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I'm pretty fair and I generally don't delete any website comments, not even the criticisms. If a comment is calling me a loser, saying that "I hope you die," or verbally attacking other posters- I generally remove it. It serves no purpose whatsoever. This is only a very small minority of comments however.
About a week ago there was criticism of Good Looking Loser posted on the popular discussion, "What If I Approached 100 Hot Chicks? Would I Get A Date Or Some Pussy? (Getting Women is a Numbers Game)," from a guy that seemed at least somewhat familiar with our website.
I've heard this type of thing about Good Looking Loser. Lets talk about it.
The criticism reads-
Hmm... Another guy reading 'dating/seduction' websites who's already fucked 100... oh wait- 120 girls.
But that's besides the point.
I found it somewhat strange actually, I read it about 3 times.
I'm not sure that I try to present myself as an "average" or "below average" guy on this website. In fact, it's just the opposite.
This entire website is about being the top 1% male, or at least- MAXING out your looks, style and social freedom (as well as dick size, etc.).
The last thing I do on this site is encourage people to be average or below average. I don't think I give any advice that encourages guys to take shortcuts or apply techniques to pretend they are top 1% guys. That's what the PUA community is for.
My response was-
To be fair, perhaps there is a misunderstanding here.
A very small minority seem to interpret "average guy" game (compliment, small talk, ask for number) as "Chris is telling us he's the average guy, but he's not fooling me!"
"Average guy" game is the type of approach that guys with "average" social freedom can do. The better their looks and style, the better their results. Just like with any type of "game".
To avoid unintentional misrepresentation in the future, I should probably change "average guy" game to "basic guy" game.
So, for the record, as non-arrogantly as possible, allow me to clear this up- I'm not the average guy.
And I sure as hell didn't create this website to make you average either.
This type of criticism lends itself to another more reasonable topic-
What can you really learn from Chris?
I'm bias, but I feel that EVERYTHING we endorse (get laid, get ripped, get style, get hung, get juiced, get relaxed, beat approach anxiety, etc.) you can learn. I feel it's teachable and from my own experience- I feel it's achievable.
Lets have a closer look and I'll tell you why.
I severely underachieved in my dating life in my early 20s. I had year-long droughts where I didn't so much as kiss a girl. Now, I can pick up super hot girls and bring them home in under an hour. They willingly and happily become my fuck buddies for months on end. This is teachable and achievable if you are willing to put time into MAXING out your looks, style and social freedom. In my opinion, you only need to be above-average at all 3, to enjoy top level success. Humbly spoke- I'm in the top 1% when it comes to getting laid.
I am no genetic freak. I have worked like hell for every pound of lean mass on my body. In fact, if you were to read our hockey team's scouting prospectus from 1999-2000 it literally reads, "Chris: Tall, fast defenseman, elite speed north-south, but thin, small frame and lacks the physical size and strength to be elite." In the process of building my body, I have learned the easiest and most effective ways to achieve your fitness goals. At 6-2, I maintain a 210-220lb. physique at 6 to 8% body fat. with fewer hours in the gym than anyone I know. Building an ideal body is teachable, with effort, it is achievable. Humbly spoke- I'm in the top 1% when it comes to developing and maintaining a masculine body. Frankly, over half the population in the United States is overweight.
Having Style is Good, Having Presence is Better.
I don't claim to be Gianni Versace. I'm not and you don't need to be either. I have a style that highlights my better features and gets me approached by women. I understand that perception is reality and the immeasurable difference of dressing like a "nice guy" (boyfriend material) versus dressing edgy (I fuck a lot of girls). I can discuss trends and the with any high-fashion model in Los Angeles. I briefly worked with L.A.M.B., Gwen Stefani's line (it's a women's label). Get Style will incorporate other issues- hair loss, acne, tattoos, etc. "Getting Style" is both teachable and achievable, it's probably the easiest thing to change. Developing a 'style' as it related to getting women, is about developing a PRESENCE, becoming a guy that EVERYONE, male or female, stops to look at. While I don't consider my own 'style' to be in the top 1%, my presence is in the top 1% and my understanding of how style works to attract the opposite sex is in the top 1%.
Similar to my physical development, my starting dick size was very average. About ~5.25" x ~4.7", I think. Average in length, barely slightly above average in girth. My flaccid size was maybe 2", pretty small. Through years of less-than-committed penis enhancement and more recent super devotion, my dick is 7.3" x 6.25" (post Bathmate session), that is the size that I have when I fuck girls. Like Getting Ripped, Getting Hung is teachable and with effort- achievable. As the charts suggest, humbly spoke- I am in the top 10% in length and the top 1% in girth.
Here's some more information about "Male Enhancement: Keeping Perspective (What to Expect)."
While this is similar to "Get Ripped," I have made the decision to separate the two sections. Get Ripped will be on the new Good Looking Loser Lifestyle website and Get Juiced will remain home on this website. On the day of my 21th birthday, I started using anabolic steroids. Here is my very first cycle, as you can see- I was really enthusiatic but I had a lot to learn. Since then (and before) I have over a decade of experience with anabolic steroids right down to the advanced pharmacological level. For example, I can explain how two different steroidal compounds may compete for the same androgen receptor while creating progesterone in the process. I was a steroid nerd. and I was a steroid head for most of my 20s. Just like learning biology or chemistry in school, learning to "Get Juiced" is certain learnable and achievable. My understanding of anabolic/androgenic steroids and performance enhancing drugs is in the top 1%. Consider, however, that 90% of people have absolutely no idea how to use steroids.
This section is developing slowly. I have more to say on this and almost more experience than any other topic on GoodLookingLoser.com. This section will offer some absolutely life changing information and resources. I'll tell you where to get shit, just lemme handle the legal aspects first.
I experienced moderate depression in my early 20s. I think runs in my family. I feel that my social anxiety was slightly higher than the average person in my early-mid 20s. Through exposure therapy, my social anxiety became less than the average person. With certain compounds, however, I feel pretty close to invincible. We are talking- jump off buildings and fly invincible. Through trial and error, you can "Get Relaxed" and beat depression and anxiety. It's teachable and achievable. You'll be surprised what happens here. Years of research, ups and downs and personal experience puts my "beat depression and anxiety" IQ in the top 1%.
That covers a lot of the topics but certainly not all of them. As I said, they are teachable, learnable and achievable. I don't discuss stuff that I'm not an expert on and more importantly- don't have experience with.
Perhaps long ago, I was 'average' in the subjects I mention. My ability to get laid, have a big dick, a big presence, an ideal body, understand anabolic pharmacology, avoid depression and anxiety were either average or non-existent at one point.
If you read this article and nothing else on GoodLookingLoser.com, it may strike you that- I talk a big game. I usually don't. But- I have no problem giving proof of what I claim. In fact, I think it's mandatory.
Look that the various industries and topics on GoodLookingLoser.com-
Can you name 3 more scam filled industries, where you never see so much as even a PICTURE of the person trying to sell you shit? And if you do see a picture, he offers no proof that he has any experience?
I can't. These are some of the worst industries.
Free information or not, we have a responsibility to provide as much 'proof' as possible before we ever ask anyone to follow our advice or purchase a recommendation. In the meantime, we only ask that you keep an open mind, things sometimes aren't as they seem. I sure found that out.
So, if you want to be humble- that's fine. That's probably a good thing if you are ambitious and trying to excel at something.
If you want to be average- that's not fine. You've come to the wrong place. We don't teach average.
Chris, what an article. I have said it before here, but if men want any kind of a good life at all, they just need to do some of the stuff you are talking about. This is your life after all. What is the sense of staying in an average, or...
Chris, what an article. I have said it before here, but if men want any kind of a good life at all, they just need to do some of the stuff you are talking about. This is your life after all. What is the sense of staying in an average, or worse, below average life? Keep up the the articles. I just cannot get enough of your insight.
i appreciate that Hans.. This website for guys that want to improve their lives.. it's not really "about me," in order to establish credibility, I need to talk about what I've done. But I dont want to come off as bragging or whatever. A small...
i appreciate that Hans.. This website for guys that want to improve their lives.. it's not really "about me," in order to establish credibility, I need to talk about what I've done. But I dont want to come off as bragging or whatever. A small minority of guys will read stuff on this site and think "God, this asshole is so full of himself," that's hardly the case but I can't please everyone. The website does a good job at SCREENING OUT the guys that aren't serious about stuff... cause GLL isn't for everybody.
when I was in my mid-later 20s... I never thought- wow I'm going to put this altogether on a website can call it GoodLookingLoser.com, my only focus/obsession was whatever I was working on (lifting weights, then picking up girls & beating anxiety, now it's this website)... really just did my own thing, dropped a lot of friends, stopped chasing validation and just obsessed about my short term goal... eventually stuff came together.. This website is kinda just me reflecting on what I did, how I did it, how I should have done it, etc.
yeah its true, everyday you move forward or backward, you improve or you get worse... its a conscience decision which way we head
Speaking as a guy who's lived a lifetime of average and below-average, mostly self imposed, it's not how any guy should strive to live or settle for.
I can sort of understand or at least empathize where that "Chris" guy is coming from, not that...
Speaking as a guy who's lived a lifetime of average and below-average, mostly self imposed, it's not how any guy should strive to live or settle for.
I can sort of understand or at least empathize where that "Chris" guy is coming from, not that I agree by any means. I seriously doubt he's had sex with as many women as he's claiming, to me he sounds more like a discouraged individual. I used to be like that. I'd see vids or real life guys pick up women with ease and think "well no shit, it's easy when you're 6'2 and ripped" and end up cursing my own genetics. Truth is, I also wasn't trying to better myself, it's easier to sit back and make excuses than put the krispy kreams down and hit the gym.
It took a while but nowadays, instead of feeling bitter envy, I look at individuals like GLL Chris and want to absorb all their knowledge. It's a situation where there is everything to gain. I know I'll never have the same kind of social freedom, but even small improvements in those 3 areas mentioned have had very real positive consequences already.
btw, I'd add the "Hair Growth" industry to that list of sketchy industries too.
@ Sully, I think the best thing a guy can do is build a sexy body. I've seen guys who are 5f5 with very good looking bodies, be extremely popular with women. It's insane...
@GLL chris. You were scouted for a hockey team? That's quite impressive....
@ Sully, I think the best thing a guy can do is build a sexy body. I've seen guys who are 5f5 with very good looking bodies, be extremely popular with women. It's insane...
@GLL chris. You were scouted for a hockey team? That's quite impressive. I had my high school swim teacher encouraging my parents to start competing with me in swimming contest. But that's about it :D
But I LOVE to swim!
I've never wanted to be average. I've always wanted to be exceptional in most areas of my life and find great fulfillment, and that's what this inspiring website helps me achieve!
I couldn't ask for a better male role model than Chris to learn...
I've never wanted to be average. I've always wanted to be exceptional in most areas of my life and find great fulfillment, and that's what this inspiring website helps me achieve!
I couldn't ask for a better male role model than Chris to learn all this stuff from. I'm glad he's in the top 1% when it comes to women, because if he wasn't, what would I learn from him?
well thank you very much.. im appreciative. Maybe I'll talk about this "top 1%" isn't not a OMG.OMG.OMG as it sounds.
This such a hypothetical, hear me out but don't kill me--
for example, take 100 guys, ages 18-35.
in the USA 15% of them will...
well thank you very much.. im appreciative. Maybe I'll talk about this "top 1%" isn't not a OMG.OMG.OMG as it sounds.
This such a hypothetical, hear me out but don't kill me--
for example, take 100 guys, ages 18-35.
in the USA 15% of them will seriously overweight and not seeking to change that
- 35% of them will be overweight
- 25% will be thin fat, skinny without muscle
- 15% of them will have some muscle with some fat
That leaves 10 guys. for the top 10%
maybe 3 of these guys will have visible Abs
1-2 of them will have visible abs, will certainly look good but might not have much muscle
1-2 of them will have visible abs, and will really look good
So that's 4 out of 100 guys have 6-pack abs... Maybe it's actually like. I can count the number of guys on 1 hand that I know have ripped abdominals (no homo) and that's mainly because I have 2 separate gym circles
if you simply have ripped abs, your stomach and jawline will look better than 95% of guys. So right of the bat, you are only competing with 5 other guys.
forget going to the gym, if you play basketball 1-2times a week, you are more active than 40% of guys in America.
the same thing holds true for meeting/banging women.
maybe 9 of 100 guys can approach a girl while he is sober at night.
maybe 19 of 100 guys can approach a girl FULL on after 2-3 drinks. (we are talking WALK UPs, not pussy cat calls)
So in any given night venue... you are only competing against 19 guys, all of them doing "basic guy" game, some of them good looking, some not... something like that.
where am I getting these numbers from?!?!? (my ass)... I seriously don't know to be honestly.. it's more to make an analogy.
A top 1% guy isn't a celebrity. Certainly status is like .000001%... for those who don't live in LA or NYC.. how many celebrities do you know-- like Chill with and texting with... probably 0. it's so rare (and they are concentrated in LA/NYC/Miami)
I've hade similar thoughts myself.
Most people have goals, but how many work on their goals? Not many...
In fact, I actually find that there arn't many people out there who are conscious about their own life. Before this stuff i taught that...
I've hade similar thoughts myself.
Most people have goals, but how many work on their goals? Not many...
In fact, I actually find that there arn't many people out there who are conscious about their own life. Before this stuff i taught that everybody was doing this. Boy was I wrong....
yeah its quite rare... Scotty is the only 'normal' (non community/non gll) guy I know that does our version of "meet women".. the rest drink and run a watered-down version of Basic Guy
Great post chris. I think the point your trying to make here (and I agree 100% with you) is that people often point the finger at 'succesful' people and say, well its easy for him, he's talented, good looking, communicative, muscular etc etc....
Great post chris. I think the point your trying to make here (and I agree 100% with you) is that people often point the finger at 'succesful' people and say, well its easy for him, he's talented, good looking, communicative, muscular etc etc. What people fail to understand is that its often took YEARS or hard work to get there. An example of this I can relate to strongly is bodybuilding. When others go partying 4x a week and get 100% shitfaced on beer everytime I might stay at home, eat my oatmeal with bagcheese, and get up at 5-6am the next day to workout. Two years ago everyone told me 'I didn't had the body to get muscular' now they tell me Im genetically 'blessed'. Sure bro..drink your beer eat your pizza and stay indoor, well talk again in a year. know what i mean?
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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