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Alright man, just make sure to stand your ground. You don't seem too torn on the issue of this particular friend so you should be fine, but I know for me (with family) they see it as blood is thicker then water and all that shit. Fuck that, do you.
Mainly wanted to respond though to add something related to both this and Chris' new article about people who are content with dull, plain lives. I realized as I ate breakfast that part of why I'm able to spend 10+ hours a day improving myself in one way or another and not wanting to just play xbox or drink is that i've finally climbed over that hill of removing unhelpful people.
However, I think while removing unhelpful people you (eventually) want to start adding positive role models and peers with something to offer different than what you already have. Anyways, this is all kind of tangent to my real point:
Getting rid of negative friends expands way past real life -- It means social media too.
I'm not saying delete that uncle off facebook or whatnot, but I am saying to block their posts at least. Not that you should be on facebook much, but while i'm eating breakfast I'm either listening to a podcast or i'm browsing instagram/facebook/twitter. You may think the latter sounds much less productive but for me it isn't. Because who I follow on instagram is 90% money/gym/social related role models. Twitter is the same. The only things I see are people I KNOW have succeeded and live a life that i'm trying to strive towards. When that's all I see even when I try to be lazy and spend 5 minutes on instagram instead of getting shit done, I find it impossible for me to live this "content life" that Chris just referenced in his article. I've been this way for a bit now but didn't really connect the dots until i read the article this morning.
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Dude Just cleaned up my Instagram and facebook. Feels good that I'm not following things I don't care about.
I talked to my friend about the negativity yesterday and suprisingly he was really understanding. I'm going to think of as an aquaintance now, as I realize I don't feel my best when I'm around him. I seem to relapse to my mindset of last summer, a lot more negative.
I've talked to him, will still see him ocaisonally but I think it's best for me not to be around him that often.
Good course of action! If he is understanding don't avoid him completely, but use your time without him to become who you truly want to be.Once you are comfortable with being positive and not giving a fuck you could do stuff with him again, because his negativity possibly won't drag you down then, and maybe your positivity rubs off on him.
I'm saying this because I had a friend that I thought I had to get rid of completely, but once I was on my path he started to understand and suddenly was a nice friend to have.
Goals for 2015: -Find a 'healthy' alternative to painkillers (Done!) -Create a Kratom website that generates income (Done!) -Get back to 80kg bodyweight again (Done!)
Goals for 2015/2016: -Reach 90kg bodyweight (Done!)
-Reach 98kg bodyweight (91/98kg)
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As someone said it got bad again, he really disrespected me. I told him off and then the next day realized I was done. Told him I don't want to hang out with him or text him anymore but if we end up at a mutual place like the same I won't be weird about it . Feels great to be honest.
Make the necessary changes to achieve the goal you set for yourself for 2015. Your friends might hinder your ability to get laid if there constantly cracking jokes or trying to out due you. I had a friend who's now playing major league ball. He was my friend not only because he was cool but because he was a positive person to be around he also pushed me in the gym. If you don't like to be around this guy or if his making things awkward and hard for you when your out and your trying to hit on women then don't bring him. If his clingy you could still keep in touch.
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