Although I look it- I'm not actually Black.

18 Months ago when I started GoodLookingLoser.com I never wanted to speak on topics that I didn't have plenty real, insider experience with and enter "I-know-everything-but-have-never-done-any-of-it-but-trust-me-I-have-an-eBook" status.

However, it seems like once every 12.5 days or so a Black person asks me for advice and if I have specific recommendations. (the undertone is- how can I get White, Asian, Latina, etc. girls?)

I do have suggestions.

I have plenty of friends that are Black, some of them score with a fair amount of with non-Black chicks.

On Friday, I approached a lot of chicks in various ways/dynamics.

The gameplan on each was to take their number.

Sorry, I didn't count the amount of approaches so I could come home and immediately put them in a spreadsheet and make printable charts to analyze data that doesn't exist.

I just did a bunch of approaches until I got a decent example of what I wanted. (that's what you in real life) - I'd estimate I did about 30+ approaches (not counting the silly PUA ones)

Here are some-

No matter what type of "approach" you do-

The key to getting phone numbers is- ASKING.

Yesterday, July 9th, I walked up to 17 girls at the mall and asked each of them for their phone numbers.

Other than "Hi.", "Can I Get Your Number?" was basically the first thing I said, often in about 10-15 seconds.

In most cases, I introduced myself right after and reached out and shook/took their hand.

One of the biggest issues I've seen with the "average" [non-community] guy is that he hasn't given himself permission to get pussy.

Maybe his looks are above-average, maybe his style is above-average and maybe he's actually pretty confident past the first 30 seconds, but the second he puts himself in a situation where there's chicks around- all that goes out the window.

He's waiting for something.

Maybe an IOI, maybe some sort of green light, maybe even a sign from God, "Claim that pussy!!"

Here's the deal- give yourself permission to hit on girls.

A lot people are surprised to find that Scotty and I spent a good 2-3 years around the seduction community, that's actually where we met each other.

Some people still don't believe it. I don't either.

Like any other new student- we came in optimistic, average experience at best and unaware the majority of the authorities in the community never got laid. Ever. For both of us, it wasn't until we started doing our own thing did we experience a high level of pussy, from a high level of pussy. From what we've seen, not everyone is so "fortunate," but that's neither here nor there.

As I'm just now digging through my old laptop that my friend brought back to life on Wednesday, I discovered this quick audio from 2008. It's shorter after I found the seduction community. Now that I listen to it for the first time in 3 or 4 years, I remember what I felt like doing this stuff. It's just a minute long, but my voice reminds me of what I really felt like inside. How scared I was and more significantly- how I wasn't putting out a sexy vibe that hot women want. In fact, I sound like I'm a homosexual. (really)

It's not in the actual words (you'll probably recognize the routine). It's in my intentions. My intentions weren't to fuck girls, it was to make them laugh and accept me. Mr. Funny Man. I camouflage my timidness with staged enthusiasm. Witty lines to delay rejection. No touching because I was scared. A recipe for passive behavior and MEDIOCRITY.