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I have to say though: (for me personally) desensitization isn't permanent.
If I haven't talked to a stranger/anyone that doesn't live in my house in 3 days, I find it even uneasy/uncomfortable/slightly odd to talk to the girl at mcdonalds to buy me a burger.
Even if I spoke to a 100 strangers every single day for a month. And I wouldn't talk to anyone for a whole month after that, I'd be just as - if not more - sensitive to human interaction again.
Captain Ramius wrote: I like this, Ive got a couple cool / funny stories from back in the day i can talk about. Although i cant do a vlog since i dont own a computer at the moment ( this is by choice ) .
Mission accepted Ronin
I have a good story of how I almost lost my wallet at the movie theater a month ago, lol
Very hot and classy dressed woman walking out of barnes n nobles.
told her she looked really nice as i walked by and made sure to have eye contact. She looked at me curiously and hesitated (i look pretty good today i think) before saying "thanks".
My voice sounded pretty unconfident but i was able to say "you look really nice" very easily and a lot quicker compared to yesterday.
Also some pretty girls walked by and one made eye contact with me and i held her gaze for a good 2 maybe 3 seconds before she looked away. Slow progress
on a side note I got my fish oil that dangerandplay recommends in the mail today. I decided to mega dose and took 20 grams so far today. All i can say is ive been hornier than ive been in atleast 2 months. I ended up jerking off in my parents bathroom earlier, if i didnt i wouldnt be able to focus at all. And at the book store all i could think of was past sexual experiences with girls and i ended up getting a random boner for a couple minutes. This hasnt happened in a long fucking time, god bless fish oil.
a powerful tip I learned about Conversation is being a better listener from David Wygant, and Johnny Berba, here are their quotes:
“Everything that comes out of her mouth, is basically she’s giving you clues, giving you an indication as to what she is doing, so you can expand on that, and use that as continuing the conversation, your basically using the material she speaks out when she’s talking to you back on her rather than thinking of what to say next, it’s about being in the moment, being present." Johnny Berba
"If you are able to listen to what a woman is saying, and I mean really LISTEN, then you'll be able to comment on it, because it is going to bring out an emotion, a story, or some way of connecting to it. And that's what a conversation is, it's two people sharing experiences, thoughts and stories, and as a result, they both feel more of a connection when the conversation ends.
"Let's think about the flow of a conversation with a woman. When you're having a good conversation with a woman, you'll talk, she'll talk, you'll talk, she reacts to what you say, you react to what she says, and the conversation moves forward. It feels natural and doesn't require lines or canned routines.
You definetley don't keep talking about the opener, which i know a lot of guys get stuck on. Many guys get trapped, because they are so focused on remembering this great opener they just learned, and they pulled it off, but then completely find themselves out of anything to say. And then they'll find themselves in the worst situation ever. Silence. Awkward silence that seems to last forever, because they don't know what to say, because they were not listening" David Wygant
the only hard part is, is that often times the girl will not be saying much in conversation, one-worded responses, and I don't know if that is because I broke the ice, approached her the wrong way, or it's something about the girl, because if the girl is not saying much, it's hard to "Listen" to her in terms of being able to make a comment, statement or tell a story about.
Also sometimes when the girl says something that is not a one-word response, actually says enough to "Listen" to, sometimes I can't think of something to expand on what she said because it's something i'm unfamiliar with, well depending on what she is saying, like it depends if she mentions something that i'm familiar with, that I know about is when i'm able to make a comment or statement, expand on what she is saying, it's hard to put this into words. I believe some girls will naturally be easier to talk to than others will.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
Kratom is next!
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