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Hunk- I have the exact same issue. I live 30 minutes away from the bars, and I literally have no friends to go out with in the area. I like to smoke/ be alone so its far to easy for me to just say fuck it and stay in.
However, my best nights and the nights I actually make it out all have one thing in common. Commitment. I'll start early in the week and tell myself I'm going out on Friday night. On Thursday I check in with myself and reassure myself i'm still committed to going out. If any doubt creeps in you have to reassure yourself immediately. Don't even think for a second about changing your mind or else you probably will. Also I noticed my nights became better and more consistent when I prepared for the night. I hate to use the word psych cause you don't want to psych yourself out, but I have the best nights when I have all my shit in order. The little shit counts and the less you have to worry about when your out the better. Ie clean room, clean clothes, shower, gym that day, good meal in you, clean car, etc. etc.
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Such a great point. Having a routine and being social during the day before you even go out is really key. |
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I agree with moveon... I would love to see occasional field and lay reports from you klbsa.... Only because you seem like an elite guy and it would be educational and motivation
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I was planning yesterday to go out by myself, I didn't do it. Don't know where you can really approach If all people go In groups, and all circles are closed, really fucked up situation |
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I could really use this, 21 years old and have no friends and I let that discourage me from going out. All my suppose friends who I now consider acquaintances all flake on me. I've gone out alone already twice and it is very hard approaching groups of girls by yourself and I had a very similar situation to what you had in your most recent video about the first girls you approached.
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Great effort Chris.
I guess the main point will be how to actually find friends and have a social circle instead of just picking up girls? In my opinion going out with friends, having a healthy social life and learning how to pick up chicks in those circles through being cooler and more assertive is more important than becoming great at hitting the town on your own and going home with a girl. Personally, I used to go out alone with the goal to fuck a girl the same night. I didn't have many friends at that time and put more effort into chicks. These days I'd rather have no flings at all but a hot girlfriend and a cool group to party with, so I don't need to go out alone instead. |
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Many of us here don't have well developed social circle. Best way to find some girl is through friends group, but for now some of us need to do it by themselves |
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It would be cool is makavelli could chime in, I believe he goes clubbing alone but I could be wrong
Don't pm me asking questions if you are not going to message me back with a thank you after a lengthy answer or if you are going to debate with my experiences. If you can't say please and thank you, ask your mother to teach you some manners.
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keep this thread going - i love all the concerns/perspective you have, some of this stuff didn't really occur to me or i didnt plan to expand on.
TELL ME what you want covered i have a whole outline written, but there's holes in some areas this series has been tougher to write than I expected (more on that later) the reason that guys don't go out alone isn't just 'approach anxiety' --- its deeper than that (don't feel part of the scene) that is the hardest part for me to bridge Please no Private Messages. Post thread on with the word "Chris" or "GLL" in it if you absolutely need to get my input. Thank you for your understanding.
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