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A few remedies have been recommended to me. I'm not sure which ones actually work, but you can find out for yourself.
-Eating red meat
-Blend the white part of a watermelon with some water in a blender, strain it to get the pulp out, and drink it
-Taking Phenibut (this stuff is amazing for socialization. I have not tried having sex on this yet but I'm going to try ASAP)
-Drinking red wine
BIB raises a good point however. A lot of this ED stuff is due to anxiety and inexperience, not necessarily porn per se. I still had dick issues even when I had been off porn for 2 months. In my experience, the best "remedy" is being with a girl several times (at least 4 or 5). After that, your dick/body will naturally feel more comfortable around her and it'll get hard way easier. I'm assuming you haven't had a lot of sex and just have been using porn, so your body is basically conditioned to get hard mainly just from sitting down and jerking it to girls on a screen, not actually having to perform on girls in real life.
It sounds like this girl really likes you since she's willing to see you again. You should be relieved because many girls will write you off (sometimes in a harsh way) for not being able to get hard. When I'm having dick issues I just try different ways of jerking my dick to get the blood flowing. Sometimes one way works better than another. Does she give head? That can help, along with just patience in general. If you can get hard (even if it only lasts 10 seconds or less), I usually just slip inside her quickly before it goes soft and then start fucking her. As long as you're in a sex position you like, it should stay hard.
But really that's all just my experience. You need to work with this girl and find out what gets your dick going and what positions work for you. If you really can't get hard, the least you can do is finger her and give her oral.
If you really just want a quick fix, just use the Cialis I guess. You might have to use it as a crutch while you get the issue sorted out more fully.
Hope this helps since I'm in a somewhat similar position.
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str8chaser2002 wrote: You can take L-Arginine capsules, 2000 mg a day, but you should also take L-Lysine with it, only 500 mg of that.
Something that is considered to be more effective than L-Arginine is Citrulline Malate. Citrulline Malate turns into L Arginine in the body once digested. I don't remember the science behind it, but I definitely have taken it before for Bathmate sessions and my dick would get harder sue to increased blood flow.
But I think BIB is right, you have to work this out psychologically.
Try the Citrulline Malate or whatever and if that doesn't work then just go with a low milligram doae of Cialis.
Also, maybe try watching porn while you fuck the girl. My first ever same night lay suggested this to me after I lost my erection because her vagina stank. LMFAO. And I barely knew rhis girl.
This girl likes you obviously. If she asks Just tell her you get nervous and the porn helps you stay focused.
Inexperience is a major reason why you might not be getting up. Nerves get the best of you. "oh shit. If I don't fuck her brains out the first time, she's going to think I don't know what I'm doing." Chill.
First time with new chicks ain't the best fuck, most of the time.
Make the goal enjoy yourself. Easier to get comfortable that way. Best of luck.
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