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Do that. Repeat it. Repeat it again until you bang her.
Remember-
If you've screened a girl (sexually-charged dialogue + physical advances) on your approach and she gives you her number- She's in and she's likely DTF in the very near future. If you've sexually screened her again via text "hey sexy bitch," or "what up hott stuff," and she replies- She's in and she's likely DTF in the very near future. Don't waste time texting or playing hard to get- Call her ASAP.
Every so often you'll come across a girl that answers your texts but doesn't pick up the call. This is rare if you've sexually screened on approach and text. 99% of the girls that you screen- already like you and want to meet up ASAP too. They're IN.
But sometimes you'll run into some weirdo that seems to be playing games with you.
First- just try the phone/text blueprint again
If you've repeated the procedure a few time and she doesn't pick up 2 or 3 of your calls, without an explanation via text "hey sorry, I'm out with friends and can't talk," "hey sorry, I'm with my parents, let me talk to you soon," "sorry I got no cell phone reception right now, talk to you later," then try this-
text her (EXACTLY HOW I WRITE IT)- "its cute youre playing hard to get, but youre starting to lose points with me," when she replies, "sorry, I'm blah blah blah," CALL HER then (unless she says she's unavailable). You'll get her on the phone 99% of the time. I've done this on the HOTTEST of the HOT chicks and it works good.
still their might be a weirdo or two that texts back, "sorry, I'm blah blah blah," doesn't say she's unavailable but doesn't pick up your call. In that case, this girl is probably not sexually available and just keeping you as a text-buddy for an ego-boost.
But let's find out for sure-
Sometime later, text her, "FUCK OFF" when she texts back "excuse me?" or "?" CALL HER then. Scotty does this and gets them on the phone sometimes. Admittedly, I haven't tried this however. You got nothing to lose and I don't want you guys to become some girls "text buddy" or feel that you have "work on her". She's either IN or OUT.
What you shouldn't do is try to set up a date/meet up via text. While that can work- if they are sexually available for you, they'll pick up their phone. Period. I NEVER make plans with a girl I haven't banged via text, the flake rate is just too high. If you get a verbal commitment- they usually don't flake without a valid reason. After I bang a chick, I'll text them to meet up. But NEVER before.
Before I got good at this stuff, I would delete a girl's number if she didn't answer or return my call. It was because I had a fragile ego and didn't want to "lose".
But you can't lose something you don't have.
I keep every girl's number if I like them and want to bang the shit out of them. I text them WHENEVER I want- screening them for sexually availability with "hey sexy bitch". If they text back, I call.
Girls are weird, one day they are sexually available, the next day they aren't, they think they have a boyfriend for a week, the next week they are single and horny. You never know whos DTF and whos not. Just screen.
Don't work on them though. No long text threads.
If it's a random weeknight and I don't like going out and I don't have a girl lined up- I'll MASS text 25-30 hot girls, "hey sexy bitch" and call whoever responds. Lucky them haha.
In my old cell phone, I categorized girls, I had a special category "Bubble Butt" if I wanted to fuck/have a craving for a nice round backside in my face, I'd text the "Bubble Butt" girls and see who was sexually available... One you collect 100-150 numbers after screening on approach, you'll probably have a good candidate ANY night of the week, with whatever criteria that you want "Bubble Butt," "Huge Boobs," "Short Girls With Probably Tight Pussies" haha.
It doesn't always work out, but you got NOTHING to lose.
Ideally, well for me, I would have 3-4 regular super hot girls that I'd bang during the week and go out just 1 time at night (but still talk to chicks during the day). That's the lifestyle I wanted. The MASS text worked too and could spice things up.
I don't really see a decent reason to lose girl's numbers... unless your phone gets too full, you get a new phone, they get married or you get in a committed relationship. Keep all of them, annoy the girls, who cares. I'd keep ex-girlfriends, ex-fuckbuddies, girls I want to bang, whoever. This stuff is about YOU.
"Keep all of them, annoy the girls, who cares. Iâd keep ex-girlfriends, ex-fuckbuddies, girls I want to bang, whoever. This stuff is about YOU."-this is good! this post just gave me a new perspective. i need to stop deleting some numbers. but...
"Keep all of them, annoy the girls, who cares. Iâd keep ex-girlfriends, ex-fuckbuddies, girls I want to bang, whoever. This stuff is about YOU."-this is good! this post just gave me a new perspective. i need to stop deleting some numbers. but how do you balance being non-needy in with this? It really has grown my balls/confidence to just delete girls numbers/fb, and act like they don't exist when i see them out(not even glancing at them).
Thanks Jameso.. I appreciate it.. Way way back I used to take pride in deleting numbers (fragile ego). It got me nowhere. Once I got to San Diego (and LA), I saw that things worked a little differently in the big cities. Girls would come and go,...
Thanks Jameso.. I appreciate it.. Way way back I used to take pride in deleting numbers (fragile ego). It got me nowhere. Once I got to San Diego (and LA), I saw that things worked a little differently in the big cities. Girls would come and go, come back, go away, then come back. It's not cause they didn't like me, it was because they had different priorities... but when they got horny, they knew I was cool guy and what I am about. I talk about something called the 'slow track' in the forum to Blackgen in the "Something I noticed with the New Guys" post... wait... lemme get it for you- http://www.goodlookingloser.com/forum/?mingleforumaction=viewtopic&t=67.0#postid-409
Basically it means- putting girls that aren't sexually available aka don't respond to your sexual-screening text "hey sexy bitch" into a 'slow track' category (literally, put them in the a category on your phone that says 'slow track')... every so often you check in to screen them via MASS text with a sexual-screening text 'hey sexy bitch' or 'what up sexy gurl'... if they respond call them ASAP. they have indicated that they have [at least] some sexual availability... basically just try to meet up. This doesn't look needy at all... some girls know it's a mass text (cause they've seen me text them before).. It's entertaining to them, since they know that I'm not like the other 400 nice guys in their phone. its just 1 line anyway. Plus they know that im not a needy guy from my aggressive approach.. most chicks think 'well this guy gets ass'.
As part of the slow track i think it helps to being friends on FB.. they remember you, ideally see that lots of chicks write on your wall and you live a cool life. If you don't have a cool FB page, it's okay... its just so they see your face on a daily/weekly basis and think "oh yeah.. this guy was cool"... at the same time, after you approach a chick aggressively (sexually charged dialogue + physical advances) she's either in or out. If she gives you her ##.. consider her IN. try to meet up ASAP... if that doesn't work.. its not necessarily because she doesnt "like" you... she's not sexually available for some reason (might be dating someone she really likes, have BF, temporarily hates guys, school, work, drug addict, traveling, whatever)... girls worry about looking needy to.. just KEEP screening.. throw them some bait... if they take it- just take it from there. randomly, 1am on a Wednesday night, she may reply to your 'hey sexy bitch' text and say 'hey whats up'... now she IN
trust me on this... you don't look needy sending a mass text (like 'hey sexy bitch') to 30-50 slow track girls every 10-14 days.. 'hey sexy bitch' is something that ballsy players say, it's not needy. Screening sexual availability is the most important thing... always, if you want to Get Laid THAT night. Even if it was needy, who cares?
, if she's sexually available and shes needy/horny on that night... and replies to your screening text... its the last thing on her mind..
does this make sense?
i always like the questions you ask Jameso, you raise great issues.. hope i answered your questions
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^^ haha needy
I like this.
I'm also a guy who deleted numbers when girls didn't respond properly, but if you think about it. If you've approached her direct and she gave you her number, then there's at least SOME level of sexual interest. If you go direct and...
I like this.
I'm also a guy who deleted numbers when girls didn't respond properly, but if you think about it. If you've approached her direct and she gave you her number, then there's at least SOME level of sexual interest. If you go direct and she doesn't like you, you'll hear "oh I have a boyfriend" or something like that.
I've let go of way to many girls like that :)
I'm definetly going to try this!
yeah... it's a different mentality... trust me, you won't feel its needy at all. you think 'danm i got 400 girls in my phone' i don't even know all these chicks
hahah- its funny when they know its a mass text, but they still want to hang out
What is your method for mass texting? My phone only allows group texting, so they see the other girls in the group text, which would not be wise. However, it is pretty difficult and tedious to send the same text "hey sexy bitch" to 100 girls...
What is your method for mass texting? My phone only allows group texting, so they see the other girls in the group text, which would not be wise. However, it is pretty difficult and tedious to send the same text "hey sexy bitch" to 100 girls individually, I feel like my thumb is about to fall off.
Any tips? Maybe an app? Thanks
Hey Mike I didn't have a smart phone when I'd do a mass-text... these days there's apps for it
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