TOPIC: Would you have sex with women you arent attracted to?

Im in a bit of a predicament. I came to this site for the simple fact that Ive never had sex with a woman that I was really attracted to (lets say true 8s and above). Most of the women Ive had sex with were incredibly bland, thin women and a few women who were 35 plus that were also very bland looking (but likely good looking when they were younger). They weren't ugly (excpet 1), but they weren't exactly attractive either. Think of super thin Asian types (no athletic bodies, no great asses, no great tits etc) with average to below average faces.

Regardless, Im on a major cold streak. I havent had any sex in almost a year and have been quasi addicted to porn for the last 3 months. I also have not had consistent sex for more than a month at a time since college (where I was having it 5-10 times a week, albeit it was in a relationship... this was 4 years ago).

The last girl I fucked about a year ago put me into a depression and was the start of my year long cold streak. She was the only fat girl Ive ever fucked and it was disgusting. Ive fucked unattractive women before, but she was the least attractive and had no redeeming physical qualities. I mainly did it because I was horny and lonely at the time. It was a tinder match that cost me nothing. She literally came to my apartment, we fucked and then I waited outside with her as she waited for an uber. With that being said, I was truly disgusted at myself for fucking her being that I was not attracted to her in the slightest

Lockdowns have been rough on me mentally as all I can do is online dating (until very recently) and the results have been incredibly mediocre.

My ultimate goal is to be able to consistently have sex with women that I actually find attractive, get that out of my system, and then try to form long term relationship with a woman that I actually find attractive.

So my question is the following: Should I pursue 5's and 6s just to get out if my cold streak and build up from there? Or is it a waste of time?

The benefits of pursuing 5's - Gain experience, get out of my head mentally, have a more abundant mentality, etc

The downsides - depression, not pursuing what I actually want, opportunity cost of not going after hotter women..

I know Chris has an article on here stating that if you have the choice of sitting at home by yourself or fucking a girl that you arent that attracted to, you should always choose the latter. Let me know what you guys would do in my situation.

Don't worry about the fat girl thing. I've done it before too when I was really down on my dick. It isn't that bad when you're drunk, but you're always hit with that feeling of disgust and self loathing afterwards.

I'd say take what you can get for now. Ugly girls usually build you up a lot from my experience. The good ones try to make up for the fact that you're out of their league by being really nice and stroke your ego. Fucking fat girls is still better than getting nothing, but that's just my opinion.

And just because you settle for some fatties doesn't mean you have to stop going after the hot girls. Just think of it as a stepping stone. You have to slay some dragons to get to the queen.

5s and 6s aren't that bad. I think you should be asking is if you should pursue 1-4s. Dude, I've had my share of really ugly girls. I did what I had to do at the time, there's no shame in it.

Edit: On second thought, I see what your point is. No, I would not fuck girls I find really ugly today. I can't bring myself to do it. In my last year of Uni, I got almost no action. I really considered banging fat chicks, I even went to the house of two fat girls(on different occasions), I just couldn't pull the trigger. But I will say that I'd bang the shit out of 5s and 6s in a heart beat, just not anything less than a 5.

sabanMiles11 wrote: The last girl I fucked about a year ago put me into a depression and was the start of my year long cold streak. She was the only fat girl Ive ever fucked and it was disgusting. Ive fucked unattractive women before, but she was the least attractive and had no redeeming physical qualities. I mainly did it because I was horny and lonely at the time. It was a tinder match that cost me nothing. She literally came to my apartment, we fucked and then I waited outside with her as she waited for an uber. With that being said, I was truly disgusted at myself for fucking her being that I was not attracted to her in the slightest

You answer your own question here.

sabanMiles11 wrote: I know Chris has an article on here stating that if you have the choice of sitting at home by yourself or fucking a girl that you arent that attracted to, you should always choose the latter. Let me know what you guys would do in my situation.

I don't believe Chris every truly banged a fat girl. To him a girl not that attracted to was more like your thin girls I'd imagine.

If you wouldn't be happy to be seen in public with a girl, you're not getting any validation from banging her.

I banged too many girls way under my level from the "lower your standards" advice and I'm way better off now that I have higher standards.

Gotta dream big to live big.

@RogerRoger I feel sort of like you now. There was a point in my life where I wanted to have sex just to prove to myself that I could actually go out and do it. And it was accomplished. Now I want to up it to girls that Im attracted to (like true 7s and above), but Ive been on a cold streak for a while. So i might just bite the bullet, go on some dates with some 5's, get a couple lays out of my system and try to get some momentum going again