14 Red Flags To Be Aware of (Uncommitted Relationships)

These red flags apply to girls that you have ALREADY slept with whom are your fuckbuddies or girls that you've been hanging out for at least a month or so and at least been naked with.

This does not apply to girls you just met and don't really know too well.

I don't want guys to use any of these red flags as an excuse to avoid calling back girls that they want to nail.

That's called a convenient excuse, stemming from anxiety or fear of rejection.

Mark (Forum ADMIN), Scotty and I have talked about this topic a lot.

If you Improve Your "Value", Will You Get Laid Significantly More?

This is interesting timing, the topic of "Self-Improvement = Get Laid," was one that I was going to cover in the past week until I got hit with an onslaught of Martial Arts discussions that I wanted to get up on the blog ASAP. The more people we have around here that can beat the shit out of people, the better. Martial Arts, arguably, is the opposite of "I Hope She Likes Me" Mainstream PUA.

Our new friends over at Danger & Play beat us to it, so I feel it appropriate to encourage you to check their write up on the subject-

D&P is actually responding to a tweet from Krauser- (I had not seen Krauser's blog until 45 minutes ago, I still don't know a lot of these guys)

This is a slightly more official writeup of an old post and video in our fourm and a video I made for one of the original members (who lost his V-card last summer with some help from us).

This is an extensive topic and I won't even attempt to cover it all on this page.

In the future- we will certainly discuss how to make friends. Unfortunately, the blog can only move so fast if we are going to give you quality information, so some subjects are less of a priority. I want to give you what I got, it will help some guys in the meantime. Believe me, my discussions on college and making cool friends will be bomb. The best stuff on the Internet like most of other stuff.

As mentioned in "About Good Looking Loser," I've lived in 9 different cities for periods of at least 6 months. I'd also spent some summers (usually periods of ~3 months) in a few different cities too. I have lived in all 4 corners of the United States.

As a "self-improvement guru" (that's what I told the IRS I am), I'm always supposed encourage guys to be the best they can be (MAX OUT).

Reach for the stars.

Big dream.

Be your very best self.

While that is certainly ideal, one of my slight knocks on just about all self-improvement communities is that it's often slightly exaggerated just how good you need to be.

I shouldn't have waited 7-8 months to hit you with this post.

btw- I don't know any of the girls in this photos.

If you are familiar with GLL, you'll know that we are about "screening" girls with physical advances simply to determine if they are sexually available. Girls that reject you/get lost, are generally rejecting your invite for sex because they aren't sexually available, girls will also get lost a lot if they know their logistics won't work. It's not necessarily you, they are just rejecting sex. If you looks and style are tight, it's pretty much always a rejection of the approach and not you.

We have no idea what this girl is like.

That's not a fucking "reframe," it's the truth.