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I was reading the Namastain post about how Chris's friend Jared is a doer. He doesn't sit around and fantasize.
I am planning on throwing a party for my birthday, but I have been just sitting around fantasizing what I am going to do instead of taking action. I figure just writing out my plans is one step further than day dreaming. Fellow GLL's feel free to critique and give feedback.
I have a good rooftop public venue I can reserve in my building. I don't have a lot of close friends, but my friend's friends can spread words and get enough people to come out. The challenge is getting hot girls to come to the party. The reason I cold approach is because I do not want to date any of the girls in my social circle. If I just invite girls from my social circle, then it's pointless.
My plan is to print some business cards and give my event a name. I don't want to say it's my birthday. I am thinking of calling it a Pop up Lounge. Like a pop up restaurant. It will have an open bar, maybe a DJ if I feel like paying for it. I will cold approach girls and give them the cards and have them RSVP on FB to come. I will also spam text girls that I got # from that flaked on me. I know this will all be kind of low yield. Girls don't want to go to some party that they don't know anything about.
The other end of my plan is to get some photographers to come and photograph the event. I am thinking of getting some models to come too for cheap or free. If possible. I will collect a good set of pictures for my event. These pictures are for the future. If I want to have another party, I can show girls my FB group, instagram, or website of my event, showing cool, good looking people, and they will be more likely to come.
Lower on my agenda is to get other guys to pay to come. If I can establish that I have good looking girls at my event, maybe these guys will want to come. I go to some social events where average dudes talk to me, but I have zero motivation to converse with them. Promoting my event might be a motivation.
More importantly, throwing a party is to stretch my comfort zone, exercise some leadership. And as Chris and Jared said, trust your instinct. Part of me feel embarrassed with my idea. What would my friends say when these random girls show up for 10 minutes, get free drinks and leave. What about hiring models? Would they think I also hire prostitutes?
Well, at least I am writing this down rather than just thinking about it.
Next step is to print some cards. Cost only $10-20.
I have thrown big parties before: 2 were birthday parties and other ones were just for fun.
I invited all of my friends on Facebook and made it private but allowed invitees to invite their friends.
You should definitely invite all of your girlfriends and tell them to invite all of their friends.
For my parties, all of the random girls that attended were friends of friends or sometimes friends of friend's friends.
Also, you should definitely mention that it's your birthday. The birthday boy always gets love and I think people are more likely to show up if it's your birthday because they don't want to be assholes for not showing up.
If you need a DJ or bartenders, let me know. I have some friends that do this stuff and they're really good at what they do.
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