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Thank you very much for doing these interviews. If there is another episode, I would like to ask a question, too.
What is your advice if one started early in business and never had a pick up phase. Chris suggested that girls come before making money and I kind of agree.
Thing is, I am to far into it now and live of my business at 22 years old. I am confident that I can become a millionaire by my late 20s.
Nothing in moderation is the key. But I still feel like I miss out on so much fun. 90% of my time is spend working. I go to the gym 3 times a week and take care of my looks but underachieved with girls so far.
I am stressed a lot of times by the high's and low's of business (my industry is not as stressful is Kratom tho) so I rarely feel like going out on the weekends to clubs and hit on girls.
It's a shame because I know that I have potential if I put in the work. Currently I just don't see light at the end of the tunnel so to speak.
Successful entrepreneurs told me to never stop and always keep pushing.
You, Chris said, nothing in moderation.
With business I feel like - unless one would sell out for a couple millions - there should never be time to relax aka focus on other things.
Do you have any advice on how or when I could prioritize women in my life?
PS: I know that I can get women. Since my 2.5 year relationship 1 year ago I sleept with 6 girls. Most from social events / club and 1 cold approach. Still if I would dedicate actual time and effort to getting laid + improving my looks this number could be higher or at least the girls could be hotter.
Appreciate everything you guys talked about. Thanks for answering all my questions. Again, if either of you ever need anything, message me.
You've given me clarity and reiterated what I already knew - just focus on writing and helping people and not being a shill/marketer.You'll figure out the money later on once you have an audience of dudes who trust you.
Interesting neither of you ever had any doubts about your sites/helping guys - I've had doubts from the moment I first came onto GLL. I doubted I'd actually finish the AA program, I doubted I'd ever get laid, I doubted I could have 3somes, I doubted I could get strong in the gym, or have a loving relationship, or make friends, or start my website and be a good coach and actually get paid to help other dudes.
Doubt has been a constant theme in my entire life, but I've always ignored it and just done the work anyway - often just on blind faith. "If I keep pushing myself and NEVER give up, I just have to hope this will eventually work out". I'm actually GLAD I have so much doubt, because learning to push forward and achieve things despite the doubt is what's made me into a man.
I just assumed EVERYBODY experienced that constant level of doubt - it's fascinating to me you two didn't (in this particular case at least - referring to starting blogs). Clearly a case of some people being higher in neurosis/doubt than others.
I listened again to the latest podcast. Seriously inspiring. I was also listening to Chris's old fundamentals videos and rules of success. I've been facing a rut when it comes to pussy making it impossible to give myself permission to move on to business which as Chris/DC07 (and BIB if you check out his business thread) have noted is FAR more challenging.
These podcasts are an absolute godsend. Two guys who 100% get it and are all about the bigger picture and achieving excellence and doing whatever you want rather than the cheap, marketing driven pua drivel that pollutes the internet. God bless you guys.
Fuck yeah, thanks Derek and Chris. You guys are awesome
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Great podcast. Couple of things really stood out for me
I've been heavily into the party scene here in Sydney for the last 6 months or so, and like Chris very close to the guys that run and 'supply' this scene - to the point where I feel I need to cut out soon for the sake of my own sanity. The main difference is I've only just started trying to get laid seriously these past 3 months.
I get where dc7 and Chris are coming from on the travel/backpacking front - but as someone that has been on that ride for the past 2 years I feel the need to defend it as an option for GLL guys. Especially the younger GLLs. Going to write a forum post on how to go about it, my experiences and the positives it has returned for me personally.
Social loser til 19
Virgin til 22
Now I travel, party and get laid
Stuff to do:
Stick to cut and gym schedule
Make dat money
Great stuff guys, thank you so much. Agree 100% that this is entertainment at best unless you put yourself out there. There are some interesting concepts tho like:
-you don't have to travel to achieve your goals, you just have to live in a big city. This resonated quite a lot with me.
-expose yourself to normal stuff and not just self improvement content, once in a while. You don't hear this very often in the personal development sphere.
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
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