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This applies to anything- picking up women, getting in shape, learning a skill, learning how to play a sport, video games, life, whatever...
The guys that we work with have various skill levels, some guys have done 10,000+ approaches and some guys are just starting out. From what we've seen- if you have been a part of the "pick up community" (industry) chances are you've 'picked up' a lot of garbage that is completely unproductive, inefficient and in a lot of ways- makes you WORSE with women. This is also true of guys that have 'studied' dating columns from the introverted and sexually-inexperienced writers from the more mainstream sources such as AskMen.com, Men's Health or Maxim Magazine. There's a lot of junk out there. I studied it for years in my 20s and it hardly helped me out. It probably confused me more.
As you may have noticed, we offer different advice than mainstream dating.
For example, if you want a blowjob- rather than waiting 3 months and then slowly having intellectual discussion about the "Benefits vs. Risks of Oral Sex" with your girls (thanks, Askmen.com), we suggest: On the first night, eat the girls' pussy, then drop your pants, put your dick in the girl's face and say "kiss it." If that doesn't work. Say, "No for real, just kiss it," and put your dick 1 inch from her face. Not only is that more productive and efficient, it's also based on our actual experience. That's just a little example.
So if you're reading GLL.com or in the process of learning for the first time or rebuilding yourself, you will get better faster and get more results if you [try to] forget everything you've ever learned about dating/sex. It also helps to not read other dating/sex material. We have everything you need on this site. For free. That's not because I'm trying to push my material on you but rather there is definitely such thing as 'information overload' when you just start freezing up and you have no idea what to do because there's so much 'theory' aka bullshit in your head that you haven't applied.
That brings me to another thing- How To Use This Information, The Secret To Life, Etc.
There's a endless list of stuff that I want you to forget- this is a good starting point to clear your mind:
If you have ever wondered the truth and history behind the ‘seduction community’ – here it is: Aaron.Sleazy.Debunking.The.Seduction.Community.pdf
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So there's a few things.
If you've read this blog a few times, you'll probably notice that we don't follow any rules, social norms or whatever (after all, I'm naked showing my dick on one of the pages- see "Get Hung")... haha.
We encourage you to make your own rules in your life. That's what this is all about anyway.
While most of our readers/listeners are pretty open-minded and super determined, there's a few that think they can expand their comfort zone, self improve and bang 50 super hot chicks in a single year by not trying ANYTHING new.
Listen up- Whether it be women, dick enhancement, lifestyle, fitness or ANYTHING- at first, you might see some stuff and say "That's not me," or "I couldn't do that," or Scotty's favorite "I'm not congruent with that," to happily excuse yourself from trying. That attitude isn't going to take you very far. A year later you'll be in the exact same position wondering how to help yourself again. Learning to do something new requires doing something new. Most of you guys get that though.
thanks man, I really like your website. My problem is that I disengage too soon, it pisses me off because I know that with some hot women Icould have taken it much farther. I want to learn to keep my fuck there until I get a clear no. What pisses...
thanks man, I really like your website. My problem is that I disengage too soon, it pisses me off because I know that with some hot women Icould have taken it much farther. I want to learn to keep my fuck there until I get a clear no. What pisses me off more is that I know that what you say about having your dick sucked without even speaking to a girl, it's true. A few weeks ago I was out of the train station and there were many other people. I look at this really cute girl , right in the eye. She was messing with her phone. To my surprise, she stares back at me, comes near me and leans over the wall nearby. I start to tease her about a patch of paint that she had on her clothes. I said it was mustard, she insisted it was paint. It was going fucking great. I was also touching her to show where the 'mustard' was. At a certain point, after about 3 minutes, I look at her and say 'I am kidding'. Then froze like an idiot. She took it at a 'go away' , smiled and left. It was all body language. AAAARGH!..... i am going to learn to stay in there, man. This 'early disengagement' is pure self-sabotage. Deep inside, I thought this girl was way too cute for me. Maybe it's a good idea for a future article
Thanks for the feedback- I say get them IN or OUT pretty quick... you literally won't have a chance to 'freeze' up. If they stay- they are sexually available. Small talk and physical escalation from there.
Thank you for creating this website, sir. I am in many ways, one of the many people you are talking about. I am looking at self improvement in almost all the ways you offer in this website. You make excellent points and I am very thankful to...
Thank you for creating this website, sir. I am in many ways, one of the many people you are talking about. I am looking at self improvement in almost all the ways you offer in this website. You make excellent points and I am very thankful to have run into this. I feel that I can learn a lot from you. Again, thanks for helping your fellow Man out.
Thank you! I appreciate it!
This is the kinda advice that needs to be around more. I had one of those friends back when that had a new chick all the time, as to where I was struggling with getting maybe one a month (to go on a date). Finally, I dropped my ego and took his...
This is the kinda advice that needs to be around more. I had one of those friends back when that had a new chick all the time, as to where I was struggling with getting maybe one a month (to go on a date). Finally, I dropped my ego and took his advice. I think i was pulling that night at the bar. Pretty much, don't give a fuck, just try.
Granted he was a bit smoother than I was, as in, he was a people person and was great at carrying on conversation where people wanted to listen and I'm good at fighting and talking about shit people aren't interested in, like the Ainu in Japan. However, after taking his advice, throwing my fears to the wind and just approaching girls, I was getting laid like crazy fast. If she's playing hard to get, then she's just not worth it. I would end up in the friend zone long before I ever even had a chance.
So, I started approaching girls I wanted to talk to and depending on what i wanted, that's what i asked for. If I wanted her number, I would say something like "i want your number". if I wanted to take her out on a date, I would say something like "I want to take you out". If i was at a bar and I wanted to take her home that night, there was little deviation in what I told her that i wanted. It didn't work with every chick, and it didn't work every time, but in 5 months I went from 2 girls to 64 girls.
My favorite was
"hey what's your name?"
"?????"
"?????? I'm joe, where you sitting?"
"There"
"great, i'll be over there in a few. I'm gonna take you home and fuck the shit out of you tonight"
this ended with a drink in my face.
by the end of the night we were making nasty in her fiance's back patio. had I know it was her fiance's house, i wouldn't have done it, I found out later. just not my thing. but that's how strong awesome it was. she even hit me up again, and i did it again, even though its not my thing.
Then i moved to Japan and travelled around Asia, within two years 64 was over 170 (lost specific count, just ball parking) and that was with an 8 month relationship. granted in japan the whole aggression thing has to be a little more sophisticated that the allowance for sloppiness in the states, but it still works out. then you get to other countries and women seem to just be glad that you're willing to chat them up at all and treat them like they are sexy ass meat.
Not even trying in the last two years (i got tired of going out all the time) I've still been with 17 girls. However, my game is not what it was.
reading stuff like this is helpful for re-boosting my confidence in my game. I'm naturally an introvert and stuff like this is the kind of advice that helps bring guys like me out of our shells into getting laid.
thanks dude
Within 6 months I went from
Thanks dude! I'm happy its helpful for ya
Chris
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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