TOPIC: Accepting that girls are also seeing other guys

I'm really trying to get laid again. Something I'm coming across is that dtf girls are also seeing other guys. How do you learn to not care or should this be a deal breaker? I guess I'm just a little insecure about sloppy seconds and STDs I guess.

You fuck other girls.

Sounds pretty simple, just the idea of someone else's sloppy seconds just gets to me.

Pick up a virgin then?
Idk, cannot really feel how are sloppy seconds bad.

I used to be like this. I thought it was "gross" if girls were fucking other guys, I deliberately wanted virgins and would seek them out.

I fucked 4 virgin asian girls and guess what - virgins are totally shit in bed. It's boring as fuck.

So if you have a "fear" of girls that sleep with other guys, go fuck a few virgins or conservative/shy girls. You'll find them boring as shit and you'll want a taste of more sexually-open girls.

I fucked 4 virgin asian girls and guess what - virgins are totally shit in bed. It's boring as fuck.
^ My recent experience with one and I agree

Girls sleeping with guys is part of the game. Some girl that randomly fucks a stranger, such as yourself, is likely playing the same game of being a "player" and wanting to fuck around

To expect otherwise would be a bit "unfair"

Living in a sexually open society means you get to fuck random girls.
The flip side is the girls get to fuck random guys.

Fact of life

This just implies u don't have options(not claiming that I have as of right now) and u got a oneitis for some girl.
Don't be offended if I am wrong, just stating what am I reading in between the lines of your first post.

If this is the case, the answer was given: go fuck other girls, agree with above posters, virgins are garbage in bed plus all the discomfort when she is super tight and etc.

I'm in the same boat as you OP.

The way i see it there's two factors. One is the physical factor and one is the non physical factor.

Physical:
This one's pretty simple, I don't want another dudes cum as lube. Hell sometimes I even like to go down on random's occasionally.
But at the end of the day you don't know if you're the 3rd dude in 24 hours. That's physically disgusting. And if you're worried about someone bringing up a double standard, don't be. There is an objective difference between a wet internal cavern that leaks jizz for hours afterwards and an external dry shaft which can just be wiped off.

You have no idea or control of her movements, at best you can just ask her if she banged anyone this morning or something probing "Do anything exciting this morning?" But she's probably not going to tell you, so her answer will be the same in both outcomes, so you can't go on her answer.

Physically you're only option is to get her to shower, if she doesn't smell freshly showered when she comes over, just tell her to shower beforehand. Unless you're going to discreetly smell your fingers and try to guess if it smells like cum then that's your only option.

Non physical:
I'm going to disagree a bit with everyone else here. If you're just possessive of chicks you bang that's ok. It's a feeling you have and I'm not going to try to tell you to just "stop feeling what youre feeling" I get where you coming from, there's a stage between random slut and girlfriend where your just FWB and you don't care about her, you just don't want anyone else banging her.

You got two options. Move her up or down in the rankings.

Down: treat her worse and just as a masturbation aid so you don't care who else uses her, or move her up and go for commitment.

The second option is what most people advise and it frankly sucks imo. "Accept that she sleeps with other guys" This doesn't solve the underlying issue and essentially boils down to being ok with losing. Which is a fucking shit sandwich, but you don't really have any other options so you might as well learn to love the taste of shit.
"Learn to accept it" is shitty advice but there's nothing else.

I'd go with option 1 and make yourself think less of her. And it's been scientifically proven that the best way to do this is to bang more girls.

Helping wrote: I'm in the same boat as you OP.

The way i see it there's two factors. One is the physical factor and one is the non physical factor.

Physical:
This one's pretty simple, I don't want another dudes cum as lube. Hell sometimes I even like to go down on random's occasionally.
But at the end of the day you don't know if you're the 3rd dude in 24 hours. That's physically disgusting. And if you're worried about someone bringing up a double standard, don't be. There is an objective difference between a wet internal cavern that leaks jizz for hours afterwards and an external dry shaft which can just be wiped off.

You have no idea or control of her movements, at best you can just ask her if she banged anyone this morning or something probing "Do anything exciting this morning?" But she's probably not going to tell you, so her answer will be the same in both outcomes, so you can't go on her answer.

Physically you're only option is to get her to shower, if she doesn't smell freshly showered when she comes over, just tell her to shower beforehand. Unless you're going to discreetly smell your fingers and try to guess if it smells like cum then that's your only option.

Non physical:
I'm going to disagree a bit with everyone else here. If you're just possessive of chicks you bang that's ok. It's a feeling you have and I'm not going to try to tell you to just "stop feeling what youre feeling" I get where you coming from, there's a stage between random slut and girlfriend where your just FWB and you don't care about her, you just don't want anyone else banging her.

You got two options. Move her up or down in the rankings.

Down: treat her worse and just as a masturbation aid so you don't care who else uses her, or move her up and go for commitment.

The second option is what most people advise and it frankly sucks imo. "Accept that she sleeps with other guys" This doesn't solve the underlying issue and essentially boils down to being ok with losing. Which is a fucking shit sandwich, but you don't really have any other options so you might as well learn to love the taste of shit.
"Learn to accept it" is shitty advice but there's nothing else.

I'd go with option 1 and make yourself think less of her. And it's been scientifically proven that the best way to do this is to bang more girls.

Dude just the comment about girls magically carrying cum in their pussies without it falling out made me laugh at you.

But on top of that, you have no idea what women are like. The only thing you have right now are fantasies and movie interpretations of women. Go get more experience and you will see the light

Helping wrote: I'm in the same boat as you OP.

The way i see it there's two factors. One is the physical factor and one is the non physical factor.

Physical:
This one's pretty simple, I don't want another dudes cum as lube. Hell sometimes I even like to go down on random's occasionally.
But at the end of the day you don't know if you're the 3rd dude in 24 hours. That's physically disgusting. And if you're worried about someone bringing up a double standard, don't be. There is an objective difference between a wet internal cavern that leaks jizz for hours afterwards and an external dry shaft which can just be wiped off.

You have no idea or control of her movements, at best you can just ask her if she banged anyone this morning or something probing "Do anything exciting this morning?" But she's probably not going to tell you, so her answer will be the same in both outcomes, so you can't go on her answer.

Physically you're only option is to get her to shower, if she doesn't smell freshly showered when she comes over, just tell her to shower beforehand. Unless you're going to discreetly smell your fingers and try to guess if it smells like cum then that's your only option.

Non physical:
I'm going to disagree a bit with everyone else here. If you're just possessive of chicks you bang that's ok. It's a feeling you have and I'm not going to try to tell you to just "stop feeling what youre feeling" I get where you coming from, there's a stage between random slut and girlfriend where your just FWB and you don't care about her, you just don't want anyone else banging her.

You got two options. Move her up or down in the rankings.

Down: treat her worse and just as a masturbation aid so you don't care who else uses her, or move her up and go for commitment.

The second option is what most people advise and it frankly sucks imo. "Accept that she sleeps with other guys" This doesn't solve the underlying issue and essentially boils down to being ok with losing. Which is a fucking shit sandwich, but you don't really have any other options so you might as well learn to love the taste of shit.
"Learn to accept it" is shitty advice but there's nothing else.

I'd go with option 1 and make yourself think less of her. And it's been scientifically proven that the best way to do this is to bang more girls.

Yes because girls just spend all their time going from one guys bed to the next.......

This is not Grinder and the gay hook up scene.

Helping wrote: it's been scientifically proven that the best way to do this is to bang more girls.

WHAT!? And thereby expose your freshly wiped shaft to even more crusty deposits of cum stalactites!!?

^ No, moron, you wear 5 condoms and cover her pussy in clingwrap + aluminium foil + babywipes first. That way the cum can't touch ur ding-a-ling.