A Closer Look At Approaching 102 Chicks

In this post, "What if i Approached 100 Hot Chicks? Would I Get A Date Or Some Pussy? (Getting Women is a Numbers Game)," I approached 102 attractive girls in Los Angeles between the dates of October 9th and October 16th of 2009. I approached the girls with the simple intention of getting their number- which later I would follow up on if they seemed receptive. I didn't use any "game" I was simply polite, made small talk and left the interaction by saying "Hey, I gotta go, you're cool, what's a number I can text you at?"

I decided to undertake this little social experiment simply to verify two things to myself (and my friend Mark)-

1. Dating/Getting Laid is strictly a numbers game. The more girls you talk to, the more likely you are to get laid.

2. If you are on a date-less streak, you could approach 100 girls with simple material and nearly assuredly end that streak.

I like to think that I did prove those two things.

Here were the final statistics

102 Girls Approached

47 Phone Numbers (I asked EVERY girl I talked to for their number)

13-16 Dates/Meet Ups (I don't actually know how exactly many chicks I get together with. For every girl I banged - I also had a girl that definitely wasn't down)

7 Lays (By 11/15, within 30 days- 7 (or 6%) of the 102 girls I approached ends up back in my bed)

What If I Approached 100 Hot Chicks? Would I Get Any Pussy? (A Closer Look) Audios

      

100 Chicks - A Closer Look (Audio) 1/4

0:00 - Overview, refresher
1:20 - How did I get so many numbers?
2:35 - Fact: Los Angeles, easier than most cities to get numbers
3:45 - Phone Numbers ≠ Get Laid
6:30 - Average guy game doesn't screen girls
7:00 - Key to getting numbers: Asking (every time)

100 Chicks - A Closer Look (Audio) 2/4

0:00 - Be aggressive = More Pussy, More Rejection
1:15 - Non-aggressive approaches, Aggressive game afterward (get them in or out)
2:25 - Text technique "nice meeting u, dont stay up all fantasizing about me" (type exactly like this)
2:50 - Text state break "hey sexy bitch" (type exactly like this)
4:00 - 1:1 Get Laid Dates:Meaningless Nothing Date (need to screen better!)
5:00 - Text technique "nice meeting u, dont masturbate to me tonight" (type exactly like this)
6:00 - The game is in your favor, you have unlimited tries to get laid. It's more likely that you get a date than rejected by 100 chicks.
7:20 - Talk to Chicks + Be Aggressive = Get Laid

8:30 - I how handled the numbers I got, who I called, who I didn't

100 Chicks - A Closer Look (Audio) 3/4

0:00 - My phone strategy = Text, wait for text back - then call immediately, goal of phone call = Get the girl to meet up, how to
2:50 - Don't set up meet ups/date via text, not until you've banged the girl
4:15 - Goal of meet up/date = Get Laid
4:50 - My Get Laid meet up/date blueprint
5:30 - What I do on my date - house, coffee/ice cream, heat the girl up, false pretense, house, youtube vid cpu on the bed, sex

100 Chicks - A Closer Look (Audio) 4/4

0:00 - Final thoughts on approach 100 chicks
3:40 - A lot of awesome chicks, a lot of boring chicks
5:10 - Screening > Average guy game
8:00 (to end) - If you aren't getting dates/laid, you gotta talk to more girls. Chances that you'll get a date are greater than getting rejected 100 times

Here are some common questions some of my friends had about my little experiment

How did you get so many phone numbers?
With 47 phone numbers, shouldn't you have gotten laid more?

A lot of guys, including myself in the past, treated a chicks phone number as some sort of "call this number, get laid" card. It's not. You haven't 'gotten' the girl- you've simply gotten her permission to call or text her (unless its a fake number - which I definitely got a few). Again, in my interactions I wasn't too aggressive, I was polite and appeared confident. Most girls probably wouldn't have a problem giving me their number. If I was more aggressive (how I usually am - following the "Get Laid or Get Lost" Mentality), a phone number would mean significantly more. It would mean that the girl was accepting my physical advances and I've gotten her permission to continue at a later time. So I'm not too surprised that a little less than half the girls gave my their phone number with the intention of either seeing me again or getting away from me politely. At the same time I kept my interactions pretty short, the girl might have gotten excited to meet me but she definitely didn't feel like she knew me (with the exception of a few interactions). She literally had to decide if she liked me in about 4 or 5 minutes. If I got her to respond over text within the next few days, she probably liked me or wanted a text buddy.

A special note: Los Angeles is the easiest place in the country to get a phone number, but the hardest place in the country to get the chick to meet up with you. The girls are super friendly, busy and sometimes "politely" fake. Just like in other cities, but at a much higher percentage- a girl will give you her number whether she likes you or not. A lot of the Los Angeles hotties like the ego boost of giving their phone number out and like to have a guy become their "text buddy" that sweat them. It's like a daily ego boost knowing that guys are chasing them. Also girls will give you their number if they 'think' that you might be someone or know someone that is important. Especially the Hollywood girls that like to "network". In Los Angeles, you'll almost never hear, "I don't give out my number." Not from the Hollywood chicks anyway.

So, getting a lot of phone numbers (especially in Los Angeles) is definitely not a "get laid" card. In fact, banging 7 chicks off 47 numbers is actually very high considering my non-aggressive approaches.

The main thing to note is- the key to getting phone numbers is simply asking. Get in the habit of ending every interaction with. "Hey I gotta run, you seem cool, what's a number I can text you at?" You're going to get her number or you won't. None of this "I should have asked for her number," or "I wonder if I could have gotten her number," BULLSHIT. Regardless of how receptive the girl is - ask for her number. Make it a habit so you don't "forget" later.

Another major point is- with my "average polite guy" approaches, I was not screening the girl for anything more than if she found me attractive and nice enough to give her number to. That's what most guys do- let the girl screen him. The problem with that is I ended up on a lot of "dates" or meet ups with girls that were asexual and just not cool. A complete waste of time that could have been avoided by properly "screening and filtering girls out". To try to avoid this, once I got their number, I got more aggressive [via text and phone] to weed the duds out.

Right after I got their number, I texted them- "Nice meeting u [name], talk to u later, dont stay up all night fantasizing about me please. Get some sleep"

The following day or 2 days later I'd text them- "Hey sexy biatch"

When they replied I called them immediately. (see call her/phone game)

If they responded and weren't filtered out, I'd be fairly confident that they weren't asexual and boring. But still, half the dates I ended up on, the girls were asexual and most were profiling me as a potential boyfriend, not a guy that would fuck them silly. I dealt with this type of thing before and now I screen chicks harder than they ever screened me. (about chris)

If this worked for you, why should I believe it should work for me?

If you don't believe me - try it, go talk to 100 chicks.

If you do believe me, then you should try it, it works.

While results will vary (I could do this again and get rejected 100 times), it is more likely than not that you'll end up with some phone numbers and some potential dates (and you might get laid) than be rejected 100 times. Again, it is more likely that you will get a date than be rejected 100 times. So the odds are in your favor if you look at it that way.

Even at its lowest level, that should be comforting if you haven't gone out with a chick in several months or a few years. I think that most people know this. It's a numbers game. But for some reason a lot of guys are confused about why they aren't getting laid or haven't been out with a girl in a few months. Maybe it's denial, maybe it's confusion - either way that's the solution. If you haven't been hanging out with chicks or getting laid, it's generally because you are not talking to enough girls and not being aggressive enough.

Remember the formula? Talk to Chicks + Be Aggressive = Get Laid

if you dont to talk to chicks

or if you are being a total pussy (I had an issue with that)

you wont be any getting any twat

... if you genuinely approach 100 chicks, ask them for their numbers and get turned down 100 times- talk to me, I'll specifically help you out.

Okay so you got 47 phone numbers, did you call or text them all back?

Nope, I didn't call or text all the chicks back, most of them I did though.

I texted the best looking girls and the ones that seemed to like me the best. That's how I do things normally. If those numbers don't pan out, I'll text the other numbers.

I texted most of them with "hey sexy" or "what up sexxxy". I only waited about 36 or 48 hours after I met them. I'll talk more about that in [phone game]. (the texts were EXACTLY like that- NO capital letters or punctuation)

This was my screening technique to see if the girl had some sexual energy to her, something that I did not screen for when I met the girl. Since I was such a "nice guy" and so polite when I picked the girl up, it would be understandable that they were a bit taken back the "sexy bitch" text. Either way, it was efficient screening. I'm looking to Get Laid, not go out 5 on five dates and then Get Laid.

If and when the girl replied, I immediately called her and I would nearly always get her on the phone since she just texted me seconds before. I did some small talk, had a funny story about seeing white trash people at Costco and tried to set up a meet up within the next few days.

If the girls agreed to meet up with you what was your meet up / date like?

The plan was simply to get them back to my room.

If you want to get laid, getting the girl on your bed should be the goal of the date.

The basic formula was this-

1) Have girl drive over to my place, park in my driveway

2) Have girl come in, see the house, see my room and my bed - get her familiar with the place so it doesn't feel like it's a new place when you bring her back later that night

3) Walk down the street to Santa Monica Blvd. to get ice cream at Millions of Milkshakes or coffee at Coffee Bean on Sunset Blvd.

4) Flirt, touch her, makeout, heat girl up

5) Walk back to the house to get a drink and tell the girl that she "can only stay for 10 minutes though,"

6) Either have the drinks or not, massage the chick while showing her a youtube video, duck into my room and get busy!!

For more information about getting laid on dates please see section III.

How did the first day go? Were you nervous?
What were your expectations?

Other than sex with Brianna on Day 4, the first day is actually the day that I remember the clearest (haha, Kratom seems to blur things sometimes).

Since I was already sleeping with 3 other girls, I hadn't been talking to many new chicks, I was really excited that I'd be meeting 100 girls in the next week. I felt great and I wasn't sexually or emotionally needy. I had gotten better over the past 6 months and hadn't really measured it. Overall, I had a great fresh attitude for beginning my little experiment. My expectations were that a lot of girls would be cool and warm to me, I'd have to later see which wanted to have sex. I also thought I'd get a lot of phone numbers, since girls give out their numbers whether they love or hate you. That's pretty much how it happened.

I started out at The Grove, a beautiful upscale outdoor mall in Los Angeles. The very first girl I approached in the Nike Store, Jamie P_ttigrew, was a beautiful brown haired athletic girl. Sandra Bullock looking. She was even on the US Olympic (or Jr. Olympic) Ski Team or something. The first interaction when so well, Jamie was even trying to lock me down for the rest of the day it seemed (we met up again on October 20 to have ice cream and had sex after). I was super confident to start out my experiment. I left The Grove with 5 phone numbers, but only 1 girl other than Jamie seemed down. I was in a really good state once I got to the gym and I think I took 1 or 2 more numbers. I was excited to go out that night, but Hollywood is pretty dead on Monday with the exception of a few clubs that I didn't have access to.

Some Final Thoughts

This was a huge success and I had better results than I thought. The point is - anyone can do this and expect to take 1 or more phone number and likely go on 1 or more dates. This might be the perfect thing to do if you are just starting out and looking for some quick results. As good as it went, believe me, there were times that it seems like every girl hated me. The first half of Day 4, I was getting either rejected on in go nowhere conversations where the girls wanted to leave. This was a surprise since I tagged Brianna the night before and was feeling really good about myself. That goes to show, that it's not your game or your problem is some chick is stupid, boring or unavailable. There's stuff out of your control that you can't change and shouldn't worry about. I always used to take things personally -  I don't anymore.

A second thought is, for every girl I banged - I ended up meeting up (on a date) with a girl that just wasn't down. This is why screening is so important - make the chicks get lost before they waste your entire night and time texting/calling them. One girl I went out with, Justine, was particularly awful. I thought the "date" had been going pretty well until I sat her down on my bed. She kept standing up and wouldn't even let me kiss her. Eventually she did and I took her hand and put it on my crotch. She kept taking her hand off and started resisting more. Her breath wasn't great either, so I just went for broke and pulled my pants and did this little move that makes my cock swing from side to side (that usually makes chicks laugh and they want to touch me). Justine who was standing in the doorway after she wouldn't keep me hand on my crotch, ran out of the house, got in her car and left. Left her coat, what a prude. Bitch ran over the grass too. Haha. Was my penis that scary?

Other Posts On Numbers Game

This post was one of the very first I wrote in Late 2011(?), here is the more recent stuff related the numbers game -

If you have any questions or comments, definitely don't hesitate to post below.