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Easy to say as a tall white guy! (joke for people who can't tell)
I'm not black but I think at the end of the day, if you're a cool guy, it doesn't matter ("above the noise")
Yea some girls won't like you because of your race/ethnicity but it will be a small number. Especially if you're in a multicultural country like the US
This past weekend I was in
and eventually was partying with some Ukrainian girls
(FYI - when I talk to non-Asian girls in Thailand, they usually want nothing to do with me because no hate - girls don't usually go to Thailand for the guys - they probably think I'm a local/can't tell the difference between Asians)
I was trying to hook the girls up with my friend (white) and a guy he knew (Asian) since I was with a chick, and the white friend told me that one of the girls said that her friend doesn't like Asians
Fast forward a little later and the same girl told me that her friend liked me (would've banged if I wasn't with a girl)
Like, I was probably one of the top 5 having most fun people in the entire club, whereas the other Asian guy was honestly quite boring. The one Ukrainian chick probably started to think of me as... me. And not just "another Asian guy"
(I get the impression that Eastern European, e.g. Russia and Ukraine, people are pretty anti-Asian minus the ones that love
The same would probably apply if you weren't just another black guy but thechangeup
Just do your best since race is something you were born with (and should be proud of IMO)
Though with regards to the article, "contrast game" (I think GLL calls it Mr. Juxtaposition) is a thing for sure.
E.g. black but not looking like a thug
E.g. Asian but having tats/dressing edgy (a lot of girls say something about my tattoos/the way I dress - think Justin Bieber but less gay)
And so on
I think I told you this story already but back in my PUA monkey days, I was approaching girls on the street with a black guy
I was going in all PUA monkey flashy style, which some girls liked
But the black guy (also big and jacked - I am 5'9", Asian, and skinny) did that and a lot of girls FREAKED OUT like they thought he was about to kill them
World isn't always fair but just gotta make do
Former 21 year old virgin
2013: 1 lay
2014: 0 lays
2015: 7 lays
2016: 38 lays
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