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So I took peoples advice and talked to a lot of people and made a group of friends when I moved in to residence. The problem is they're cool enough people but I only truly connect with 2-3 of them.
I didn't used to be an awkward guy but I feel from the lack of sleep I've been getting, and having to always talk/be around people in rez I'm just getting more and more socially awkward, like I only have the skills to have a basic conversation where I ask a lot of questions and don't talk a lot about myself.
I also find that I can have a pretty decent 1 on 1 conversation with someone but when it comes to groups I just can't be funny/interesting. This is both with guys and girls, was not the deal in high school as I was loud(maybe annoying) but didn't care.
I am in the top ~5% of looks of guys that live in rez so have still been able to bang 4 chicks in last two months and always have girls make themselves available to me in clubs and trying to fuck me from social groups. But I just don't feel like myself and am always stuck in my head/censoring myself when it comes to socializing.
Damn I can kind of understand your situation, I'm living in a small dorm(about 150 people) and I'm one of the most social people you'll find here, Initially it was fun as hell but after a year it's getting overwhelming, the zero privacy and the fact that you're in constant contact with people isn't always good(I still love it tho).
My advice would be to open up and start enjoying some activities with the guys here, forget about the fact that you're so good looking.. It doesn't matter as much with having friends as it does with girls.
Try to be a nice "helpful" person and hoards of opportunities will follow, don't be ashamed to invite guys to get a beer and sometimes "invite yourself" in a socially acceptable way to events!
You should really enjoy this tho and not force it into yourself, try to be comfortable while not isolating!
Some more info on the rez would help us give you tailored advice.
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