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Socially Inept--thoughts??? 03 Apr 2018 17:01 #300905

That is very practical advice. I think it is part of the solution. It probably sets how "academic" or "serious" I should be, and how much leeway I get for the "other" stuff: being social, having fun. Perhaps, their should always be a minimum for this leeway in order to achieve balance/ live optimally.
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Socially Inept--thoughts??? 03 Apr 2018 17:44 #300906

Thanks, I think your first line is true:
"On being more intelligent than others, that may be true, but maybe that’s alienating. If your goal is to gain social skills, you shouldn’t start rationalizing why you don’t have them."

Thanks for the advice. I feel really "weird", I guess, inviting people to my house. For instance, this saturday the afterparty of an event will be at my place. I have never hosted anything. It feels weird haha.

Also, the budget analogy seems very logical and applicable, and very useful too.
I will report on how the after-party goes.
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Socially Inept--thoughts??? 03 Apr 2018 17:55 #300907

"That’s the thing about being social. You have to be willing to become at least somewhat mainstream." AND
"I genuinely like it. But I had to make a little effort to meet the mainstream halfway, and I pushed myself to because it’s a mainstream music genre."
Thanks. That's the thing. To be social, you need to force yourself to be a little mainstream. And yes, there is nothing wrong with getting into popular stuff if you think about it. I also think it is true: I have to keep working on getting over the "I´m too good for this mentality".

Btw, sorry for the late reply. I was at my Senior trip. I actually got crazy drunk for the first time haha, I don't even remember parts of it haha. I can see how this will be some of my best memories :)
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Socially Inept--thoughts??? 03 Apr 2018 17:58 #300908

Gotcha. It would be a huge disservice to myself not solving this issue.
Thanks.
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