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I’ve been on a handful of dates since getting tinder and with a wide range of looks, super hot to average to below average. And I have fucked girls in all those ranges. And after a few months, this is what I’ve noticed.
The girls who are less attractive than their pictures (and are just overall not very attractive), are some of the most boring individuals you will meet.
At first I was trying to convince myself that this was simply the halo effect. But then, after seeing this multiple times, again and again, I have come to the conclusion that less attractive women have a more sour soul and simply have less good energy surrounding them.
Hot girls are far more feminine, more excited on the dates, and just seem like much happier individuals. This goes very much against the common stereotype of hot girls being stuck up or having no personality. And not only this, they also seem to be far more likely to be dtf and have much less of a “shield” surrounding them on the date.
2) What is your sample size? How many girls have you banged?
3) Does any of this really matter? None of this is helping you get laid more - it's just mental masturbation. Best thing you can do is go talk to more girls, not sit here theorising. GLL is all about taking action.
Yeah Andy is spot on. When anyone has a "handful" of experience any time wasted on theories or trying to make sense of these women's actions is a waste of time. Basing this generalization on two subjective things "attractiveness" and "boring" is flawed from the start because your taste can differ from whoever reads this post
You are better off spending that time you are thinking about past girls on new girls who most likely look and act completely different than the ones you already met. If all girls personalities were simply linked to attractiveness then screening wouldn't be a thing
If you are going to place any weight on generalizations of girls with attractiveness I'd say that girls who are top 5% (consensus hotties-always the hottest in every bar) are MORE LIKELY to have a guard up because they get constantly hounded by guys more than less attractive women. I would say the less "in demand" girls WHO ARE AVAILABLE are generally more likely to put effort to compensate for looks if anything and that's a stretch. Even so, real life body language and how a girl reacts to your presence (initial eye contact) or words are the real life signs that overrides any pre-approach generalizations you have made.
Then again, I've approached dozens of "less attractive" girls who weren't even fuckable just for fun/practice/boredom and they react like a runway model shooing away a stray dog. There's too many fucking variables under that hairspray. Making sense of girls pre-approach is a LOST CAUSE. Just approach new ones
I think it's because people want to socialize with good looking people more, so hotter girls might just have more social experience, and therefore better social skills. Unfortunately, some girls tend to be not as nice to average or ugly girls, so those girls don't get the social experience of having a lot of female friends.
Youngish HOT girls take care of themselves, know what they want (in terms of sex), and get approached less often so they are receptive to dudes who they deem hot. Below average girls can be jaded and have a sense of inferiority. There are no hard and fast rules but this is a GENERAL observation.
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