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I have wanted to post about this for a while but never have. But my logistics are whack and I don’t know how or if I should care. I have met a few women recently that seemed to go a tad bit cold, not necessarily 100% but definitely in my opinion lost a bit of interest…. I can’t for sure say what or why.
I Face-time a new girl who I have never met and she asked me did I have my own place. I was caught off guard and I said yes. She says that’s good, a lot of guys I have met don’t and that’s one of the weird things I have come across online, grown men not being independent and not having their own”. She is 25 and has her own apartment and says why I would want to date a guy who doesn't. Most of them end up being immature or lack drive etc. just listened and I realize this is a common thing especially from women who are successful.
I’m in my late 20’s and I still live with my mom. Most females who hear that probably are quick to stereotype and maybe they are right in certain regards. My take on it is
I have no kids
I don’t have a serious girlfriend
I have no debt
I have no criminal record…all these factors are great in a mate but they are not on the surface as telling a woman you live with your mom.
My mom does not have a bf/husband or any significant other. I have a room in the partially remodeled basement but of course the kitchen and bathrooms are on the main floor.
So would it make since to move out and pay 800 plus dollars a month to bang a few chicks here and there or to just sit there alone? I understand that women look at revenue as high value. I can’t change that. The house that I am in will and can be mine if I want it.
But would it be better to tell women it’s my house and my mom lives with me be better than the other way around??
I hear ya.. I just goggled people who are in similar situations and most say it does matter or it may help if you word your living arrangement's a certain way. My mom honestly doesn't want me to move and we have a 5 bedroom house. Still its not as much privacy as would be needed. I cant freely cook and be romantic like I would like.
But I know to some women its a huge red flag/ turn off. I just have to word it differently when they ask me... They may help a tad bit..
Id like to hear chris's take on this...im not positive but if i remember correctly scotty whos in his 30s was living at his parents house and crushed it...id lie if i was you untill you fuck said girl...that way if she is shallow and bails on you, you atleast got what you wanted...play 2 win.
From my personal experience. Coming from a hardcore party lifestyle I "stayed" at home until I was about 24. I lived for the weekend so I would mostly stay at my best friends place that his mother owned but let him watch over so essentially ours in an upscale neighborhood rent free.. I technically lived at home so when the free ride ended and I went back home to mommy witch was very hard considering my lifestyle. I usually told girls that I had recently broken up with my gf who I shared an apt with. And being the nice guy that I am "I let her stay there until she can make arrangements"
Former drug user not abuser
Very experienced with social interactions
31 and constantly looking for self improvements
IMO if you don't have good logistics/your money situation handled, you should focus on that first if you want to maximize your number of bangs
I am speaking from personal experience. I live with my mom right now and it severely limits what I can do in terms of meeting and banging girls. I have been in situations where I have had good logistics (for example vacation) and have banged 2 girls the same night (on more than 1 night) just because I was closer to central areas like nightlife
Edit: obviously I knew what I was doing, too, but being a 5-10 minute walk from bars and clubs helps a lot
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
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