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Chris points out that most of the girls you'll sleep with from cold approach will be around your level or slightly below. I really don't know how worth it cold approaching is as a 4-5/10, since I'm unlikely to approach or even want to sleep with many 3's. I'm pretty sure you do have to be above average to make it worthwhile, average and above girls rarely sleep with average or below guys, they really don't need to as the marketplace for casual sex is heavily in there favour. |
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I'm definitely not saying to have a rehearsed routine. You don't need to do that. But there is a confidence that girls can immediately pick up. If you come up to them and seem interesting like someone they want to talk to, they'll be attracted. That's all I'm trying to say. It is hard for me to say where you stand there. To be honest though, the areas of improvement aren't quite my forte. Chris has a bunch of articles here though that may speak to you. I'm probably biased, but I'd hit the gym. That would be my #1 suggestion. Though, it's not for everyone and I understand that... |
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I'm definitely not saying to have a rehearsed routine. You don't need to do that. But there is a confidence that girls can immediately pick up. If you come up to them and seem interesting like someone they want to talk to, they'll be attracted. That's all I'm trying to say. It is hard for me to say where you stand there. I'm not opposed to doing it, just don't want to have to spend another 2 years being FA/incel. I definitely don't have that charisma/confidence/whatever but I'm pretty sure there isn't a lot I can do about that. Maybe it will come with age/practice but its not anything I can make a quick fix of, if anything it will probably be slower than putting on muscle lol. |
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Honestly, from your posts I doubt your problem is with your looks, it's how you carry yourself, I know a lot of above average looking dudes that get no girls cous they have no personality and they're awkward, the truth is your looks is like bait a girl may be initially attracted to you but if you're boring and awkward they will become uninterested, I know a lot if guys who go to the gym religiously, they dress nice, they do a lot to look good but they never approach girls and when they do they're very awkward, on the flip side I know dudes that are less attractive and they actually try to get laid and they succeed , it's all about putting in the time and effort and numbers, personally I joined this site for the hairloss I never had a problem approaching girls but I notice a lot of guys do, that's why they don't succeed.
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There always is something you can do about that man. Yea, it's not easy, but life isn't easy. They put together the AA program for that reason. You should do a couple things that work for you. If you can get in the gym, do it. Still talk to girls in the meantime to get a bit of confidence there. It's all just practice. Hopefully, you'll get more and more comfortable with it. |
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@OP Your body is fine. Stop mental masturbating and start approaching!
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I didn't think the "Get Hung" guide would have girls eyeing my bulge. It did.
I didn't think that your exercise and diet advice would have girls checking me out. It did.
I DEFINITELY didn't think that your hair-loss prevention would fix my hairline. Not in a billion years. It mother fucking did. You saved me a crazy amount of time, a ton of money, unnecessary pain, and destroyed my #1 source of anxiety. DESTROYED IT.
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