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This section explains how and what to text girls (that you want to bang). Read this then see the links below.
The goal is to Get Laid.
That is the ONLY purpose of calling or texting girls.
This is quite different from other programs/advice columns where the goal of calling / texting a girl is to 'work on' a girl and try to get them to to "like" you more. If you have screened the girl by being aggressive (sexually-charged dialogue + physical advances), she is usually IN or OUT.
If she gives you her number, she's usually (but not always) IN.
This is one of the many advantages of screening and being aggressive.
This is the easiest section to learn and apply.
Sometimes (most of the time), you logistically can't Get Laid and you have to take a girl's number so you can bang her at a later date. This is how to do it.
If you've met a girl and taken her number after being aggressive (sexually-charged dialogue + physical advances), MOST OF THE WORK IS ALREADY DONE. You've screened her and expressed your own sexual interest. She knows what to expect.
She knows it's not a "friend" thing or that you want to audition a on date to try and be her boyfriend.
She knows that you are cool guy, looking to Get Laid and you can probably give her a damn good experience. After giving their number to an aggressive "player" guy, most girls know they are signing on to have a fun time, have sex and take it from there with no strings attached.
The good thing is, you ALSO know what to expect.
You know that she "likes you" since you've screened her and she didn't "Get Lost," you know that she is sexually available since you screened her and she didn't "Get Lost," now you just gotta finish the job.
Keeping all that in mind, "She likes you. She's sexually available." There's no reason to wait, play games or not follow up with her very quickly. In fact, you're encouraged to follow up with her since you have a great deal of momentum if you've had a good first interaction with her.
She likes you. She's sexually available. She probably knows your player and not trying to be boyfriend. You took her number. That's the deal. That next step in the process is hanging out and SEX.
She probably won't flake either because she knows what your about and she digs it.
I Hope She Like Me Game = Flakes
Most guys run "I Hope She Likes Me Game," where they try to get the girls to like them and pass their tests. Later, the girl decides if the guy is worth another minute of her time. To not be rude, girls might keep the guy as a text buddy to help her ego- but never ever consider meeting up with him. The guy will often text this girl for months, thinking he is "working on her". The game ended a long time ago.
The phone/text strategy that most guys use is the same "I Hope She Likes Game," stuff. From approach to phone/text to date. They try harder-and-harder to get the girl "attracted" to them, even though she likely already decided his fate. Guy will have enormous 10-hour long text thread full of "witty" comments, stupid stories, useless role plays and more waste-of-time stuff.
Listen, 99% of the time- after you've met a girl, screened her, she already has decided if she's going to meet up with you. If she answers your text or phone call, then she is interested/maybe interested in you and probably willing (and looking forward) to meeting up. There is no guessing here.
this is a perfect example of this with a top 1% girl in Los Angeles-
LR: Briana Super Hot Overachiever Girl
There is absolutely NO NEED for long text-threads and other waste of time stuff. The reason the guys think that stuff works is- the girl ALREADY liked them enough to pick up her phone and meet up. They just wasted their time.
Guys- DO NOT DO THIS.
Screen the girl. If she passes- you have are halfway home.
Call her, meet up, finish the job.
* Most guys feel that Los Angeles is the easiest place to get a number, but the hardest to get girls to meet up. I have been VERY successful in Los Angeles- very few girls ever "flake" on me. That is a result of screening, building a adequate real emotional connection with small talk and this phone/text strategy.
I swear to God- it works SO WELL. I hardly get flakes and when I do, I generally still get them, if they are sexually available, with some persistence. Try it :)
In "100 Approaches with Average Guy Game," I took a lot more numbers than I usually take.
Hey Chris.
One of my techniques for getting chicks is small talking to girls I find attractive on facebook, getting their numbers and setting up a date from there. But usually I don't play such an aggressive game on fb, since you know, a...
Hey Chris.
One of my techniques for getting chicks is small talking to girls I find attractive on facebook, getting their numbers and setting up a date from there. But usually I don't play such an aggressive game on fb, since you know, a stranger coming up and saying "hey wanna see my dick?" might freak girls out a bit.
Do you have advice for me, obviously set up a date asap once I get their number but what should I do on the date, do the usual screening/aggressive foreplay or should I alter my game a bit? What would you do in my situation, considering pherhaps that my confidence is still not as high as it should be, but I believe I am far above the "average guy game"
Man I gotta say a few weeks ago I thought I was gonna die without ever getting laid again, and now I have 3 fuckbuddies and things have never been better in my dating life. I still have a bit of approach anxiety but I'm confident at this rate it will be gone by the end of the year. Love the site and keep up the good work bro
I have heard this screening technique explained on this sight a couple of times. It is really speaking to me. I have tried 'working on' girls by texting them for hours and at the back of my mind I was asking 'how am I going to move on from this...
I have heard this screening technique explained on this sight a couple of times. It is really speaking to me. I have tried 'working on' girls by texting them for hours and at the back of my mind I was asking 'how am I going to move on from this and get in her pants?' I have even observed this mentality in a friend but I didn't know what he was doing. I know what it was now after she said 'you are really subtle aren't you?' He was obviously doing this.
Thannks very much Fernny- I appreciate it and I hope the website is helpful for you.
Hey Chris,
Your thoughts have been invaluable to me. I approach girls in the knowledge that I am their equal now, knowing that I am able to give them a good time!
My confidence as a result of this is through the roof and this is only helping...
Hey Chris,
Your thoughts have been invaluable to me. I approach girls in the knowledge that I am their equal now, knowing that I am able to give them a good time!
My confidence as a result of this is through the roof and this is only helping me. I also followed your advice under 'get hung', and have been getting some great results, although I wasn't exactly small to begin with.
I wish you every success, and when I graduate University, expect a donation to your ongoing efforts on this site!
One very satisfied reader!
Thank you very very much Tom!
Flakes are the fuckin worst bro. I know you say you do deal with those too often, but when you do what is your strategy? For example after they flake on you 3-4 times, and they are still playing the game saying "I'll be available on weds" and you...
Flakes are the fuckin worst bro. I know you say you do deal with those too often, but when you do what is your strategy? For example after they flake on you 3-4 times, and they are still playing the game saying "I'll be available on weds" and you KNOW that she has flaked every other time, do you even both to respond anymore? At what point do you cut off flakes? You mention not to throw away there number, but a bitch needs to know you don't give a fuck about her, and she is easily replacable, at what point do you stop even bothering with chicks who haven't put out? 2 weeks? A few flakes? Or do you just keep trying until you "get her" finally?
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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