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SmoothOperator wrote: Don't mean to sound harsh, but if a lot of weird guys go to meetups, and you go to meetups aren't you kind of like them?
Not offended. I get it and have had similar thoughts.
But there's a slight difference. Back home I have my usual friends from school and sports and whatever else growing up. We're just into normal stuff, no drama.
Now, personally I don't know people because I moved here and just don't have the beginning of a network. You need a few people to meet more.
The other guys situation is slightly different. They've lived in the same place their whole life and DO have a network from school and growing up, yet nobody wants to hang with them, and once I get to know them, its obvious why. They just can't chill they're odd dudes.
I'm not meaning to judge. I just think I'm fairly normal. But if I meet other normal guys it's usually shit talking at a bar but people are drunk. Asking another guy for their number to get together again just feels weird. I've actually forced myself to do it just because of lack of options so why not. But usually they won't really respond to some dude they met in a bar the night before. And I can understand why.
I've been reading this thread and tha actually makes alot of sense. Even though I didn't play sports when I was in high-school I remember my first year of playing football. Even though I didn't start or I barley played JV I gained more friends that way. Makes sense good advice.
Get my shit together = Having my own place, Get my body the way that I want it= getting down to sub 10% body fat. Having sex with women, only after I've reached my goals.
I have made friends with some cool, advanced guys in pick up due to being a good wing. How to be a good wing? Don't be afraid to approach, hold sets down, game the friend if your wing has a girl, take constructive criticism, push yourself.
I will only mention what worked for me and that's doing a martial art (not a fitness gym).
Because it's hard and you're hitting eachother and in a way you build a large mutual respect for eachother. Some of these guys I barely said 10 words to but I feel like I know them very very well just from seeing their sweat and effort.
All my best friends come from martial arts. It's like having 20 gym partners.
goals: don't fucking know not gonna commit to anything until I actually properly, live or die commit to it.
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