You probably heard the phase "getting girls is a numbers game," it most certainly is.

If you hear some "guru" say otherwise, he is a complete fraud. Report him to the proper authorities. 8-)

It is a numbers game, after all- that's why someone of us call it a "game."

If you've followed GoodLookingLoser.com since January 2012, you'll know that "getting girls is a numbers game," is one of the very first things I talk about.

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Sometimes when I do heroin, I get a RUSH of creative thoughts following the RUSH of opiate bliss. I feel like a rockstar even though I can't sing.

After I shot up tonight, I arrived at the most insane insight.

I want to share it with you, it's truly life-changing.

Okay, first off- I'm kidding. I don't do heroin. You probably shouldn't either. :)

But I still have a way that you can double your chances of nailing some HOT pussy on any given night.

It just occurred to me that the final draft of this discussion looks like some of other pussy ass dating sites.

Don't worry, the material isn't pussy. I wanted to add some color since it's a long post.

The guys in the GoodLookingLoser community have a pretty good perspective of how to get good with women so you can have an "autopilot" life full of HOT pussy. Ideally that means only needing to hit on girls to fill out your rotation of fuckbuddies if one drops off or having an ideal relationship with a girl(s) who is EXACTLY what you want and more.

Around here, I don't often hear mainstream questions such as "How long until I can have sex with 20 HOT girls in a year?" "How long until I'm good?" "How long until I get my first fuckbuddy?" "How many girls should I talk to today?" "I'm planning on talking to 4 girls on Thursday, is that enough?" or see guys contemplating if its even worth talking to women ever again and "quitting".

Guys that tend to ask questions like that or "quit [talking to members of the opposite sex forever]," have several different mindsets than most of the guys here. For one, picking up chicks/being a player is something completely separate from who they are. They dress up in a pick up artist costume 2 times and week and wonder why it never feels comfortable. Second, they don't quite treat this "learn to fuck hot pussy" thing like they would if they were learning anything else. To be honest with you, I was guilty of both at some point.

This is one of my favorite topics.

As much as I like helping guys Get Laid, I also like helping guys get their shit together. Maybe more.

God knows that I really had to work on myself to get the results that I have.

I wasn't the [usually] super positive guy I am today when I started this stuff.

A lot of guys get into this whole "I want to bang lots of HOT chicks" thing because they think it will solve a lot of their problems.

Some guys have asked me recently- What goes through my head when I hit on (screen) a hot chick?

First off, the stuff that went on in my mind changed quite a bit from when I started this stuff back in 2006.

At first, it was "I hope she likes me," and all those "damn, I hope this goes okay..." thoughts.

Come late 2009 and 2010 (and today), the voice in my head says significantly different things.

Toward the middle of 2009, I would make a 'weekly list' of the stuff I want to do, basically a plan for the week.