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Asked a girl out for drinks for the first time, any tips? 15 Aug 2017 22:18 #288857

So I asked this chick out for drinks and I've never done this before. I'm going through with it and idgaf because I need to step out of my comfort zone and grow. I got her number last weekend and we've been having small talk. Any tips on what to talk about at the bar? Should I get one the dance floor with her? Give me any advice you would feel is worthwhile. I don't want to drink before because I feel as though I would be using alcohol as a crutch.
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Asked a girl out for drinks for the first time, any tips? 15 Aug 2017 22:33 #288858

If you're comfortable on the dance floor, by all means!

Focus on her. Try to get to know her. When I go on a date with a girl for the first time, I play a game where I try to learn as much about her innermost workings as possible. I often ask her about her siblings, parents, ex boyfriends and her relationships with them. If you keep the focus on her personal relationships, you can actually learn a LOT about who she is as a person in a very short period of time. You'll learn if she's responsible, self-aware, kind, motivated; all that stuff.

If you want to skip out on the alcohol, that's fine. But, don't worry about the whole crutch thing. As long as you're not getting wasted just to deal with your date-anxiety, I don't see any reason why you shouldn't have a couple drinks.
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Asked a girl out for drinks for the first time, any tips? 15 Aug 2017 22:36 #288859

Just talk about mundane topics, if the girl likes you she will be comfortable to talk about anything. When you feel sure enough and you notice she is relaxed tell her you want to go back home to watch a movie, smoke weed, chill, make an excuse. If she is dtf, you are golden and she will agree. Sometimes they won't be completely sure that why you need to foreplay a bit to turn them on.
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