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Attitude and Direction for the New Guys ~
Rooster aka Ross aka Young Money is our resident Online Dating expert, he has the VERY BEST guide on the Internet for newbies that still have anxiety but want to break it and get laid. The process tries to address both.
Rooster was also one of the very first guys to put up an online vlog in the Member's Section of the forum. Instantly that day, I felt I knew him better than every one of our members. I realized how significant that was and how a 60-90 second YouTube video can tell you so much more about a person than 1,000+ posts. I encourage everyone who joins the forum to not treat it like most every other "pick up forum," where guys give advice based on everything but Looks, Style and Social Freedom. The three MOST IMPORTANT FACTORS and arguably 100% of the factors that play a role if the girl is sexually available.
Rooster has come along way, he bought a lot to the table and simply improved all of it. As of right now, he probably knows more about online dating than I do. I wouldn't hesitate to hit him up for advice. He is even the top nominee for "Biggest Good Looking Online Loser 2013" award.
And Oh yeah, if you are going to discuss your online dating profile with him- I think it would be a good idea to have pictures.
It's been a pleasure getting to know you.
(no homo)
Throughout high school and up until I was about 20, I didn’t get laid very often. The rare times I did, it was practically handed to me on a silver social circle platter. From having very few women available to me, I became dependent on them. Since there wasn’t a lot available to me, I would enter into one relationship after another with every girl who was half decent looking and willing to fuck me. It was brutal, but this is how A LOT of guys live their life – and they do it until one of these girls agrees to marry them..
When Things Started To Change...
Experience, Experience, & Experience
Back in 2009, I had a dry spell that lasted around a year.
I ended up spending most of that time of the dry spell at the gym working out.
Putting on some muscle was and is a great idea to improve appearance- but it obviously didn’t get me laid. Back then in my own mind, I assumed fucking new women meant a lot of time, energy, and money to invest first.
After being tired of not getting fucked much, I made the commit and my #1 priority to never again go so long without pussy. For me, this meant an easy way to get laid without putting in a lot of time, energy, and/or money.
BAM! Online Dating, I heard it was fairly easy to get laid so I thought I’d give it a shot..
It took me a few months to learn the basics (great pics, hit numbers hard) I was fairly clueless at first. It slowly went from a meet with a new girl once or twice a month, to twice a week, to at least 5 girls every week.
About 7 months in, I was fucking a lot. I didn’t work (saved enough $ to get by) and lived at home. I was blitzing, dating, fucking and sleeping. My parents were disgusted at me for bringing home so many girls.
How Did I Manage to Fuck so Much? . . . .
Now the girls weren’t whales that beached themselves onto my bed. I’m reasonably good looking, I went down ‘1 point or 2’ on the looks scale and a whole world opened up. If you’re an 8/10 on looks go for girls that you think are 7s and 6s. If you’re a 7, go for 6s and 5s etc. Obviously good looks are a personal perspective but you get the idea..
I improved my vibe, anxieties, experience in bed, confidence, neediness, game plan, (setting good logistics, where to meet, where to fuck, etc) and one of the most important things I learned was-
HOW TO RETAIN WOMEN
I luckily had a basic idea of how to retain women from an older friend that has been doing it for years. Even though I followed some solid advice, I needed a lot of experience of trying to get good at it.
When I fuck a girl that’s my type and really hot (or in my case, I like smaller cuter ones) I like to keep fucking her. I wasn’t always into one night stands – I’m lazy and would much rather have a 2 or 3 girl rotation - and that’s exactly what I did. After that, it was open relationships.
If I Only Ever Fucked the Hottest Girls
If I had only gone after the very hottest girls, I would have delayed the progress I made. I actually might not have made any progress, as I could have just ended up clinging on to the one rare hot girl that comes into my life.
Now when the 8s, 9s, & 10s come into my life – I know what to do, how to fuck them, and how to retain them (if I want to)
It’s hard to gain a lot of solid experience if you don’t make consistent progress in a fairly short amount of time. Since I ended up meeting with 3-5 different woman a week, my mind was solely focused with everything related to the women side of my life. This way, I could build up the habits and experience fast of everything from when I first meet the girl until she’s fucked. It’s similar to the AA program – daily (or this case 2/3days) of exposure and progress. You’re not going to learn anything if you only go on a date or two a month.
I had put aside a year in my life to meet, fuck, and date (fuck-buddies/open relationships) as many girls as I could. I became a guy who gets fucked more than mostly anyone I know - while barley leaving the house (just to fuck or workout)
This is awesome. Could you comment on your dating model. Do you usually get the girls on the second date? The third? I'm interested in how to structure the dates and when to get physical; i.e first date just coffee with a hug goodbye, 2nd date...
This is awesome. Could you comment on your dating model. Do you usually get the girls on the second date? The third? I'm interested in how to structure the dates and when to get physical; i.e first date just coffee with a hug goodbye, 2nd date watch a movie then escalate, etc. Of the 3-5 girls you meet per week, how many will you sleep with? I'm curious to know what is possible when you get good at this.
Wow this is awesome Rooster i just wish i could get into this online dating thing. My personal life is so no9t ready. No car, no place of my own, no job. Getting back intot he game my anxiety keeps kicking back in. The sad thing is I am a fairly...
Wow this is awesome Rooster i just wish i could get into this online dating thing. My personal life is so no9t ready. No car, no place of my own, no job. Getting back intot he game my anxiety keeps kicking back in. The sad thing is I am a fairly good looking guy. Anxiety keeps coming baack. Sometimes i just want to give up
Hey B.F.
When I was first starting out, I didn't get girls until the 4th or so date and it would take me maybe 1 out of 4/5 dates to get laid. When I really started getting the hang of it I was fucking girls by the second or third date...
Hey B.F.
When I was first starting out, I didn't get girls until the 4th or so date and it would take me maybe 1 out of 4/5 dates to get laid. When I really started getting the hang of it I was fucking girls by the second or third date (sometimes first) and would have sex with half of the amount of women I met - but mind you at this point I started screening a lot more so I knew to avoid boyfriend hunters.
What is possible with online dating is up to you. You ultimatley decide the quality of your pictures and how many openers you send. The only possible restriction on potential can be the location you're in. My city only has a little over 100k people but luckily the near surrounding cities add up to around a million.
hit up the online dating board on the forums and post up some pics. I'll give you some tips for your profile when I have a minute.
Cheers
Hey Charlie,
How severe is your anxiety. Have you talked to your Doctor?
When I started meeting women often from online I was a nervous wreck. My heart was beating a mile a minute whenever i met a new women or ever talking on the phone. It takes...
Hey Charlie,
How severe is your anxiety. Have you talked to your Doctor?
When I started meeting women often from online I was a nervous wreck. My heart was beating a mile a minute whenever i met a new women or ever talking on the phone. It takes time and practice, slowly it does become easier.
At the time I didn't I a place of my own or a job. I did have some money, but I'm fortunate enough my parents didn't care enough to stop me from bringing a lot of girls over into my bedroom. I did have a vehicle but could have done it without it, though it would be more difficult.
Just so you know, it is possible from my somewhat similar circumstance..
It's up to you what you want more in your life. If you think getting a job, getting some money and buying a car or a place of your own - then go ahead and do that first.
Just whatever you do, make it your #1 priority by putting as much time as you can to get it done. While holding off other desired goals for the time being.
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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