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A lot of you guys have probably heard of "The Secret," it's a book (and movie) with a lot of successful people (and some complete frauds) that talk about how positive thinking and self-fulling prophecy being the 'secret' to their success. It's based on the law of attraction.
It's an 'okay' film, an overall good idea. It just commercializes, overly touches, masturbates and cums all over itself for 2 hours. It's worth watching moreso than some lame sitcom though.
If you want to know the REAL SECRET to the universe, Good Looking Loser has figured it out! I'll even tell you for free!
You can view the first 20 minutes here-
So anyway, I'll try to keep this short.
Don't overly mentality masturbate but it's worth thinking about this concept today.
Masturbate and then be on your way-
If you had EXACTLY the life you wanted (which would include a mad HOT sex life) what would it REALLY look like?
Okay, a lot of random questions to masturbate to.
There's a point here though- if you DID have the life you wanted, what would you look like?
Certainly you've thought and pictured what a better tomorrow might look like.
Certainly you've thought and pictured what you'd look like if you were having sex with 2 different models a week.
Certainly you've thought and pictured what you'd be like if you were having sex with 2 different models a week.
If not, think.
If the image of your future-self is dramatically different than the person you are today, you might be on to something. It's time to change. As cheesy as "The Secret" is, there's a lot of truth to it on a surface level. The idea isn't to trick yourself into imagining you are someone else but rather to make all the changes you can TODAY. That's what I got from it.
If your future self fucked girls in your super clean room that had nothing on the floor and your room is currently a fucking mess- clean your room.
If your future self didn't get mad when a person cut you off in traffic, then make an effort to not get mad.
If you future self did what he wanted, would he get stuck somewhere he didn't want to be?
If your future self walked around like a bad.ass.motherfucker and had a nice watch, you can make that happen TODAY.
Now we can't all go out and buy a whole bunch of shit or change our thought patterns in a single day, but we sure as hell can start.
If you can fix it now, you should at least try to fix it now.
Guys, you don't have a lot of time.
Whatever you want to do, whoever you want to be- start now.
I'm 29. I had more action (literally) in my life over the past 4 years than in the prior 25 years.
Where did my 20's go?
I actually don't think about it because I ultimately got to where I wanted to be.
Long ago, I contemplated what I'd look like and who I'd be after I nailed 50+ legitimately hot girls and actually felt secure in my life. That is basically the person that sits before you today, a few differences (I'm not a lawyer, I do some nutrition/training plans for rich people and I run an online creepshow [this] where I show my dick).
At the time I contemplated my future-self, I was a totally different person. (see: Good Looking Loser on the 5th Wheel)
Call it cliche, but when most guys have their sex life "handled," they become pretty selfless and their greatest sense of accomplishment is simply helping others. The freedom from emotional and sexual neediness lets you live your life the way you actually want to.
Back in January, I had a vision of something that I felt would "work" and an urge to tell my story. If I just brought an ongoing draft of it to life and tweaked it a continuously, I'd eventually get something that I was proud of- that vision was GoodLookingLoser.com
Here's an interesting question: In the past year, how many days do you remember?
(don't grab the Astroglide and jerk off to that)
The average person remembers less than 5, I've heard.
I can remember more days in the past 2 years than in the first 25 years of my life.
I'm not just talking about the days when I was banging some little girl that I was too big for and had that warm fuzzy feeling stick with me for the next 24hours. I'm talking about the good days and the bad days.
If nothing else, through the rough days of this process, you'll feel ALIVE.
That's more than most people feel on a daily basis.
When you realize your ALIVE, regardless of what you are doing- you are doing the right thing.
Your website is one of the best out there. I love this post. If we all did exactly what you are saying, we would all be happy. Keep doing what you are doing. You are an awesome inspiration to all men. I love the bathmate by the way.
Thanks Hans, I appreciate it man! Glad you like the bathmate too
Hah I like this article. I must say you motivate me to live the best life I can or at the very least try. My life would be better if I threw my computer out a window and went and spent my time talking to people, and this makes me want to do...
Hah I like this article. I must say you motivate me to live the best life I can or at the very least try. My life would be better if I threw my computer out a window and went and spent my time talking to people, and this makes me want to do that (while I am sitting on my computer reading about doing it). Ironic.
Thanks DAWG!!!!!!!! Just put in your time, pay your dues. Usually guys don't have to turn their lifestyle upside-down... Progress happens a little bit, every second.
Chris, what would you reccomend for me to start changing my life TODAY? Do you think phenibut will help me get over my approach anxiety? The baby steps are cool but I'm not willing to wait 3 months to get laid unless I absolutely have to.
I love this post. It's super internally motivating if you know what I mean. Taking advantage of imagining one's own future of who he wants to be to feel internally motivated to make BIG CHANGES in the present moment. Genius!
Appreciated GLL
I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
To anyone reading this, follow through, read this material, APPLY this material, and enjoy life.
Thanks again Chris, life would suck without you.
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