Don't Wait For Indicators of Interest... Make Them Happen.

well good job!

to read this website and go approach 10 chicks aggressively is really good man

this is what I think happened (correct me if I'm wrong, obviously I don't know you well enough)... you got further than you thought you were with this chick (from the mall to the parking lot, nice!), and that alone made you revert to some old 'safe-game' mindset. I'd bet $100 that if and when this happens again, you'll know what to do and how to feel. This stuff is part of the process.. you need to see different stuff and not capitalize, to realize that you could have... 10/10 times in the future you probably will say something like "hey its cold here, damn ff I'm gonna sit in my car and turn up the heat... you cold? hop in the front."

if i had to guess, I think you froze up mainly cause you didn't have a gameplan, rather than that you were being a pussy.. you might have literally not known what to do. I say this cause it takes a lot of balls and leadership to pull a girl from a mall on a random night. so good job. there may have been a part of you that thought "damn.. maybe she's not ready to get in my car" (safe-game mindset).. but I would nearly promise you IF you have been physical with her and she lets you... she digs you and is just letting you lead the way.
The key is 'you leading the way'. Even if she digs you, if she is made to feel like she needs to actively make ANY part of the decision, "hey you want to go to my car?" she'll back off. but it doesn't mean she doesn't want to... she just doesn't want to have an active role in making it happen cause that makes her feel like a slut (90% of girls)

note: the subjects you talked about with her weren't "bad," it just the lack of physical stuff and leading the way beyond the parking lot (cause you prob. didnt have a gameplan). its never the words. I once fingered this girl with a boyfriend in San Diego while we were talking about state capitals. I once undressed this girl in her friend's apartment while we were talking about global warming.. these aren't ideal sexy subjects but its doesn't matter if shes already horny.

you did 100% of stuff "right"... you just needed to keep going
from the guys we work with... every 1-3 months they have an experience like this (get further than they thought, but shut it down because they didnt have a gameplan or they revert to old behavior).. but it's def not a negative thing.. this is a breakout moment and im willing to bet you'll pull it off in the future.

a gameplan is key because it makes things "smooth"
girls will think that you're smooth and spontaneous... but you just had a gameplan

remember- its never the words
tell, dont ask
"hey im cold.. come sit with me, im gonna turn the heat on"
"hop in the passenger seat real quick, were not gonna leave, its too cold standing here like this"

you just need a false pretense, it doesnt have to be good.. it just can't usually be "lets go fuck in my car"
i once said "i have a new GPS system, come see it!" and the girl pretended like she was excited and followed me

note: they are excited, they want an excuse to be alone with you, just give them the excuse so they dont feel like a slut
how do I know this? you screened them, by touching them.. no IOIs necessary haha

hope this made sense!

thanks man! yup more is on the way on a regular basis!
this 'screening' thing is only 'advanced' because we often have kill a lot of community mentalities 'i hope she likes me' 'mr funny man' 'dont be reactive' 'be smooth' 'get every girl, every girl is available 24/7' 'say this.. and she'll laugh'... that kinda BS

when you think about it, this 'screening' thing is actually much easier to learn and do... its a just the pre-existing BS that makes it hard sometimes.. i mean it took me nearly 2 years to do it and figure out what i was doing and why it seems to work

you are better at this than you think, I don't want you getting in your own way and turning positives into negatives, that is a killer.. i def. know that from experience