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- walked around a bunch of stores yesterday in an outlet mall and probly saw 15 smoking hot girls with the nicest asses. Honestly was not in the best mood but just wanted to be around some chicks and didnt care if we didnt talk at all.
- told a cute girl employee at old navy i thought she was really cute. She was puting some clothes on a rack and hesitated while looking back at me. I kept eye contact with her while i slowed down walking and repeated " your really cute ". The way she looked at me and said " thanks " was like she was getting wet. She was probly a 6 but had a great ass. Should have talked to her..
- saw two really hot girls at the dollar store but then realized one of the girls was actually the mother. walked right up to them
me: " are you the mother..? "
(both of them look at me) why yes i am, why?
me: " your both beautiful.."
Both of there faces lit up and they both said thank you at the same time.
- had some very short small talk with a few customer service girls when they asked if i needed any help. I just said i was looking for christmas presents everytime. The stores were DWS shoes, journeys, some jewlery store ( i made the girl laugh by saying the store made me claustrophic and it was like a maze ), victorias secret ( this girl was probly 5 ft with the most amazing ass, solid 8. The way she held my eye contact makes me wonder if she was interested.. )
at the end of my night im chilling at my parents house watching the thursday night football game. I was pretty much feeling lonely and depressed so decided to drink some wine. Started calling / texting every girl in my phone ( not many ). I ended up getting a hold of the stripper from the day i did my first cold approach (read back about a week if you dont know what im talking about). We start having some conversation about her veganism (is that a word?) and i realize shes actually a lot smarter than i thought she was and im very much enjoying the conversation. When i first asked what she was doing she said she was chilling with her friend watching netflix. At one point she says her friend said "she wants me to invite you over " to which i replied very quickly " let me come over, it will be fun ".
Long story short i end up at the girls house and im feeling damn good from HH1 and a solid wine buzz. Had a great time talking with her and the friend (the friend was really fucking into me but wasnt anything special at all ). I ended up getting the stripper to take some kratom and she loved it. The friend ends up leaving later on and i say " yeah ill leave in probly 20 minutes " to gage her reaction. She says " i dont want you driving since youve been drinking ". I ended up drinking some of her tequila ( once i start drinking i just wanna keep drinking ). After that everything is fucking blurry. But basicly we went to bed to actually sleep but i remember rubbing her pussy and kissing her, massaging her neck, cuddling. I feel like we may have tryed to have sex (honestly, i dont fucking remember ) but that clearly wasnt happening. Ended up waking up at 5:30 and once again realizing i cant seem to sleep in the same bed with someone else. Ended up slowly slipping out of the bed and quietly getting dressed then bounced.
I texted her around 7 am saying " sorry if i got too touchy feely last night. Honestly dont remember what happened at the end of the night. "
Im 50/50 right now that i probly fucked everything up but have no clue. I left my phone at home and dont even want to read her response because i dont want it to be bad. That sounds bad but honestly right now im feeling really great. Just being able to cuddle last night was really nice and something i had not done in 3 months.
The moral of this story, cold approaching is the shit. Im so fucking excited to get back out there and see what other cuties i can get my hands on.
Thanks dude, yeah i agree even if i never end up seeing her again that was a huge boost for my self esteem last night. Either way im hanging out with a girl tuesday night and i just made plans to chill with this girl from POF for sunday. This has been such an eye opening week for me honestly. Going out and seeing how many chicks are into me is literally killing any neediness i feel. The best part is i have SO much room for improvement... im not even close to scratching the surface. Pretty soon im going to be upgrading my clothes / style.
Maxing out looks and social freedom. Its all happening brother....I FUCKING LOVE THIS SHIT !!! GLL 4 LYFE !!!!
i appreciate it Ronin but like i said a few days ago im positive my social skills were not really the problem. Its been purely a case of anxiety/ depression / low testosterone. Things have been going really good. Just need to keep working hard and not get complacent.
She texted me later that day asking why i left and if everything was ok. We texted back and forth for awhile and basically long story short shes looking for a boyfriend. No idea whats going to happen with her but i plan on taking her to a dinner and a movie soon. I know dates are frowned upon here but honestly i havent been on one in forever and it sounds kind of nice to me, plus i just need the experience. I have two other girls from pof who are down to hangout and starting this week i plan to start cold approaching like a mother fucker.
Friday and saturday night i pretty much accomplished nothing besides exercising a little bit. I took loads of kratom and hung around my parents and watched football ( which was kind of nice actually ). I did this because it was important i didnt spend time by myself. Ive only hungout with this girl once but can tell she really likes me and i like her (atleast im very attracted). It really made me miss having a girlfriend which then brought on thoughts like ( what if we date but then she dumps me ). Just fucking irrational bullshit. My solution to this problem is hitting the numbers hard both on POF and cold approach ( when i can push past the anxiety ) and follow the retention guide as best as possible. With your guys help i know ill be able to keep my composure. The last girl i was with ( who was also the hottest girl ive ever been with ) ended badly because i became no challenge at all and pretty much wanted to be around her 24/7.
Only did one compliment yesterday. Told this employee at JCpenny she was really cute. This girl seemed really into me and i should have tryed to do something. My excuse is that i took my first day off of kratom after about 2 weeks of daily use. Also i was fasting so all of this was giving me some shitty anxiety. I'll be going back sometime in the future though and will ask for a # no matter what.
Later today i have plans with this girl ive been talking ( texting ) off and on for a few months now. She has a kid and i dont expect anything but i genuinely enjoy talking to her so dont mind being a friend ( i could use one). Were going to some health food store near Michigan state university.
Also last night made plans with a girl for thursday night. She lives about 45 minutes away but wants to come over. I sent her a dick picture randomly when we were talking since i was feeling crazy horny and was curious to her reaction (ive done this quite a bit in the past and its usually gone well). Well she wants to hangout so well see. Theres a 50/50 shot she might flake. Ill post pictures of her later.
Talked to the stripper on the phone last night and apparently she was " put off " by how i left early in the morning without saying goodbye. This girls one of the most challenging ive ever had to read. Im going to break off contact until the weekend or maybe even monday. My looks are really starting to take off since ive been trying to max out so ill send her a picture saturday / sunday and see how she responds.
POF has been much more promising lately since i put up a shirtless picture. The awesome thing is i can improve it a lot. Once im confident my profile looks solid ill post it up to see what yall think. Still need to lose some stubborn body fat around my hips and ass.
Meditated for 30 minutes this morning and really need to stay consistent with this which i have. Might have missed 7 or 8 days total in the last two months.
Been feeling pretty damn good lately which im crediting mostly to working out more. Sex drive and erections are improving a lot, perfect timing since a girls coming over tomorrow night and seems DTF but nothings 100%. Heres some pictures of her
EDIT* Im really terrible with computers and apparently the pictures didnt upload right. I'll be figuring this out soon so it doesnt happen again. Just dont care enough right now.
Last night i went and hungout with the mom from POF for the first time. I knew going into it we would just be friends and thats exactly how i felt about her. Nothing much to look at but a really sweet girl and just cool. We went to the health food store and i was blown away by this place. They literally had everything. Ended up getting some raw cinnamon, raw ginger root, raw valerian root and some Kombucha which she said i had to try. I even talked to her about kratom and convinced her she has to try it with me ha. I thought it would be weird since she brought her daughter with her, but the little girl seemed to really like me and she was actually very funny to be around. All in all i had a good time and we will chill again.
Ive been thinking a lot the last couple days about the law of attraction. Its something i take pretty seriously and ive realized that since ive gone about giving people compliments and just being nicer in general to people only good things have been happening. Then i caught myself being very selfish for a few days and things started to really drop off.
Im going to go cut my hair and whiten my teeth then go out to the mall and give compliments as much i can and small talk people. I'll push to do some approaches as well but wont get down if i dont. Just need to be around strangers today and get some good momentum going.
- Ive been dealing with some bad jaw / gum pain the last few days and its really been a 24/7 problem. I had to dig out a popcorn kernel friday night (i think) that was lodged very deeply in my back right gums near the wisdom teeth. Had to literally dig it out to the point of bleeding and it seems it got infected. Ive been taking a lot of alpha lipoic acid for my immune system and kratom for the pain. Also ive been swishing around lots of coconut oil, apple cider vinegar and hot salt water to keep it clean. All of this seems to be working and i think its healing but still may need to go to the dentist.
- Havent accomplished much the last week and a half which is depressing but i have about 3 girls in the fold that look promising.
- My sister and 1 year old niece are in town for thanksgiving so ive been spending a lot of time around them. This has been good for my social skills and overall well being. My sister was the captain of the cheer team in highschool and just generally one of the hottest and most popular girls in her grade back in the day. Shes 31 now but still very much beautiful. Anyway my point is that she can be a huge bitch sometimes and extremely critical towards me. The way shes been treating / talking to me since shes been here has been very validating and giving me an ego boost that ive needed. She complimented how she can tell ive been working out and that i look good. We were gonna go to yoga class together but i didnt get any sleep the night before since i was treating my mouth pain.
-the mom asked if i wanted to go to the health food store today but im most likely going to pass. Still have some time to change my mind.
- My ED exercise routine seems full proof and ill be posting it up soon. Im getting solid morning erections and random boners from time to time. Sex drive is still up and down though.
Im changing this to my own personal diary like ive noticed a lot of guys doing lately. Does anyone know how to change the subject name and how to put this in a different section?
Goals for today are to clean my place, take care of mouth, Read a book, do some ED exercising at a slow pace, shower, shave, hang out around family.
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