAID IS STRONGER THAN YOUR FEAR OF REJECTION, you will get laid faster and easily.
Thanks bro I appreciate it.!
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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