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So i got this social circle right, all guys are awesome etc. But theres a problem, theres only guys. I want to be the one who's bringing girls along when we're out or doing something. We always hangout without girls.
Thats not the only reason, i figured if i'd get girl friends i might get hookups thanks to social circle too.
Atm i'm not talking to any girl, actually there is one girl but our fb convos die out. She's in a relationship with my buddy so i see her sometimes. We get along well, but i don't know how to turn our friendship into more serious friendship. Basically i don't know how to talk to girls over facebook who i don't wanna fuck.
I don't want to become like a gay guy or something, i just want to expand my social circle. If i meet a girl she usually is receptive and it feels like she likes me someway. But i don't know where to take it from there.
Also, my other friend's girlfriend seems to not like me at all. She says i'm ugly, don't like when i'm close etc. I don't know whats her problem, but i don't like her attitude. If i'd say anything my friends would think i'm pussy or i'm overthinking etc.
You can straight up tell them you have a girlfriend (approach a group) and that you are out partying with your boys. Later, admit you fibbed because girls always think you are trying to hook up with them.
I'd recommend you tell them you have and don't have a girlfriend the same day.
Otherwise, be friendly and draw the line. What you do with your guy friends is about the same as what you'd do with a girl friend. You wouldn't pinch your best friend's ass and tell him he's a sexy boy, right? That's turning it off. =)
Then again, you can always turn it up for the girls in their group you like.
So you're saying i must meet new girls with cold approaching?? Damn that would be hard. But what about then?? Should i just call her out on my own or with my bros? Should i be talking to her alot in fb?
Wait a minute? I should be flirting with her? It's kinda fucked up if the girl dates my buddy doe.
Thanks for helping doe, i'll try to figure something out.
Yeahh you're right. I'm just not willing to put out hours of approaching to get laid.
Honestly, I have to vent a little bit, because it really bothers me when I hear shit like this. I'm not calling you out specifically SassyMF. I'm talking to the forum in general. People who get laid most from daygame don't walk around for hours at a time approaching women in the street. Only PUA faggots do this. In fact, I seen some of these punk asses walking downtown recently. I know who they are because they plaster their face all over the RSD inner circle page on Facebook, they plaster pictures of themselves of them talking to girls, clearly letting everyone know that they are massive dorks and talking to a girl is actually a big deal to them. I understand that there are exceptions to this rule. Someone like Hollow or Hunk for example has walked around and approached women for long periods of time, but this is an exception to the rule.
Don't get me wrong, I spent 100+ hours during one summer when I was finishing the AA program. Beginners need that immersion period where they approach tons of women for 6 months to 1 year.
I approached around 2000 women from summer of 2014 until the end of 2015. When I first started I needed to approach 100 women to get laid. Now I need 45 approaches to get laid. This isn't speculation. I literally count every approach and log it in an excel document because my friend and my NIGGA BIB (one of about 5 guys on this forum who ACTUALLY FUCK GIRLS) told me to a couple years back when I was first starting out here. After your immersion period of approaching 1000-2000 women, it's time to keep it real and scale it back to 1-4 women a day.
Despite what key board warriors (which literally 98% of these queers are) say on GLL and other pickup forums, day game is the most efficient way of picking up women. If isn't for you yet, it's either because 1) you're a beginner (and in this case, I respect you and you should continue to spam approach) or 2) You have no idea what the fuck you're talking about because you spend your whole day posting on this forum rather than making shit happen for yourself like a WINNER.
Anybody who says daygame is inefficient has no idea what they're talking about, because I approach women everywhere when I go about my daily business. I never go out strictly to approach women. I approach women literally whenever I see an attractive woman. It's not hard to approach 4 women a day when you live in any city that is 500,000+. You probably see 15-20 attractive woman on a daily basis, it's not hard to approach 3-4 of them.
I feel like beating the AA program is a requirement and if you're afraid of cold approaching (as in afraid that you have to do it, not the approaching itself) then why are you here because that is basically the point of these forums.
Get ripped - get style - beat AA - approach women - get laid - get paid.
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